Ifound that Miami was in fact quite a different experience than its reputation holds. The main reason is that almost all the information about Miami comes from pre-pandemic, while the culture surrounding Game has shifted extensively post-pandemic. Changes in tourism, popular nightgame venues, and the rise of online game have made Miami more of a winner-take-all city than in years past.
There are three main daygame spots: Lincoln Road, an outdoor mall stretching horizontal across the top of the below map, Ocean Drive, the main street promenade and path along the beach, and South Beach itself.
For instadates, the only real close options are an expensive drink at one of the bars, or a couple cafs on Collins Ave, one street over. The beach is also open until 10 PM for isolation or fucking purposes.
Collins (where the majority of the tourist hotels are located) runs parallel to Ocean one street over, and Washington runs parallel two streets over. These have significantly less volume, but are worth checking out in a punch. Again, I recommend biking them.
If you live further from downtown, your best option are the malls: Sawgrass, Aventura, and Dolphin. Because Miami gets more Spanish-speaking the further you get from downtown, expect Spanish to be the dominant language here.
South Beach used to be much more popular, now most people go out on the mainland. Most doors got harder, and venues started charging to get in. The biggest problem, though, is that girls now go out socially, not with the intention of getting laid. Easy DTF sets are almost impossible to come by.
Miami Beach is the has-been of Miami nightgame. A decade ago and further back, it was the shining jewel of nightlife. But after a low decline, the pandemic shifted all the girls onto the mainland, or into exclusive, table-only venues, leaving basically nothing viable for cold approach.
Nightlife in Miami has always been this way, the pandemic barely changed a thing because Florida was always open. If anything, post-pandemic has made things better in nightlife because more people have come. Years back, places like Wynnwood used to be the hood and Brickell was not nearly as developed as it is now. Your only bet was tourists because people did not see Miami as a city to live and work, only the remote work trend accelerated everything.
In 2022, I decided to take daygame seriously. Previously, I had only relied on online game and getting drunk at bars/clubs with the hopes of hooking up with a random. After doing daygame consistently for almost 6 months, I managed to get 6 new lays but as I look back at it, there is an unfortunate truth I wanted to share. I have known a lot of guys who have resorted to doing daygame because the nightlife in Miami really sucks and you are far more likely to find attractive women accessible during the day. The reality is that very few of these men outside of maybe two are having success with daygame. Success means they take women out on dates and then turn those dates into closes.
Even looking back at my own results, I notice that it was exponentially easier to get closes with online dating and even nightgame back when I was in NYC as opposed to daygame. Let me run through some of the numbers with daygame and what I am finding.
If a guy goes out on weekends to daygame for a few hours, in the span of that time he might get 2 good phone numbers an hour if he is good. Even from the guys I know who have success with daygame, this seems to be the most common trend. Some might have a good day where they get 4 to 5 good phone numbers an hour but that is rare and an oddity.
In a year, you have about 52 weeks which means you actually have 52 weekends as well (as they are a part of the week). If it takes a guy who is good with daygame 5 weekends to net one close, he will get 10 closes in a year from daygame itself. Now the numbers can fluctuate a bit here as some guys will get more and some will get less. For most guys who get good with daygame, this is the most likely reality in a lot of cases. Now I will add that overtime, guys can net daygame closes by being on guard and approaching women as a part of their lifestyle but this will not happen initially for most men.
Outside of social circle game, unless you are in an elite social circle (which is rare), daygame is just awful for raising your lay count. By what I showed you, it will take you a decade to break triple digits and we know most men are not sticking to that regimen of going out for 3 hours every weekend just to meet women. Now granted, some will argue that it is a waste of a weekend but I will counter by saying that there is not much guys are doing with their weekends outside of getting drunk and watching sportsball anyways. However, you get my point, it is a bad way to raise your lay count.
Meanwhile, with daygame you are burning calories by moving around so much during the day. You are usually not drinking anything other than water (hopefully) and are often doing healthy things. For long-term health, daygame is better for you. You actually get to keep your hearing!
Assuming you are not a spammer that approaches everything, if you have your eye on quality then daygame is the best way to get it outside of a top-notch social circle. The reality is that most men will never have anything close to a Dan Bilzerian type of social circle, it is just not doable. However, daygame is perhaps the best way for you to get that 9 or 10 that you always dreamed of compared to any other method out there.
While the numbers have been abysmal for daygame for me, I also realize that the women I have met have also been some of the hottest ever. Even if I have not closed all the girls I have slept with, I DM them often as they are traveling and it is good to have met some top-notch women. When hot girls love your pics on social media and there are plans to one day meet (which will likely not pan out), it makes it all worth it. You have to ask as a guy what matters more, getting with 50 women who are average or above-average looking or getting with 5 women that are just stunners. If you decided the latter, then daygame might be for you.
Daygame is a more pure game in the sense that you are the most likely to get one-on-one time with a hot girl. You get to practice your delivery for your opener and handle objections verbally. Compare this to nightgame where you do not even get a chance because the girl has cockblock friends and is in too big of a group for you to even have a shot. Even online, a lot of the work is done for you since there is some initial attraction already there (hence why you matched!). If you want to get good at the verbal aspect of game, nothing beats daygame.
I have pulled women from online, nightgame, social circle, and daygame and the one thing I have walked away with is that daygame offers the best sex. The sex I have had with the 6 women I have been with this year has been the best ever. For some reason, I never had the good kind of sex from nightgame pulls or even online pulls. Maybe there is some psychology to it where daygame required more patience so when I did get it, it felt great. Meanwhile, with nightgame I was usually drunk so Whiskey Dick happened. This I will pin down to personal experience.
If there is one lesson I have learned, it is that nightgame is very city-dependent. In NYC, the nightlife was amazing but in Miami, it sucks. If the nightlife in a city sucks, the nightgame sucks as well. For a social circle, it is just not realistic to build a new one from scratch that will net you women and the ones already formed will be closed off to most outsiders. Daygame is easily the most transferrable form of game to any major city or even a big one that you end up in. Attractive women will always be out during the day and it gives you a way to get them interested.
First time responding, but long time reader. I mostly agree with your post. I mostly daygame to improve myself as it becomes blatantly obvious what I am insecure about when approaching. Also I think it is quite fun to do (giving positive energy to others and feeling free).
However, in my opinion only 10% from dates to sex is very low. It can be hard to get the first date (there are ways to improve this during the approach), but once you get the date (as soon as possible after the approach) and have a good dateplan, your close rate can be much higher in my experience at least (EU based).
Let me know what you think.
It also breeds a certain relaxation. No man whose had sex with 100 girls could look back on his life and think he was hard done by on that front. Especially when the majority of them were girls he genuinely fancied and met sober in real life, not low-hanging-fruit he pulled drunk or via apps.
The most fruitful of the nine approaches was a sexy little blonde Scandinavian who lived in another part of the country. Good set, number, texting, went nowhere. A forgettable interaction. Except for the fact that she was my 1000th daygame approach.
With summer in full swing there was only one place on my mind. I went into great detail about my love for the girls of Belgrade and my frustrating failure there on my first visit in Part Six. I had unfinished business.
After my incredible results in the final city in LatAm, I felt the grind all the more. For most of the two weeks it seemed like the city was going to fill me with temptation, batter me around and leave me empty handed again. But I persevered.
Her and her friend were 18. Both nice friendly girls. She was appreciative of my approach and said it was unusual and brave for a guy to do that. She was a little alternative in personality. I liked her.
Saturday night, a couple of days before I approached the above girl, I was reaching the end of a session in Republic Square. About seventy yards away I saw a very sexy petite blonde girl at a bus stop. She was just saying goodbye to her friend.
She was 18yo, hot, dressed in a kind of skimpy one piece. She responded well to approach and soon after came for an instant date. I could see groups of local guys looking at us as we sat together, clearly wondering how I had pulled this off. As ever, I loved this feeling.
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