pi1 has become unresponsive again, as promised I'd post the output of clusterctrl status.
I also ran the other cmd's suggested in the troubleshooting guide (as I can't make it fail when I want to).
I'm using the CNAT image and connect over WiFi. I also setup the following iptable to forward my app on pi1 to my LAN.
br0: flags=4163<UP,BROADCAST,RUNNING,MULTICAST> mtu 1500
inet 172.19.181.254 netmask 255.255.255.0 broadcast 172.19.181.255
inet6 fe80::ca6:e4f:a956:70cb prefixlen 64 scopeid 0x20<link>
ether e4:5f:01:1c:ff:f6 txqueuelen 1000 (Ethernet)
RX packets 2259257 bytes 3354436608 (3.1 GiB)
RX errors 0 dropped 0 overruns 0 frame 0
TX packets 1245967 bytes 71317268 (68.0 MiB)
TX errors 0 dropped 0 overruns 0 carrier 0 collisions 0
brint: flags=4163<UP,BROADCAST,RUNNING,MULTICAST> mtu 1500
inet 172.19.180.254 netmask 255.255.255.0 broadcast 172.19.180.255
inet6 fe80::6c8c:63ff:fe34:e2c9 prefixlen 64 scopeid 0x20<link>
ether 6e:8c:63:34:e2:c9 txqueuelen 1000 (Ethernet)
RX packets 0 bytes 0 (0.0 B)
RX errors 0 dropped 0 overruns 0 frame 0
TX packets 82 bytes 8660 (8.4 KiB)
TX errors 0 dropped 0 overruns 0 carrier 0 collisions 0
eth0: flags=4099<UP,BROADCAST,MULTICAST> mtu 1500
ether e4:5f:01:1c:ff:f6 txqueuelen 1000 (Ethernet)
RX packets 0 bytes 0 (0.0 B)
RX errors 0 dropped 0 overruns 0 frame 0
TX packets 0 bytes 0 (0.0 B)
TX errors 0 dropped 0 overruns 0 carrier 0 collisions 0
ethpi1: flags=4163<UP,BROADCAST,RUNNING,MULTICAST> mtu 1500
inet6 fe80::222:82ff:feff:fe01 prefixlen 64 scopeid 0x20<link>
ether 00:22:82:ff:fe:01 txqueuelen 1000 (Ethernet)
RX packets 2259257 bytes 3354436608 (3.1 GiB)
RX errors 43 dropped 0 overruns 0 frame 43
TX packets 1245997 bytes 126144252 (120.3 MiB)
TX errors 0 dropped 0 overruns 0 carrier 0 collisions 0
lo: flags=73<UP,LOOPBACK,RUNNING> mtu 65536
inet 127.0.0.1 netmask 255.0.0.0
inet6 ::1 prefixlen 128 scopeid 0x10<host>
loop txqueuelen 1000 (Local Loopback)
RX packets 23 bytes 1930 (1.8 KiB)
RX errors 0 dropped 0 overruns 0 frame 0
TX packets 23 bytes 1930 (1.8 KiB)
TX errors 0 dropped 0 overruns 0 carrier 0 collisions 0
wlan0: flags=4163<UP,BROADCAST,RUNNING,MULTICAST> mtu 1500
inet 192.168.68.135 netmask 255.255.255.0 broadcast 192.168.68.255
inet6 fe80::ad66:17e3:795c:dc06 prefixlen 64 scopeid 0x20<link>
ether e4:5f:01:1c:ff:f7 txqueuelen 1000 (Ethernet)
RX packets 6438949 bytes 311433737 (297.0 MiB)
RX errors 0 dropped 0 overruns 0 frame 0
TX packets 11555147 bytes 425776110 (406.0 MiB)
TX errors 0 dropped 0 overruns 0 carrier 0 collisions 0