Two
Choices
What
would you do?...you make the choice. Don't look for a
punch line, there isn't one. Read it anyway. My question
is: Would you have made the same
choice?
At
a fund raising dinner for a school that serves children
with learning disabilities, the father of one of the
students delivered a speech that would never be
forgotten by all who attended. After extolling the
school and its dedicated staff, he offered a
question:
'When not interfered with by outside
influences, everything nature does, is done with
perfection.
Yet my son, Shay, cannot learn things
as other children do. He cannot understand things as
other children do.
Where is the natural order of
things in my son?'
The
audience was stilled by the query.
The father
continued. 'I believe that when a child like Shay, who
was mentally and physically disabled comes into the
world, an opportunity to realize true human nature
presents itself, and it comes in the way other people
treat that child.'
Then he told the following
story:
Shay and I had walked past a park where
some boys Shay knew were playing baseball. Shay asked,
'Do you think they'll let me play?' I knew that most of
the boys would not want someone like Shay on their team,
but as a father
I also understood that if my son were allowed
to play, it would give him a much-needed sense of
belonging and some confidence to be accepted by others
in spite of his handicaps.
I approached one of
the boys on the field and asked (not expecting much) if
Shay could play. The boy looked around for guidance and
said, 'We're losing by six runs and the game is in the
eighth inning. I guess he can be on our team and we'll
try to put him in to bat in the ninth
inning.'
Shay struggled over to the team's bench
and, with a broad smile, put on a team shirt. I watched
with a small tear in my eye and warmth in my heart. The
boys saw my joy at my son being accepted.
In the
bottom of the eighth inning, Shay's team scored a few
runs but was still behind by three.
In the top of
the ninth inning, Shay put on a glove and played in the
right field. Even though no hits came his way, he was
obviously ecstatic just to be in the game and on the
field, grinning from ear to ear as I waved to him from
the stands.
In the bottom of the ninth inning,
Shay's team scored again.
Now, with two outs and
the bases loaded, the potential winning run was on base
and Shay was scheduled to be next at bat.
At this
juncture, do they let Shay bat and give away their
chance to win the game?
Surprisingly, Shay was
given the bat. Everyone knew that a hit was all but
impossible because Shay didn't even know how to hold the
bat properly, much less connect with the
ball.
However, as Shay stepped up to
the
plate, the pitcher, recognizing that the
other team was putting winning aside for this moment in
Shay's life, moved in a few steps to lob the ball in
softly so Shay could at least make contact.
The
first pitch came and Shay swung clumsily and
missed.
The pitcher again took a few steps
forward to toss the ball softly towards Shay.
As
the pitch came in, Shay swung at the ball and hit a slow
ground ball right back to the pitcher.
The game
would now be over.
The pitcher picked up the soft
grounder and could have easily thrown the ball to the
first baseman.
Shay would have been out and that
would have been the end of the game.
Instead, the
pitcher threw the ball right over the first baseman's
head, out of reach of all team mates.
Everyone
from the stands and both teams started yelling, 'Shay,
run to first!
Run to first!'
Never in his
life had Shay ever run that far, but he made it to first
base.
He scampered down the baseline, wide-eyed
and startled.
Everyone yelled, 'Run to second,
run to second!'
Catching his breath, Shay
awkwardly ran towards second, gleaming and struggling to
make it to the base.
By the time Shay rounded
towards second base, the right fielder had the ball .
the smallest guy on their team who now had his first
chance to be the hero for his team.
He could have
thrown the ball to the second-baseman for the tag, but
he understood the pitcher's intentions so he, too,
intentionally threw the ball high and far over the
third-baseman's head.
Shay ran toward third base
deliriously as the runners ahead of him circled the
bases toward home..
All were screaming, 'Shay,
Shay, Shay, all the Way Shay'
Shay reached third
base because the opposing shortstop ran to help him by
turning him in the direction of third base, and shouted,
'Run to third!
Shay, run to third!'
As
Shay rounded third, the boys from both teams, and the
spectators, were on their feet screaming, 'Shay, run
home! Run home!'
Shay ran to home, stepped on the
plate, and was cheered as the hero who hit the grand
slam and won the game for his team.
'That day',
said the father softly with tears now rolling down his
face, 'the boys from both teams helped bring a piece of
true love and humanity into this world'.
Shay
didn't make it to another summer. He died that winter,
having never forgotten being the hero and making me so
happy, and coming home and seeing his Mother tearfully
embrace her little hero of the day!
AND NOW A
LITTLE FOOTNOTE TO THIS STORY:
We all send
thousands of jokes through the e-mail without a second
thought, but when it comes to sending messages about
life choices, people hesitate.
The crude, vulgar,
and often obscene pass freely through cyberspace, but
public discussion about decency is too often suppressed
in our schools and workplaces.
If you're thinking
about forwarding this message, chances are that you're
probably sorting out the people in your address book who
aren't the 'appropriate' ones to receive this type of
message Well, the person who sent you this believes that
we all can make a difference.
We all have
thousands of opportunities every single day to help
realize the 'natural order of things.'
So many
seemingly trivial interactions between two people
present us with a choice:
Do we pass along a
little spark of love and humanity or do we pass up those
opportunities and leave the world a little bit colder in
the process ?
A wise man once said every society
is judged by how it treats its least fortunate among
them.
You now have two choices:
1.
Delete
2. Forward
May your day be a Shay
Day.