Hello!
I have a 3 node cluster running on Rocky Linux 8. These servers are my staging environment running in Vultr in the same datacenter. However, this issue also occurs in my production environment with 3 bare metal servers connected to the same switch. I just prefer not to test/experiment on my production systems.
More often then not when using mariabackup, the donor is stuck in Donor/Desynced indefinitely even though the joiner has finished the sst and is Synced. Sometimes this issue will not occur, but it rarely works correctly. Attached are the following:
Donor Logs
Joiner Logs
mariadb config
Thank You!