As the great poet, mystic, thinker RUMI thought, and used to say, love doesn`1 mean love only between lovers but the greatest love is love for Christ and therefore for all humanity, nay, for all living beings...We may as well recall how Jesus asked his disciples to wait for Him while he went a bit away from them to pray just before his terrible ordeal, his crucifixion, but they all fell asleep... And ponder our difficulty to forgive those who hurt us, consciously or unconsciously...