Post Your Ex Nude
Leocricia Flinchum
Originally, getting requests, I'd kind of feel special because I'd be like, 'Oh my God, someone's giving me attention' and when they're trying to get something out of you they try to flatter you, make you feel special.
And when older, cooler guys would be like, 'Oh you're so hot', you'd kind of be like, 'Oh, he's popular, he's older' and you'd feel that pressure on you to send because this older popular guy is asking you.
But when you're actually in the situation where you feel the pressure from this person and you feel like you're being flattered and you kind of feel like you owe something to them, it completely changes.
The stigmatisation around asking for help is very much surrounding the fact that you're doing something wrong, like, 'Oh, people are going to think that I'm bad' or 'People are going to think that I'm a snitch', when in reality asking for help is not only helping you but helping the situation.
This campaign asked for Australian school students to be taught consent education earlier, holistically and in every single school, and thanks to tens of thousands of Australians across the country who signed this petition that has now happened.
Let's be real: Everyone makes things up. But if someone you're speaking to has inconsistencies in basic details and personal interests, it could be that they're not being honest about who they really are and they may be making this information up to play a role in order to get closer to you.
If a person starts asking for information you're not completely ready to share, like around where you live or your sexual experiences, it could be a sign that they have different expectations of the relationship.
While at first it sounds romantic and feels great to meet someone online who just gets you, just be careful. Sometimes this behaviour is intended to make you vulnerable or manipulate you for the benefit of them down the track. Trust your gut.
A no is a no, and if someone on the internet is pushing you to do something you don't want to do, like sending nudes, revealing information around yourself or cutting off friends, it is a sign they do not respect your boundaries.
I'm pretty sure most of you are familiar with the term "nude" shoe, right? If not, it's basically a term for a shoe that's similar or an exact match to your skin color. Throughout the years, you may have noticed that there was a particular shade(s) of shoes that was categorized as nude, the colors found in both the first and second sets you see below.
However, that's not a fair or accurate representation of what's to be classified as a nude shoe because we all come in all sorts of delicious colors (haha) and so we should all be fairly represented! I believe brands have, with the time, realized this and we're starting to see the term associated with just those particular shades subside. Christian Louboutin understood this concept and expanded his "nude collection" to represent a more diverse spectrum earlier this year! Great job Mr. Louboutin; if you need someone to test out any shades for upcoming collections, you know how to reach me!
With that, I've compiled a few of my personal favorite shoes in a selection of various styles for each category below! This is not to say that only those who fall into the categories are the only ones who can or should wear them, absolutely not!
This is just to serve as a guide for those of you who have been on the hunt for the perfect nude for your skin color. I personally think every woman should own at least one pair because they can do wonders for the legs, making them appear longer and slimmer, espcially if you're petite and want to experiment with styles that can otherwise cut off some inches (boots, lace ups, and t-straps). Now, what woman doesn't like the sound of that?!
Also, you may be wondering why for the darker skin category I shared navy shoes. If you are dark skinned, then you can certainly opt for dark brown shoes. With my experience in working retail, however, I've discovered that women who have notably darker skin, like Lupita Nyong'o, can also get away with wearing navy as their nude, since the skin can have a (gorgeous!) bluish undertone, where a dark brown can have a bit of a sharp contrast and not blend as seamlessly, this will vary depending on how dark the skin is. This is also my observation from styling, not a fashion rule (who really follows those these days anyway!?).
As a side note, if you're looking for navy shoes in general, regardless of your skin tone or color, keep in mind that the selections are larger and sell out quickly as we approach fall, so now's the time to get them!
I hope you all enjoyed this post, learnt something new or felt inspired by reading, as well as liked the shoes I selected! Thanks so much for stopping by, my dear friends, and I hope your day is as amazing as YOU!
Taking and sharing pictures and videos is easier than ever. With a cell phone, tablet, or computer, we can connect with others near and far in an instant and highly personal moments can be preserved and shared from the privacy of our own homes. Generally, we expect that the people with whom these images or videos are shared will keep the content to themselves and understand it is not their place to post it to the internet or send it to other individuals who were not the intended viewers.
These are just a few examples of conduct that can fall within the general definition of non-consensual pornography and it is important to remember that anyone can be a victim. While some of the most highly publicized incidents of non-consensual pornography involve female victims in heterosexual relationships, people of any gender identity or sexual orientation can be victims of non-consensual pornography.
If and when you are ready to take action to address the situation, you should strongly consider speaking to an attorney with experience in this area to discuss your options and ensure your rights are preserved throughout the process. In this article we provide an overview of the types of remedies that might be available, general information about the laws related to non-consensual pornography, and what you can expect if you do decide to move forward with a civil action.
Some victims of the non-consensual sharing of intimate content are not interested in engaging in litigation or involving the criminal justice system. Their goal is to have the existing content removed, stop the threats of future publication (either to specific individuals or to the internet at large), or have a plan in place if the content is inappropriately disseminated in the future. These goals often can be accomplished out of court, but it is important to devise a plan of action based upon a careful analysis of the specific facts and circumstances of the situation to address the matter effectively.
In sum, if your intimate images or videos have been shared without your consent or if someone is threatening to do so, you are not alone and have a number of options to address the situation. As this problem has continued to grow in recent years, some big tech companies, like Google, as well as government agencies and nonprofit entities have devised resources to aid victims and provide self-help methods to handle the matters themselves.
Victims of non-consensual pornography can take a variety of both non-legal and legal steps to handle the horrible situation in which they find themselves. Having the right attorney to help guide you through the available options, as well as the risks and costs attendant to the same, can be very helpful to address your specific situation. However, the following are, generally, some options that victims can consider.
When content has been shared or disseminated online, as opposed to circulated amongst a limited group of individuals, there are options for seeking the removal of the content from the location where it is published or limiting its visibility through widely available search engines.
Victims of non-consensual pornography can also address the issue through the assistance of a civil attorney. How the matter can or will be addressed will depend upon the facts of the case, but amongst the possible options they can provide for handling the matter may include:
These are but a few of the ways that a civil attorney can assist with the handling of a matter involving non-consensual pornography. Practitioners experienced with these issues can often help you come up with a comprehensive plan to address the situation.
With that said, even if you only recently became aware of the fact that intimate content depicting you has been spread broadly on the internet, you should know that there are options and people willing to help. Any step taken towards regaining control over your sensitive images is a step in the right direction and can help give you peace of mind.
The law in the United States is beginning to catch up with the increasing problem of non-consensual pornography and the devastating impact it has on its victims. Recently, there have been a number of cases that have put a spotlight on this issue, including a case in Texas where a jury awarded $1.2 billion in damages to a victim of a malicious scheme by her ex-boyfriend to, amongst other things, disseminated non-consensual pornography with the intent that it would be nearly impossible for her to remove all of the content and escape the reputational harm it caused.
Some states, in addition to having statutes that specifically establish non-consensual pornography as a criminal act also have statutes that provide for civil remedies, such Ohio (Ohio Revised Code, R.C. 2307.66) and Nebraska (Nebraska Revised Statute 25-3503).
Additionally, because the primary goal of a civil lawsuit is to secure remedies for the victim, as opposed to punishing the perpetrator, the remedies that civil lawsuits can provide, as discussed below, can be helpful to allow a victim to remediate the harm caused and allow them to move forward with their lives.
If you are interested in pursuing a civil lawsuit for non-consensual pornography, your first step is to find an attorney who can handle your case. An attorney can, amongst other things, help determine:
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