Kenny
thanks a lot for the update
so as you suggested i need to do the following changes
on my server.cnf i need to add
innodb_import_table_from_xtrabackup = 1
after that and server restart i need to run first
innobackupex --defaults-file=<CNF> --user=<MYSQLUSER> --no-timestamp --password=<MYSQLPASS> <BACKUPPATH>
innobackupex --apply-log --use-memory=<USEMEMORY> <BKPTEMPDIR>
that way i will prepare my database for restoring right?
after that need to create the table on my server , ALTER TABLE mydatabase.mytable DISCARD TABLESPACE; , copy the files and then ALTER TABLE mydatabase.mytable IMPORT TABLESPACE;
is that correct?