Million thanks, Henrik ..
I am on debian and the logs are in /var/log .. with some going into /var/log/syslog
No errors show up in the logs of either the active cluster node and the node wishing to join .. It is just like they are ignoring each other ...
Or it it possible that I am being too impatient in expecting immediate signs of joining attempts for an empty node. The DBs here add up to 2-3GB ..
-- So, is it possible that an rsync needs to be run first by the current donor before the join happens?
-- What are the signs (log entries) on the master that could indicate attempts by a node to join ?
I have double-checked, and:
-- wsrep_on is indeed set to 1
-- the node name, ip, wsrep_url is all set up fine .. with the active cluster node set to gcomm://
-- netcat from the new node to port 4567 on the active node cluster works, so not a firewall issue
-- show status like 'wsrep%' insists there is no connection and wsrep is off .. on the joining node .. but I am able to logon to mysql on the joining node and use it normally ..
-- I am not setting wsrep_notify_cmd on either node .. is this a problem?
Any suggestions on what else I may need to do ?
Thanks again for the assistance ..