Or He bestows both males and females and He renders barren whom He wills. Verily, He is the All-Knower and is able to do all things." [Qur'an, 42:49-50]
••••► From these great ayaat of Surat AshShura, we learn about the Divine Will and ability. That Allah (SWT) is the Creator who blesses us with boys, girls, boys and girls, or no children at all according to His (SWT) Divine Will. He (SWT) has knowledge of and is able to do all things He (SWT) wills.
Conception, poly cystic ovaries, pregnancy, miscarriage, healthy delivery, infertility, low sperm count, breast feeding, stillbirth, infant death, healthy baby etc. are ALL from Him (SWT).
••••► The station we all strive to achieve on our Journey to Him (SWT) is that of Complete Gratitude i.e. being grateful for whatever He (SWT) chooses for us in our lives - it is according to His (SWT) divine knowledge of what's best for us as our Creator and is the station we all should try to attain. Who are we then to question Allah, Al-Khaliq's master plan?