Hi Michelle,
We did this shortly after A was born. We definitely did this. We went with a lawyer recommended by someone at Julian's work. The hardest part was figuring out who we wanted to care for our kids the rest was pretty straightforward. We also set-up a trust which makes sense for tax purposes and although my parents will have custody of our children should anything happen, we appointed really close friends to manage the trust and help with financial decisions. We also disburse funds at 18 and again at 25, so that if they go nuts, they don't blow all of the insurance money at once.
Happy to provide name is if it helps. The attorney is somewhere in Manhattan.
Best of luck,
Lorena
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