Robert,
To get DNLA working requires a level of technical experience that is not easy to acquire quickly. Nevertheless, I'll try and answer a few of your questions.
The config file to be edited is "minidlna.conf" without the quotes.
To get to the Raspberry Pi (Linux) command line you need to run a
program such as putty which you have installed on your computer. It's a
free download. There are instructions on the forum on how to use it. Search for "putty" and/or "SSH".
I think VI is a text editing program. I don't know if it already resides on the SD card or if you have to download it. You'll have to do some research. There are probably other alternatives. Another way to edit the file would be to take the mini-SD card out of the B2 and use an adaptor to plug it into a USB port on your computer and use a text editor there.
I hope others will contribute, as Robert may need more help than I can give.