Even with my long winded setup - I did miss that piece! So let me know of I have things properly set here.
On BBB I have the red5/webapps/bigbluebutton/WEB-INF/bigbluebutton.properties set with the FS IP, and for now I left it as 8021 and ClueCon.
On FS side I have checked freeswitch/conf/autoload_configs/event_socket.conf.xml (I'm assuming) and changed it to
<param name="nat-map" value="false"/>
<param name="listen-ip" value="0.0.0.0"/>
<param name="listen-port" value="8021"/>
<param name="password" value="ClueCon"/>
I left the ACL alone since I"m just testing - I initially set it then commented it out for further testing.
Since I'm giving it the Ol' quad Zero, I'm assuming it should allow connection from BBB? I must be missing something here? I did a reboot of both systems, rebuilds or anything of such aren't necessary are they? This setup is so cool, I can't wait to acquaint myself well enough to help others!
Thanks for the quick response! Impressive!