All, sorry I've been absent on this for awhile.
For leader election alone, you actually don't even need Paxos. You can use just the omega elector, amongst others. The group membership changes won't be coordinated in quite the same way, but I think adding an epoch to all of the inter-actor messages should be sufficient to properly handle it. Of course, this assumes all of the membership changes are coordinated through the leader only.
I have a version of the elector which is in a pretty good state. I was looking at integrating it and got distracted with a new job, plus I wasn't quite sure I understood how the API was going to work. If someone wants to tackle that (and possibly discuss on IRC first) I can plug in the elector pretty quickly.