I realized after I started meditation, I completely stopped dreaming or if I am dreaming I no longer recall my dreams. Prior to meditation, I constantly dream every night and remember multiple dreams within one night. What do you think this could mean?
When your meditations are effective, you are not in a subconscious state. You are in or approaching superconsciousness, which is a very good thing! Perhaps your superconscious mind is dominating your sleep/dream-life now, which would be a very great blessing.
These tips for confronting your fear will help you build confidence and reduce your fear, but you may want to talk to someone about mental health treatment if you think you suffer from social anxiety.
When I was working several side jobs and launching my business, I was so scared people would think I was unfocused, flaky, or unprofessional. Why? Because I believed the myth that successful professionals stick to one thing.
Q and A Tuesday side to side, we dance together. As one today's question is from Shannon and Shannon writes, I often feel like my family and friends don't understand me, my passions or my business. How do you get over the fear of judgment by others, especially from family. Ooh, that's a juicy one. Shannon, real juicy Shannon. This is a really common question, especially for those of us who have unusual businesses, but the very first thing you need to do is this, to get a check, just set before you rest yourself, before you wreck yourself.
Hmm. Here's what I mean. Shannon. We, human beings have an ability to get others, to judge us for what we judge ourselves for. Ooh, that was deep. If you're at all insecure or unsure about what you do, you have an ability to evoke a reaction in others. It's as though you have this big blinking neon sign above your head that says, ask me about my business. So you can judge me for how weird it is. For example, when I was in my early twenties, I was really insecure about saying what I did for a living, because it was weird and nontraditional. Remember I did like five things. I was a hip hop dancer. I was a writer. I was a coach, all kinds of stuff. I would actually get people to ask me what I did for a living constantly. So here's, what's interesting. The moment that I stopped judging myself for being a weird multipassionate entrepreneur, the frequency of people asking hi, what do you do for a living?
Went down drastically. Coincidence? I think not. So the first and most important step is to stop judging yourself. Once you got that under control, here are four more action steps. You can take. Number one, don't just assume they're judgemental a-holes because they don't get what you do. What about this? What if you've never really taken the time to explain it to them? Number two, if you've explained it to them and they still think you're weird, then you need to stop trying to go for their approval, wanting to change how people think and feel about you is crazy. Like cuckoo crazy. Come on. Now that is therapy 1 0 1. Number three is to be happy. Now I know that sounds trie, but here's the thing. It's really hard for other people to judge you. If you're happy, you're making money and you're living your life. When I first started out, my parents didn't know what I did for a living.
And frankly, they still don't really understand it. All they know now is that I'm happy. I don't ask for money to borrow from them. I'm a happy camper. I call them all the time. I love them. That's it. But B number four is get a power posse. You really need to have a crew of people that you can hang with that really get you and your business for me. I have a whole crew of internet marketers that I can hang out with. We have drinks, we have fun, and I never have to explain what a squeeze page is. That's pretty cool. So Shannon, that is my a to your queue. Thank you so much for asking it. Now, if you have a story to share about people judging you or not getting what you do, leave your story in the comments below. If you like this video, like it, share it with your friends in social media land. And of course, if you never wanna miss an episode of Marie TV, come on over to MarieForle.com, Jump on the newsletter list and I will catch you next time. Thanks again for watching it's Q and A Tuesday. What do you think of this and this bling always trying something different.
Given your struggles with depression and self-esteem, you might be thinking: easier said than done! This is certainly true, but it does not mean that it is impossible to live a life closer to the one you imagine; it simply means that you need to get treatment to address the depression and self-esteem. Right now, these issues might be all that is keeping you from working on making your fantasy life a reality.
You can avoid this by finding a therapist who you believe could be a good fit for you and setting up an initial session. You might even set up an initial session with a couple of different therapists and see who you feel most comfortable with. Once you believe you have a good match, work on building a strong therapeutic relationship and when you feel ready, open up about your fantasy life. As the depression and self-esteem issues begin to be addressed and you open up about your fantasies, you just might find that these very fantasies will become your road map and your therapist will serve as a supportive guide as you follow the map to your dreams.
This is a very humble opinion, but I find that d&d and other pnp games can have a very therapeutic effect. It takes a good company of people with the same mindset and this is difficult, but taking on the role of a persona in the confines of a game with other people is easier to manage and can have a self analyzing effect. At least this happened to me. Of course you have to be careful not to be sucked in the game (very easy to happen), but I still think that the trade off is worth it as the game can help isolate the fantasy and your friends and co players can support you
I am depressed and anxious. I often go to bed and try to imagine a different situation. It almost always involves myself committing violence against a lot of people whom I see as enemies or threats. The fantasy is completely impossible, as I am very old, I have a terminal illness and do not have enough education of the right kind to carry it out.(although the Internet has lots of instructions.) Also I am closely watched. The fact that my fantasies are impossible just makes things worse. Maybe the accumulation of stupid and pain-causing decisions on my part over the years is just too much. I cannot set things right. I constantly replay events in the past that may have hurt people terribly. The memories just attack me.
thanks. this article is sol helpful. cause i have also the same probleme. drive myself into fantasies or things that i want to do in my life. i hope it will not be a great mental problem for me. i will able to keep control of my mind.
I have always lived in a fantasy world. That s what kepr me going. I couls not imagine how horrible life qould have been wirhout it. I feel lucky to have this escape, but embarrassed too. My them changed atdifferent ages. The most persistent theme was me becomming famous as a singer or actress. or even dancer. And having everyone in awe. I wish I knew why I do this, because it disturbs me although it s like my best friend when I need that rush of excitement. Thanks for sharing
I have been daydreaming since a very young age. I had a very volatile family and used to get hit a lot by my mother. There was a lot of pressure at school and very young, i realised i was gay. I used to fantasize and plot stories in my head to the minutest detail. I am in college now and i havent done it years until Covid-19 hit us and now that i sometime on my hands, i have started day dreaming for hours again. I have an important submission coming up next month and im using it to escape the stress and my fear of failing at it. This thread makes me feel less alone because like CJ wrote, i fantasize everyday to get to sleep.
In real life, when I lived in that house, I spent a good deal of time painting, designing T shirts and greeting cards. When we eventually moved from that house, I stopped creating art because I was focusing on building my career as a professional Dream Analyst. So that house and that room in that house represent me the artist.
In a nutshell, dreaming of your former home will typically mean there is something from back then you either need to bring into your current life or that you need to leave in the past. The questions above should help you figure out what it is. Life is all about growing and improving as we move forward in time. Our dreams advise us on what to leave behind and what to take with us along the way.
When I was 11 years old I would dream of going back to my old house. I would rember seeing my 2 beds, the kitchen, and my parents room. I went into my room and sat onto the bed then I woke up and I had that same dream just in different places of the house
I lived in my childhood home from 1977 until I married in 1993.
Last night I dreamed that we were there again my family was with me . Hubby, grown children and strangest of all my dad who passed away 2015 and grandmother who passed in 2016
I was neutral in feeling. Neither happy or sad.
tafsir al ahlam, There is no shielding law through after which we can verify ourselves completely against mix-ups. That is the motivation behind why the thinkers, who encircled the principles of the rationale and created the methods for exchange and assembled the contentions of theory, fell persistently into mix-ups and left as the inheritance of their numbness many false thoughts and mixed up ways of thinking and vain talks.
Im not pregnant and my fiance and i were having a baby girl in this dream but the house we were in was my grandmas old house she lost it before she past away and i didnt tell my family i was pregnant until she was born and when we took her home her room was my grandmas old room. I walked in her room and it was decorated perfectly with toys everywhere and purple bed sheets and purple walls. Then we were making food in the kitchen and everything started too turn into a nightmare where the baby girl disappeared and the food turned too worms and all the walls started falling into blackness and I was just floating there wishing everything would just come back but then i woke up and fell back asleep and the dream started over again till i woke back up the next morning. It was the weirdest continuous dream ive had in a long time.
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