There is not good evidence that malic acid itself makes a 6.8% cider intoxicating faster than a malt beverage at the same ABV. The important distinction is between total alcohol consumed and how quickly that alcohol is absorbed.
Studies show that the rate of alcohol absorption can vary substantially with the beverage, food in the stomach, alcohol concentration, and gastric emptying. Beverage type can therefore affect the timing of peak BAC, but that does not establish malic acid as the cause.
At 5 g/L malic acid, your cider is quite acidic, but I wouldn't tell servers that the malic acid makes it inherently more intoxicating than a beer or malt beverage of the same ABV. There doesn't appear to be convincing human evidence demonstrating that effect.
One factor worth considering is carbonation. Some controlled research has found that carbonated alcoholic drinks can produce faster alcohol absorption in some people, although the effect varies considerably between individuals.
So, if your cider is 6.8% ABV, the safest and most scientifically defensible message to the beverage manager is simply that it contains 6.8% alcohol, and serving size and drinking rate should be considered. A person can certainly feel intoxicated sooner depending on how quickly they drink, whether they've eaten, body size, and individual metabolism—but that's different from saying the malic acid "amplifies" alcohol.
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