Update: I've solved the issue by using Ubuntu 24.04 instead of Debian 12 and avoiding the update of all packages during the installation process of the os.
Apparently, this breaks the installation process of galera manager.
This current version of gm (1.9.1) seems working fine. I've created a cluster with 3 nodes, all of them with ubuntu 24.04 and mariadb 11.4. No monitoring and sync issues at all. I'll do further tests in the next few days.
Thank you all :)