Intimacy

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bringhomethepassion

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Apr 28, 2010, 3:05:38 PM4/28/10
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What is it to you? Do you and your partner have the same idea of
intimacy? Is it just a kiss when you get home from work? Is it a
little sticky note on the fridge in the morning saying "have a great
day I love you"? Is it foreplay? Is it a blow job? I'm curious to know
what the general masses think intimacy is and if when they have this
idea of intimacy in their heads it's the same thing their partners
feel about intimacy.

Hope

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Apr 28, 2010, 4:02:20 PM4/28/10
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intimacy is sitting on my front porch under the stars talking about
his dreams and knowing he knows they mean as much to me as I know my
dreams mean to him... it's not sex at all.. its the closeness of
knowing that we share a caring about one another that transcends sex
and everything else...

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bringhomethepassion

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Apr 28, 2010, 5:54:08 PM4/28/10
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I tend to agree, and I think so many people are missing that these
days. Do you think that your partner thinks about intimacy in the same
way that you do?

Hope

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Apr 28, 2010, 6:07:00 PM4/28/10
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my full-time partner nah.. he has no intimacy, he has no real emotion.
But my part-time partner, which is who I spoke of in my 1st reply,
yeah I do. He sees sex as a want but intimacy is a need. He
appreciates having someone to tell any part of his mind to someone and
know I will still be there. For him that's the intimacy, knowing he
can be him and i'll still be there.
I think people now days have began to see intimacy as a prelude to
the foreplay and while yes it can lead there I think that intimacy is
deeper than that. Personally I think sex can be with anyone but
intimacy takes a connection, a deeper thought than "he has a great
ass" lol. It's an extension of a friendship in a way, like the highest
level of a relationship. Sex is fun but intimacy is special and I've
only found it with one of my partners ever.

On Apr 28, 4:54 pm, bringhomethepassion
<bringhomethepass...@gmail.com> wrote:
> I tend to agree, and I think so many people are missing that these
> days. Do you think that your partner thinks about intimacy in the same
> way that you do?
>
> On Apr 28, 3:02 pm, Hope <tabby...@hot.rr.com> wrote:
>
>
>
> > intimacy is sitting on my front porch under the stars talking about
> > his dreams and knowing he knows they mean as much to me as I know my
> > dreams mean to him... it's not sex at all.. its the closeness of
> > knowing that we share a caring about one another that transcends sex
> > and everything else..

bringhomethepassion

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Apr 28, 2010, 7:41:05 PM4/28/10
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I'm always curious to hear the male input on intimacy. I hear at a lot
of my parties that they think foreplay is intimacy. I always giggle
when they say grabbing her boobs while she's doing the dishes is
intimate. And then they're curious why the woman doesn't want to have
sex all the time. Can you imagine how neat it would be to lay in bed
with your partner the whole day and never touch each other? I think
that would be the neatest experiment to try and reconnect with your
partner.
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