Jill's feelings

[FIL-FT-FIN-Linhua Huang]

 

  I am so boring this time, I want to improve my working abilities such as accounting, English and so on, but I have no chance to change this condition. I will appreciate the one who help me in this period. To be sad, there is nobody who can help me. I will take the test of basic accounting in May, according to my opinion, I have to read the books about it, but now I don’t want to take any practice even have no see them in the recent days.

Maybe I can find something new to do in order to make my life colorful, or look for a boyfriend from now on. In fact, I have to think about the big question in my life now. I can’t believe that I am not a student now; I have to live by myself and make decisions in all conditions. I hope I can find a good person to help me when I feel confused and he can give me some suggests about what I can do in the difficult period and how I can get well with colleagues in the office. Maybe there is no one can reach my standard, so I am single now. Maybe I don’t pay attention to male, so I can’t find good traits from them.

     I send this e-mail in order to get some help and say something I can’t talk with colleagues not to find boyfriend, please don’t  misunderstand, thanks!

[Edwin]

Hi there, Jill.
I skim through the topics and find yours. I am a student of
university.Also not (only:) )for a girlfriend here.
You said you are not any more a student and find it unbelieveable.I
am
consused by, thus interested in this.
How can it be? I almost stay in shool all day and all night now, and
are imagining the life outside. I'v read of your kind of feeling.
Maybe I have to experience the challenge,too. As students, we are
pure
and "simlpe".But how to go society? That IS a problem.
Final to say:
1. Not wanting to learn anything at all sometimes is my feeling,too.
((I have to read the books about it, but now I

don't want to take any practice even have no see them in the

recent days.))
2. It's important to make life colourful! ((Maybe I can find
something new to do in order to make my life colorful, or ...))
3. Curious about: What is your standard? ((Maybe there is no one can
reach my standard, so...))

Nice to talk with you!


On Feb 25, 4:38 pm, "FIL-FT-FIN-Linhua Huang"

[vivvian]

Hi, there,
I hope this is not too late for you.
I had same problem when I was out of college and in my newly job.
Open up your mind, find something to do such as watch sport or movie,
read novel, ,or learn to play instrument , in a word, make you busy.
Of caurse, it is not bad idea if you can find a good boyfriend who
really love you, if you really clink to.
Try make friend with somebody in your working place, not nacessnary
she or he is same kind of person like you, or share same value with
you.
Open your heart first, be honest, you will find everybody has own
personality and learn something from them.
Nobody is perfect. God give you only one life, enjoy it whatever and
whenever you can, open your arm to accept whatever you have to face.
That is your life, the only life you have. Try to adjust yourself to
enviroment since it is so hard to make enviroment to be changed. It
does not mean you have to give up your own standard. Just everybody
has own standard or value . you need to respect them. Of cause you
need to be respected too.
Chicken first, or egg first? All up to you. As long as step out first,
I believe you will win and feel happy.
I hope it is usefully to you.
vivivan


On Feb 25, 4:38 am, "FIL-FT-FIN-Linhua Huang"

[Edwin]

That does make sense, isn't it?

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