
There is essentially only one way in which you can bring about self-transformation - that's if you want to - but you will not think you need to if you are still taking your happiness from outside yourself, and still managing to tolerate the periods of unhappiness which result. As soon as your happiness is dependent on anything outside, you make yourself a slave to a condition, substance or perhaps a person. A slave is not free. And happiness is impossible if you are not free. Perhaps this goes some way to explaining why our happiness fluctuates. Real happiness does not go up and down. Real freedom means that your happiness comes from inside out. That will require detachment and renunciation, not least from the illusions and conditioning of society which would have you believe happiness can be acquired from outside in. Can you see it? Inside out, not outside in!
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Reliving The Memories Of The Past (Part 1)
Have you ever spent a complete day thinking
about events that have taken place a day or a month or a year ago? Do you know
that the thinking capabilities of the mind are overused when we create thoughts
of an already passed past? We forget that a positive future can be rebuilt by
simply focusing on the present circumstances and doing the best in making it
the best. A very common habit that each one of us holds inside us is of
reopening events that have already folded in the reel of life and mixing them
with the current state of affairs. We then create a negative future because our
perceptions of current situations get influenced negatively by doing that.
Remaining focused on the present is sometimes
seen as over-positive thinking by some and also seen as remaining disconnected
from the past. The past is very much the truth of your life. So, a
balance has to be made between being forward looking i.e. taking care that the
past problems do not re-occur in the future. At the same time we take care that
we do not worry about that. There is a fine difference between concern and worry.
While remaining concerned does involve thinking about the past, on the other
hand, worry means the same but there is a difference. In the case of worry,
thinking exceeds the necessary thought level, crosses it and touches the
unnecessary. Sometimes it even exceeds that and becomes negative. On the other
hand, remaining concerned means your thoughts remain limited to positive and
necessary. At the same time you take the right action to prevent the past
mistakes from happening again. Also, one who is concerned and not worried while
remembering the past, will use the past as a stepping stone to enter a future
which is free from the influence of negative happenings of the past.
(To be continued tomorrow …)
Responsibility
Responsibility is being willing to be
accountable for what you do and
also what you do not do yourself. It means
accepting credit when
things go well and also correction if things go
wrong. It is the
ability to respond ably. I practice Responsibility
when I take my
agreements seriously; focus on what is required
by me and not on
someone else's part, when I am ready and willing
to clear up
misunderstandings. I give my best to all that I
do and keep my
promises. I welcome praise and correction for my
actions.\
Message for the day
The power of determination brings all thoughts into practice.
Expression: There are a lot
of thoughts that come into the mind that should come into practice immediately.
These thoughts come according to the demands of time or according to the kind
of people that one comes into contact with. But the only way to bring all these
thoughts into practice is to use the power of determination. Where there is
determination there is the commitment to use all the resources for the realizations
of that thought.
Experience: When I am able to use the power of determination, I am able
to realize my inner potential and use it in the right way. So I am able to
experience constant progress, because all my thoughts are for my own self progress
and all these thoughts naturally come into practice. I never give up anything
with temporary setbacks but am able to do everything for the constant progress
of the self.
In Spiritual Service,
Brahma Kumaris