The women quote is interesting. I paused on it a bit when reading it through yesterday. I'm wondering if this is a result of the nature of our reproductive methods, wherein the male enters the female, along with the dominance males have had throughout most of human existence. Also, does it matter who is doing the thrusting, or is only the entering the main issue with this topic? Not sure if this is where the discussion should be, so sorry for any who may feel awkward reading this.
I definitely agree with your second post Maria. We have a very difficult time actually hearing our fellow humans. I think we learn a bit how to do that in programs such as this, and some people simply have these skills more in tact through their social development than others. I think complete objectivity is a myth, to a certain extent. I struggle a bit with every single question being framed in a subjective view, (for example 2+2=4, whatever one entity defines what we call the number two of some type of thing, if I add two more, I have whatever other entities call what we call four, of them). But back to your point, it's much more difficult to say "well I respect your opinion but disagree and here's why" and for both individuals to be able to engage in this sort of dialogue, with mutual agreement to disagree, respectfully, than it is to denounce one's view or one altogether. I'm also not so sure this is just with individualistic societies. Even collective societies, I think, would struggle with this issue of one being right vs wrong, even if they have the family or society at the center of their main concern. Perhaps not, but I would contend it's a rather human thing to view issues from a self perspective, and it is a much more difficult undertaking to view things from another's perspective. We are simply not born with a heightened ability of empathy, it is something that some have more of than others, but none have it to great depths without significant positive development and practice... maybe.