my full-time partner nah.. he has no intimacy, he has no real emotion.
But my part-time partner, which is who I spoke of in my 1st reply,
yeah I do. He sees sex as a want but intimacy is a need. He
appreciates having someone to tell any part of his mind to someone and
know I will still be there. For him that's the intimacy, knowing he
can be him and i'll still be there.
I think people now days have began to see intimacy as a prelude to
the foreplay and while yes it can lead there I think that intimacy is
deeper than that. Personally I think sex can be with anyone but
intimacy takes a connection, a deeper thought than "he has a great
ass" lol. It's an extension of a friendship in a way, like the highest
level of a relationship. Sex is fun but intimacy is special and I've
only found it with one of my partners ever.
On Apr 28, 4:54 pm, bringhomethepassion
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bringhomethepass...@gmail.com> wrote:
> I tend to agree, and I think so many people are missing that these
> days. Do you think that your partner thinks about intimacy in the same
> way that you do?
>
> On Apr 28, 3:02 pm, Hope <
tabby...@hot.rr.com> wrote:
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>
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> > intimacy is sitting on my front porch under the stars talking about
> > his dreams and knowing he knows they mean as much to me as I know my
> > dreams mean to him... it's not sex at all.. its the closeness of
> > knowing that we share a caring about one another that transcends sex
> > and everything else..