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“Dhol gavaar sudra pasu naari, sakal taadna ke adhikaari,” which actually means, a drum, a rustic, a
Shudra (one of base intellect), a beast and a woman- all these deserve instruction. A drum must be tuned, a shudra
and rustic must be given guidance, an animal must be trained and a woman becomes adept and well-mannered through proper instruction.
These are the utterances of Sindhu Deva (Lord of the Sea) and not Shri Rama. It is most unfortunate that some have
interpolated the word 'taadna' to mean 'beating'. Kindly refer to Gorakhpur edition of rAmacaritamAnasa for the proper bhAvartha.
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Now regarding the strI-ninda in our literature, which is also misquoted quite often. It is to be noted that sanAtana dharma glorified & regarded "strI" as form of dEvi. The 5th sloka from 11th chapter of "durgA-sapthasathi" says:
vidyAH samastAH tava dEvi ! bhEdAH / striyaH samastAH sakalA jagatsu /
tvayaikayA pUrita mamba yaitat / kA tE stutiH stavyaparApraOktiH //
O Mother ! Thou art the forms of all the sciences; thou art the form of all the women; thou art
the form of 64 arts;
So, it is not proper to understand that our shAstras didn't show proper respect to women. The restrictions
imposed on them is a "precautionary measure" only which is for their well-being owing to their rajaswala niyamAs.
Ironically, it is now in 21st century, even after advancement of science, technology, education, the
the women crimes, suppression, dowry etc have increased.
reg,
sriram
On Wednesday, October 15, 2014 3:03:32 PM UTC+5:30, sheetal pokar wrote:क्षम्यताम् । हिन्दीभाषायाः प्रयोगोऽकारि ।The statement भारतीय संस्कृति में पुरुष को स्त्री की अपेक्षा श्रेष्ठ माना जाता है is even more problematic. Which evidences in 'Indian culture' indicate that the culture treats men superior to women?श्रूयतां तुलसीदासः - "ढोल गंवार शूद्र पशु नारी, ये सब ताडन के अधिकारी" ।
“Let me not think on't - Frailty, thy name is woman!”
– Soliloquy by Hamlet, in Shakespeare's Hamlet (Act I, Scene II, Line 146)
Is it wise to take just this one line out of context and conclude that Shakespeare (and everybody in England under the reign of Queen Elizabeth I) was a misogynist? The context: Hamlet's mother (Gertrude) has just married her husband's murderer (Claudius) and Hamlet resents her. If Shakespeare presents the words of a character, does a line from that speech that become a universal principle Shakespeare strongly believes in? Certainly not!
If this is the condition of poetic works like Hamlet, what to speak of a Śāstra like Rāmacaritamānasa? All I can say is rather than using our own mind and jump to conclusions, we are better off relying on knowledgable commentators who have studied Rāmacaritamānasa from a Guru.
Please see attached:
1) Siddhāntatilaka commentary on RCM 5.59.6
2) Vijayā commentary on RCM 5.59.6
3) Mānasapīyuṣa on RCM 5.59.6
4) Bhāvārthabodhinī on RCM 5.59.6
Although all the above are famous works, if anybody needs full citations and information about the books, they are requested to email me off the list.
PS: A request to members - please attribute the views and interpretations you are presenting to the proper sources (book, orator, etc). Statements like
"One of the exponents explained thus ..." (Who? When? Where?)
"Someone has given another interpretation to these ..." (Who? When? Where?)
without any information about the source do not carry much weight.क्षम्यताम् । हिन्दीभाषायाः प्रयोगोऽकारि ।The statement भारतीय संस्कृति में पुरुष को स्त्री की अपेक्षा श्रेष्ठ माना जाता है is even more problematic. Which evidences in 'Indian culture' indicate that the culture treats men superior to women?श्रूयतां तुलसीदासः - "ढोल गंवार शूद्र पशु नारी, ये सब ताडन के अधिकारी" ।
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यथा विद्वज्जनैः उक्तम्, तथा सन्दर्भात् छित्त्वा (out of context) वाक्यानि उद्घाट्य तेषां अर्थान् (प्रयोजनान्) परिवर्त्य ये वक्रार्थाः यथासम्भवं क्रियन्ते - तदर्थं विद्वत्-परिषद् वेदिका मा भूदिति मात्रं ममाशयः। क्षम्यताम् यदि अधिकमुक्तम्।एतत् केवला मम प्रार्थना। अन्यथा मा चिन्तयतु।
“xमा चिन्तयतु” इत्यसाधु। “मा भूत्” इतिवन्माङि लुङ्यडभावे “मा चिचिन्तत्” इत्यनेन “मा चिचिन्तत” इत्यनेन वा भवितव्यम्।
Moreover, no follower of Shakespear today will give you 4 commentaries of Hamlet justifying this statement of Hamlet!!!! They will say, this statement is a sweeping generalization and move on with life. But this is not what the followers of Tulsi Das do. First Nityanand ji is saying that the statement has been quoted out of context (by quoting shakespear), next he gives explanations from four different commentators justifying the statement in the context to which the person raising the objection objected to. Isn't this pulling on opposite ends? If something is out of context, why justify it?
The concern expressed can be more clearly stated as this:
Why say dhol gawar shudar pasu nari, why not say dhol gawar brahman pasu purush? After all, the effort required for a brahman to master the shastras is more than the effort required for a shudra to do his seva (if one goes by the actual varna ashrama system).
Second, he claims that Ramcharit Manas is a shastra. I don't think many people south of the Vindhyas, or east of bihar have read it, leave alone treat it as a shastra.
Third, the statement also seems out of place in the current day and age. While I see many of my male friends drink and smoke, not many females do so. Many "brahmin" friends smoke and drink, eat meat, indulge in many evil works etc. I am sure that this is the experience of many people. So, who is in need of Tadan? The poor woman who takes almost full responsibility of the home or the man who goes out and has a good time?
The best we can do is to say that Tulsi Das ji was writing according to his times and this particular statement can be ignored in view of the beauty of the Ramcharit Manas. Is this not the system followed by our tradition (accepting milk out of the water mixed with milk), instead of justifying with intellectual gymnastics something which is against our tradition (of giving great respect to women).
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Dear Dr Ghatge,I don't know your background, but a poet is not to be analyzed by a literal dissection.While it is not useful to help you change your opinion, I would only request you thatyou analyze the word अधिकारी and you may get your answer.
एकु मैं मंद मोहबस कुटिल हृदय अग्यान।
पुनि प्रभु मोहि बिसारेउ दीनबंधु भगवान॥२॥
जदपि नाथ बहु अवगुन मोरें।
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Answer is all women cannot be treated same like we cannot treat all men the same. A man with vices cannot deserve respect. But man with virtues deserves respect. Same logic.
A woman in mother's position will always be beneficial to her children. She sacrifices for children. She deserves to be respected like God. She is more respected than even father. But a woman not a mother and if she has bad qualities cannot deserve respect.
Namaste
All your points are already answered in my previous mail.
If we are to justify every word of manas,
We need not justify. We can understand the sentence in intended conditions.
Coming to wife beating- one need not read Manas and seek blessings of the writer and get a sanctioned backing of Tulsi words to beat his wife. Anger, drunkenness, ego and rage are enough. Sometimes it might be provocation from wife's side that might generate a need inside man to take to beating. And Tulsi is not definitely talking of it. And even if these Tulsi's words and all similar smRtis' words were not read also, scene would not be otherwise.
In fact, one who reads Manas will himself become saintly- (even if he is wife beater) because the very spirit that gave birth to that "shAstra-tulya-kAvya" is a woman's love. Well- reading Manas oneself will answer many issues. It will also make the reader aware of what bhAratIya tradition is, what kind of things it discusses and what directions it moves, with what aim. Please try when time permits.
Before you can manage with that- you can have benefit of these opinions and explanations from ordinary readers of Manas on this statement-
Got them from a blog - (From- http://aaryashri.blogspot.in/2010/04/blog-post.html) as libraries and books hunting will take more of time.
(I take wherever a good explanation comes from. बालादपि सुभाषितम्)
(Hope there is no problem with Hindi, as Manas is basically a related work.
All this is just for making that sentence also a useful and acceptable one --for those who baselessly think that there is a problem with Tulsi's brain!)
1. इसे विवादित बनाने वाले तथाकथित वेवकूफ बुद्धिजीवीयों कि व्याख्या सत्य सेकितनी दूर है वह इस मूल अर्थ सेस्पष्ट होता है.
यहाँ ताड़ना का अर्थ है पहचानना या परखना, तुलसीदास कहते हैं अगर हम ढोलके व्यवहार (सुर) को नहीं पहचातेतो उसे बजाते समय उसकी आवाज कर्कश होगीअतः उससे स्वभाव को जानना आवश्यक है इसी तरह गवारगवार का अर्थ किसीका मजाक उड़ना नहीं बल्कि उनसे है जो अज्ञानी हैं ) कि प्रकृति या व्यवहार कोजाने बिनाउसके साथ जीवन सही से नहीं बिताया जा सकता ये उसके इसी तरहपशु के लिए भी अर्थ है, ठीक यही अर्थ नारीके परिप्रेक्ष में भी है, जब तक हमनारी के स्वभाव को नहीं पचानाते उसके साथ जीवन का निर्वाह अच्छी तरह सेनहीं हो सकता.
इतने सुन्दर और ज्ञान रूपी इस रचना को विवादित बनना कितना बड़ादिवालियापन है यह आसानी से समझा जासकता है. यहाँ जो ताड़ना का अर्थ पीटनेया मारने का लगाया जाता है वह नितांत ही गलत है,
Comments on same-
विवेक सिंह ने कहा…
पूरी
चौपाई इस प्रकार है:
प्रभु भल कीन्ह मोहि सिख दीन्हीं।
मरजादा पुनि तुम्हरी कीन्हीं॥
ढोल गवाँर सूद्र पसु नारी। सकल
ताड़ना के अधिकारी॥
प्रथम तो ऊपर की पंक्ति से ही स्पष्ट हो जाता है कि यहाँ ताड़ना देना का मतलब सीख देना है ।
दूसरे यह तुलसीदास जी की अपनी सोच नहीं है । यह बात समुद्र
ने रामजी से तब कही है जब उन्होंने उसे औकात याद दिलाई ।
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ashvani ने कहा…
जिस
तुलसी दास ने मानस की रचना की उनके भी जीवन में एक नारी का बड़ा हीयोगदान रहा है | वह इतना प्रतापित व्यक्ति क्या नारी के बारे में ऐसा
लिखसकता है क्या ? जो राम के हर रूप का वर्णन अपने मानस में की हो, वह मातासीता को आर्दश की देवी मानता हो वह अपने मानस में क्या ऐसा वर्णन कर सकता है | नही .............
भाषा पर मत जाइये भाषा के भाव को समझाने का प्रयास कीजिए तुलसी दास जी ने मानस में नारी के ह्रदय का वर्णन जैसा किया है और पुरे मानस में जो नारी का चित्रण आया है वह बहुत ही सुंदर है |वास्तव में तराना का अवधी भाषा में समझाना होता है इसलिए नारी के साथ जीवन यापन करना है तो उसके व्यवहार को अच्छी तरह समझना पड़ता है
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Arvind Mishra ने कहा…
गीताप्रेस
से अलग एक मूल पाठ में मानस की यही अर्धाली यूं है -
ढोल गवार क्षुद्र पशु
नारी ,सकल ताड़ना के अधिकारी
ये सब पीटे जाने से ही मर्यादित / सार्थक बनते हैं -
बिना पीटे ढोल से आवाज नहीं निकलेगी
गंवार भी मारने से ही अनुशासित रहते हैं
और उसी तरह क्षुद्र पशु(कीड़े मकोड़े बिच्छू गोजर ) और क्षुद्र
प्रवृत्ति की नारी भी...
यह प्रेक्षण तुलसी का है -लोगों के दृष्टि अनुभव अलग हो
सकते हैं .
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Sanjay Sharma ने कहा…
फ़ोन
पर अपने दोस्तों को आमंत्रित
कर रहा था " आओ न यार शाम को
बंगाली मार्केट में चाट खायेंगे और
लड़कियां ताड़ेगे " येहाँ ताडने का मतलब
हम मारने-पीटने से तो नहीं न लगायेंगे .
तुलसी जी का रामायण इतना लोकप्रिय हुआ
तो जलन हुई सो जली भुनी व्याख्या परोसी
गई . अब इन गवारों को कौन समझाए
की इनके गवारेपन का इलाज मार पीट कर तो किया नहीं
गया . अब आपने देखा भाला है तरीके से ,शायद असर हो
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One more- http://nishamittal2011.wordpress.com/2010/09/28/एक-जिज्ञासा-छोटी-सी/
मानस में लगभग सभी अलंकारों का प्रयोग तुलसी दास जी ने किया है ….ताड़ना का
एक अर्थ ये भी बताया गया है.. की ध्यान देना . या ध्यान रखना (केयर करना)
…ढोल को ताड़ना अर्थात मारना ………. गंवार को ताड़ना मतलब सुसंस्कारी
बनाना……… शुद्र को ताड़ना अर्थात उसको ऊपर उठाना ………. और नारी को ताड़ना
ध्यान देना ,ध्यान रखना …(हलाकि आजकल इस शब्द का बिगड़ते बिगड़ते घटिया
मजाकिया शब्द बना दिया गया है )
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Someone in comments said- it is समुद्र's words who is madhyama character and in contrast showed how rAvaNa speaks about mandodarI. So it is not tulsI das's own idea but those characters are speaking it. Contrast can be had where mandodarI wants to make rAvaNa realize his mistake, and in return he sensures her.
रावण भी तो मंदोदरी जैसी विदुषी वेदज्ञ -भक्त से कहता है – नारि सुभाउ
सत्य सब कहहीं ,अवगुन आठ सदा उर रहहीं।साहस अनृत चपलता माया, भय अविवेक
असौच अदाया।
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I tried some other blogs as well- they all are saying almost same thing.
This is how those who are acquainted with Manas (and thus with bhAratIya tradition) think and understand works of poets/shAstrakAras. They cansee the poet's heart from whole work and then interpret such statements in the light of that whole idea.. and never pick and drag out some words and start arguing.
And coming to other women-related treatment- like mAtR devo bhava etc. one can write volumes.
Yes, rAmAyaNa is more "sItAyAH caritaM mahat" than rAma's story.
I think, a kAvya-values are only language, meaning-beauty (vyaMgya) and embellishments - that's all and never content. Once issues of dharma and neeti enter into a poem, and beautifully dealt, for the level of "nitya-pArAyaNa-grantha" in a culture, it becomes almost a shastra!! People learn from it and follow its meaning in life. So thus the writer of a poem becomes RShi.
RShi's heart is discovered thus and not by picking and dragging separate sentences and start trying to fit them into our preconditioned mindsets and discarding because of not fit..!! Dragging each and every shAstra and kAvya vakya out of the context, into cultural and social problems and expecting them to be responsible for every single crime in the present society is a brutal thing.
In fact, it is more because of being away from the great works, that so many problems are arising. This is my personal view.
Said, what all I wanted to. Hope it helps those who want to understand the poet. Thankyou.
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I think, a kAvya-values are only language, meaning-beauty (vyaMgya) and embellishments - that's all and never content.
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स।न्रम्भामर्षताम्राक्षी स्फुरमाणोष्ठसम्पुटा |
कटाक्षैर्निर्दहन्तीव तिर्यग्राजानमैक्षत || आदि 68-21||
She describes भार्या as worthy of arghya , archanaa.
स्वयं प्राप्तेति मामेवं मावम।न्स्थाः पतिव्रताम् |
अर्घ्यार्हां नार्चयसि मां स्वयं भार्यामुपस्थिताम् ||आदि 68- 33||
She describes wife as the best friend (श्रेष्ठतमः सखा ).
अर्धं भार्या मनुष्यस्य भार्या श्रेष्ठतमः सखा |
भार्या मूलं त्रिवर्गस्य भार्या मित्रं मरिष्यतः || आदि 68-40||
She describes wife as contributing to the work efficiency of the husband.
भार्यावन्तः क्रियावन्तः सभार्या गृहमेधिनः |
भार्यावन्तः प्रमोदन्ते भार्यावन्तः श्रियान्विताः || आदि 68-41||
She describes wife as the ultimate shelter of the man.
कान्तारेष्वपि विश्रामो नरस्याध्वनिकस्य वै |
यः सदारः स विश्वास्यस्तस्माद्दाराः परा गतिः || आदि 68-43||
She describes wife as the best solace for the grief-stricken male.
दह्यमाना मनोदुःखैर्व्याधिभिश्चातुरा नराः |
ह्लादन्ते स्वेषु दारेषु घर्मार्ताः सलिलेष्विव || आदि 68-49||
She daunts him not to be confident about his not getting a witness for the crime committed in privacy.
एको।अहमस्मीति च मन्यसे त्वं; न कृच्छयं वेत्सि मुनिं पुराणम् |
यो वेदिता कर्मणः पापकस्य; तस्यान्तिके त्वं कृजिनं करोषि || आदि 68-27||
मन्यते पापकं कृत्वा न कश्चिद्वेत्ति मामिति |
विदन्ति चैनं देवाश्च स्वश्चैवान्तरपूरुषः || आदि 68-28||
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निराशीर्निर्ममो भूत्वा युध्यस्व विगतज्वरः।। (भ.गी.)
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Well! I request scholars to give there precious views on it. Not only on the same male and female..... Man and woman etc.
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