Gary,
Flax’s comments were about feelings, not thoughts. As was John’s “not give a damn” comment. However I don’t know if he necessarily took a position that one does not need to be cooperative.
More than anything it’s just not letting other people’s perceived feelings and/or thoughts control you so much. Letting one’s thoughts and emotions be so dominated by this mindset is distracts one from the actual task.
I don’t understand why/where Flax got the idea he needs to travel at 20mph on that road and why such “speed requirements” are repeated by those, especially other cyclists, who are skeptical of bicycle driving. People cycling on that road, should cycle at the speed they please provided they’re using the correct lane on the roadway but indeed if there are opportunities to use some of the methods taught in Cycling Savvy then they should be considered.
I think some of us have acquired both the skill of not letting the apparent thoughts and emotions of others control us so much and instead spend that mental energy looking for opportunities to cooperate with other road users and for enjoying our trips.
Preaching to the choir of course. :)
Kudos to Flax for reaching out to John. It really says a lot about his willingness to understand the his perspective instead of repeating the same tired myths about the man.