Welcome pal, I've observed this problem with me for some time now, my confidence is wavering and sometimes i get scared to look at anyone coz i fine myself staring down, it annoys me a lot! i know i'm not gay, so why does this happen? truly, when i saw a group like this, it gave me some kind of relief, knowing i can read and share my views, last night i opened up to my girlfriend about the problem and she laughed, saying she thought i'll say i was gay but i said i wasn't, she just told me it wasn't a problem to worry about but i can't get it off my mind! lately it's been getting worse but i just tell myself it's nothing out of the ordinary. i can handle it, i get guilty when if feel someone knows i'm staring at their crotch, my heart starts beating and i get extremely nervous. This kind of staring is crazy, i can't control it. i was really happy though to see people with very similar experiences and problems shared. i forgot to mention, my girlfriend said i should pray which i have been doing so i suggest anyone out there can pray too. Good luck with us