Bilyeau Stocum's family needs our prayers

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Lorig...@aol.com

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Jul 14, 2008, 12:41:05 AM7/14/08
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Bilyeau's sister Button was found deceased in her home in Hallett
today. I am sure there are quite a few of you who remember her. I
have been friends of the family since I was 5 years old and know how
close this family is. This is going to be a very trying time for them
as things progress. Please remember them in your prayers to help them
with their lose. I will let you know of the funeral as soon as I
can. And if any of you have contact with the class of 1986 and 1985
please relay this message.

Sincerely,
Lori Gaches

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Jul 14, 2008, 10:08:45 AM7/14/08
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OMG that's horrible! Any word as to what happened?

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Jul 14, 2008, 10:10:43 AM7/14/08
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My thoughts go out to them.
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Date: Sun, 13 Jul 2008 21:41:05
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Subject: Bilyeau Stocum's family needs our prayers

LeeAnn

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Jul 14, 2008, 10:28:55 AM7/14/08
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We will keep them in our prayers. Keep us posted as to what details
you find out. The Bailey Family.

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Kevin

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Jul 14, 2008, 4:10:04 PM7/14/08
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Thanks Lori. I'm sorry to hear that. I'll pray for them.

Do you happen to know how I can contact him? I was trying to locate contact
info for him when the reunion thing came up but was unable to find anything.

Kevin

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Lorig...@aol.com

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Jul 15, 2008, 1:31:37 AM7/15/08
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Kevin the only number I have is his cell but I haven't called it in a
couple of months it is 704-2043. If I see him I let him know your
trying to reach him the funeral should be in a couple of days. I know
she hasn't been released to the funeral home as of monday afternoon.
But with it being a murder investigation I don't know how long that
kind of thing takes.

On Jul 14, 3:10�pm, "Kevin" <cklene...@gmail.com> wrote:
> Thanks Lori. �I'm sorry to hear that. �I'll pray for them.
>
> Do you happen to know how I can contact him? �I was trying to locate contact
> info for him when the reunion thing came up but was unable to find anything.
>
> Kevin
>
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> On Behalf Of Lorigac...@aol.com
> Sent: Sunday, July 13, 2008 9:41 PM
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> Subject: Bilyeau Stocum's family needs our prayers
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> Bilyeau's sister Button was found deceased in her home in Hallett
> today. �I am sure there are quite a few of you who remember her. �I
> have been friends of the family since I was 5 years old and know how
> close this family is. This is going to be a very trying time for them
> as things progress. �Please remember them in your prayers to help them
> with their lose. �I will let you know of the funeral as soon as I
> can. �And if any of you have contact with the class of 1986 and 1985
> please relay this message.
>
> Sincerely,
> Lori Gaches- Hide quoted text -
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Lorig...@aol.com

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Jul 15, 2008, 1:46:49 AM7/15/08
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Button's death was the one on Channel 6 they used her married name
Renee Bixler (we all know her as Button). Her husband (Mark Bixler)
beat her to death on Friday or Saturday (she hadn't been heard from
since Friday) and her husband called Buttons dad Sunday telling him
where he left her. According to the news they caught him in Florida
and now they have to wait to send him back here. I just pray he gets
what is coming to him, he took her from her kids, grandson, family and
friends. To bad her brothers didn't catch him before the police did
so they could of given him a taste of his own medicine. When I hear
more I let you know. Just keep them in your thoughts and prayers they
are going to need them with this tragedy. I let Bilyeau know everyone
is thinking about him.

kisla...@yahoo.com

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Jul 15, 2008, 9:01:02 AM7/15/08
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How awful. I'm really sorry to hear that horrible news. My thoughts
and prayers to the Stocum family. -- Kim B.

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Jul 15, 2008, 9:18:18 AM7/15/08
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Someone should have caught him first, I agree. Then again, death is too good...too easy. Stick him in a cell with a big old guy named Bubba.
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julie_...@yahoo.com

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Jul 15, 2008, 10:19:39 AM7/15/08
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I'm not a tv watcher...had no idea...there are no words... Lori, if
there's anything that needs to be done, let me know and I'm there. If
there's any area they need help with during the funeral or afterwards,
just let me know and I'll make arrangements. Same for you, if you
need a sitter, let me know.

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Lorig...@aol.com

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Jul 17, 2008, 1:09:29 AM7/17/08
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First where was this note sent out to? Or should I say to who?
Buttons funeral is Monday July 21, 2008 at 11:00 on 3rd and Lewis in
Tulsa for the service I don't have the name of the church yet and will
be layed to rest in Hallett Cemetary. There will be a dinner at the
Hallett Community Building at 4:00 p.m. For those of you wanting to
pay your respects. I have talked to Bilyeaus dad and he said that the
numbness of it all is wearing off. And everyone is coping the best
they can right now. In regards to Rebecca's note--I don't know about
the drug issue, I know she had problems in the past and has been
trying to turn her life around because of the grandbaby. And if he
told her dad he killed her why would he tell them to go check on her,
just shows how pyscho the idiot is. What to make sure he didn't need
to come back and finish the job!! But as far as calling his kids 2 of
them was at Buttons dad's house and the other one was on her way to
Alabama to Mark's parents house. So there wouldn't be a point in
trying to call them. But if he did this man need doesn't have a ounce
of love for those kids. It is going to be hard enough for them to
deal with their dad killing their mom, let alone the freak telling
them "hey just called to tell you I killed your mom". Someone please
put the needle in this psycho's arm and put him out of everyone else's
misery. The information Button's dad's girlfriend gave me the Sunday
they found her. I didn't feel it was appropriate to tell everything I
knew out of respect of my friends/extended family involving the
horrific details. I felt the important information was given and I
don't think it matters what the circumstance are or were no one
deserves to die like that.


On Jul 16, 9:13�am, Christy <christyship...@sbcglobal.net> wrote:
> Rebecca (James) West of class of '86 sent this note out:
>
> Button just lived down the road from me withing a half mile. �My
> sister is goods friends with her brother. �Apparently by what the
> brother has said that Friday night they (Button and Mark) had a BQ at
> their house. �Everything was fine and they went home. �Sunday morning
> Buttons father got a phone call from the guy (Mark) �stating that he
> had killed her and that they needed to go check on her. �her father
> and brother Smokey went out to her House and could not find her. �They
> called Mark back and asked him where was she. �He told them to look
> beside the bed. �Apparently after he beat her head in, and stabbed her
> twice, he covered her up with blankets. �The brother and father found
> her. �My sister said the brother told her she was unrecognizable.
>
> Mark had been calling the brother and dad on Sunday and even called
> his children to tell them he had killed their mother. �My sister said
> she thought she had 4 kids. �They did not live with her. �My sister
> also said that they were into drugs (Button and Mark). �her body has
> not been released yet. �Hopefully today. �Not sure when the funeral
> will be.
>
> Rebecca West (James)
>
> On Jul 13, 11:41�pm, Lorigac...@aol.com wrote:
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julie_...@yahoo.com

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Jul 17, 2008, 10:17:23 AM7/17/08
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Lori - you're absolutely right on everything. Take a breath...call if
you need me.
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Lorig...@aol.com

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Jul 18, 2008, 9:42:28 AM7/18/08
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I just wanted to apologize to Christy if I made you feel as if I was
targeting you for posting Rebecca's not on here. I wasn't I am glad
you did cause like I said in my e-mail to you atleast I know what is
being put online about Button. I just wanted you and everyone else to
know I wasn't upset with you. It's the person writing something in
such detail even the newspaper has respect not to tell graphic details
in murder cases. Its bad enough when her family seen her in such a
horrific state.
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