To create the future we desire we need a spiritual language; we must speak from the heart and in the language of the soul - a language of trust, faith and higher values, of inner growth, love and listening.
Reliving The Memories Of The Past (Part 2)
While some people realize that remaining in the
present is the ideal way of living, but sometimes in their daily life, they
find it difficult in not allowing the past in influencing their present life
situations. And also their way of looking at them. Also, some people
say its fine not to think about the failures of the past but it is unrealistic
to not think about past successes, because they are positive events. Some
people are so tied up with past success stories of their lives and are so
attached to them that it slowly takes the form of a type of ego. This then
starts reflecting negatively in their present behaviour and relationships.
Suppose, I have been
very good at my studies and I was one of the best in school and college, in
excelling in my education. So, do I forget that or remember it because doing
that gives me joy? When a joy out of a positive past event becomes excessive
and unnecessary, the joy turns into a negative emotion of ego. It crosses the
limits of pure pride or self-esteem. Speaking about past successes to each one
we meet can easily be seen by others as unnecessary. Also, some people don’t
prefer listening to success events of others beyond a certain point. This is
because it’s very clear in these cases that the other person does not have an
intention of informing only. Ask any person about how they felt after having
listened to others’ success stories repeatedly and they will give you a frank
opinion that it was slightly egoistic behaviour. People will always like those
who mention their successes but at the same time they are humble and remain
incognito in not mentioning them repeatedly. That is for speaking about past
events of a positive nature. The same applies to thinking about them.
(To be continued tomorrow …)
To enjoy a carefree life, renounce the consciousness of I and
mine.
The more we surrender our ego, the lighter and
easier our life
becomes. The consciousness of I and mine
either makes us arrogant or
weak. It creates a lot of conflicts in
relationships and finishes the
beauty of life. When we consider
everything we have as God's property
then our responsibilities become His
responsibilities. He fills us
with extra specialities and powers to carry out
His task no matter
however daunting it may seem. When we
surrender our will to Him
everything happens for the best.
Message for the day
Self-respect brings constant learning and an
experience of success.
Expression: Where there is self-respect, there is naturally a positive
and elevated state of mind. There is openness and enthusiasm to bring about
progress in one's life. Everything that is done is towards this end. So, the
one with self-respect naturally reveals one's speciality in all thoughts, words
and actions.
Experience: When I am able to maintain my own state of self-respect, I am able to enjoy the beauty that life brings. I'm able to understand, accept and make use of all situations in the right way. So, whatever the situation may be, for me there is a constant experience of progress.
In Spiritual Service,
Brahma Kumaris