Hi Evgeniy,
The graceful_decommission_timeout enabled in autoscaling properties only applies to cluster scaling operations driven by autoscaling and will not appear in the UI. To verify that the timeout was set properly, run 'gcloud dataproc clusters describe <CLUSTER_NAME>', and the autoscaling properties should be visible under config.softwareConfig.properties.
In the UI, it is also possible to set graceful decommission timeout for a single cluster scaling operation (when editing the cluster configuration).
Hope this helps!