Hi,
AFAIK all these chargers are made to charge lixx cell primarily. It's surprising that your does not support it.
That is not the right
one. You have to look for some AVR ISP (in system programmer), for
example USBasp is cheap and available on Aliexpress.
Also, you have to check what microcontroller your charger has. USBasp is only for AVR MCUs like Atmega32.