Hi Michelle!
Congrats on the new place! That's so exciting! Where is it?
Regarding sofa beds:
I think it depends on the frequency of use. The ikea ektorp is not a bad option for occasional use ( let's say your visitors come for a few days several times a year). It's also so affordable that you can replace them on an almost yearly basis for several years. If you spring for the highest quality mattress, I think it's a super option--it's just not the most aesthetic look.
The best in the market with amazing night sleep ( I used it once at a friends') and it was just like a nice mattress and her middle aged mom slept on it without complaint for 7 consecutive weeks is the comfort sleeper American leather company. This is a significantly more expensive, but people who have it, have it for 10 years and the sofas are comfortable and really nice.
We ended up purchasing a CB2 Luba day bed for out spare room. Mostly because of the space we have (it's more like a closet, but we needed it to fold out into a queen. It's a great option, but a pretty hard mattress so we sprung for a topper and our parents have had very restful and comfortable sleep there.
So, I guess your answer has to do with function, size, and expected frequency of use.
Hope this helps!
Big hugs all around :)
Lorena
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