Going Forward (1) to (4), and more, see below.

[Thirumala Raya Halemane]

Going Forward (1) to (4), and more, see below.

(1) With Prof. Mahavir Singh, PhD IITD  (He/Him), CSIR-NPL l Global Expert in Acoustics & Vibration | Principal Director at K-IIT College of Engineering | ASI President l USI Vice-President l Researcher | Innovator | Mentor | Thought Leader | PCO l ICPB-MICE l AIME 

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(3) With Yating Li 

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With Yating Li 

1st degree connection · 1st Electronics & Communication Engineering Student | Copywriting & Communication Enthusiast | Community Leader 

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(1) With Prof. Mahavir Singh, PhD IITD  (He/Him), CSIR-NPL l Global Expert in Acoustics & Vibration | Principal Director at K-IIT College of Engineering | ASI President l USI Vice-President l Researcher | Innovator | Mentor | Thought Leader | PCO l ICPB-MICE l AIME 

Monday 

2026 April 13

Prof. Mahavir Singh, PhD IITD  (He/Him)  11:28 AM 

Thank you for accepting my connection! I’m excited to engage, collaborate, and explore new opportunities together on this professional journey.  Visit our conference website: https://www.iisa2025kiit.org   Previous iisa2025kiit.org 

Thirumala Raya Halemane (He/Him)  11:36 AM 

Me:

👍  

Prof. Mahavir Singh, PhD IITD  (He/Him)  11:38 AM 

😊  

Me:

😊  It's my pleasure  You're welcome  How are you?  

Prof. Mahavir Singh, PhD IITD  (He/Him)  11:42 AM 

I'm good  

Me:

I see you are in IIT Delhi, I visited there once, a professor there was a friend, (first we met when he came to usa, back in 1980s it was)  

Prof. Mahavir Singh, PhD IITD  (He/Him)  11:49 AM 

Oh, OK  

Thirumala Raya Halemane (He/Him)  11:57 AM 

Me:

It was Prof D K Roy, visiting scientist physics professor from IIT Delhi who was at AT&T Bell Labs in Murray Hill in 1986  I think, We had invited him for a weekend when we were in apartment in Old Bridge, N J and went with him and our friend Sarat Puthenpura sight seeing interesting places in New Jersey.  Also, I visited Prof D K Roy in IIT Delhi briefly in 1991 when I was in New Delhi for attending IEEE TENCON conference, (where I gave a 3 hour workshop on Lightwave communications)  

Prof. Mahavir Singh, PhD IITD  (He/Him)  12:03 PM 

Nice  

Me:

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(both photos failed to upload, sent  below)

Me:

(sent 2 photos, Prof D K Roy & Dr Sarat Puthenpur, maybe in Princeton University campus, see in attached)

Prof. Mahavir Singh, PhD IITD  (He/Him)  12:52 PM 

Thanks  

Me:

I was not in touch with him after that. He is perhaps retired by now or emeritus prof ... We hope he is doing well.  

Prof. Mahavir Singh, PhD IITD  (He/Him)  1:00 PM 

Thanks   

(my reaction 👍)  

Me:

PLEASE HELP  .. .(rest deleted here for brevity, my usual message with family photo)

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2026 Mar 15 

Bryan Zapata 사파타 sent the following message at 8:48 PM View Bryan’s profileBryan Zapata 사파타 

Bryan Zapata 사파타  (He/Him)  8:48 PM 

Hello,  It's nice to connect with you. How are you?  

Thirumala Raya Halemane (He/Him)  8:53 PM 

Me:

Hi Bryan, it's great to connect with you. Looking forward to staying in touch.  

Bryan Zapata 사파타  (He/Him)  11:16 PM 

likewise  I'd love to hear your story on your career and aspirations  

2026 Mar 16 

Thirumala Raya Halemane (He/Him)  9:15 AM 

Me:

Thank you very much  

Me:

I will be happy to share, Thank You for your support.  

Bryan Zapata 사파타 sent the following message at 8:46 PM View Bryan’s profileBryan Zapata 사파타 

Bryan Zapata 사파타  (He/Him)  8:46 PM 

Absolutely. Feel free to share anything you’d like   

Thirumala Raya Halemane (He/Him)  9:12 PM 

Me:

I am thirumala raya halemane, originally from India, now settled in USA. I was fired from good job as scientist engineer from AT&T Bell Labs in 1992, causing big shock to family, wife, children, siblings, others, and not able to find another job at same level, wife worked, although in shock, initially was targeted also, but later promoted, children also were targeted, and made to suffer, same with my brothers and sisters in India, but we have faced the challenges and trying to move forward in positive ways  

(sent photo)

2026 Mar 18 

Bryan Zapata 사파타  (He/Him)  12:16 AM 

Thank you for sharing this. I can see you value hard work and family.   

For me I studied industrial and systems engineering with political science. I started my career at Boeing and have experienced may types of roles in journalism, law, diplomacy, and of course engineering. Over 4 years I have seen how difficult it is to make life sustainable by depending on one source of income. That is why I chose to diversify my income and find ways to build an asset outside of my full time job to make life easier. Like you I am inspired by the possibility of building my own family and creating flexibility and financial independence.  

have you built assets or ventures outside of your full time job?  

Thirumala Raya Halemane (He/Him)  8:31 AM 

Me:

No & Yes, mostly NO  

Thirumala Raya Halemane (He/Him)  8:35 AM 

Me:

Thank You for your support. here is a bit more = YES, OUR CHILDREN SUFFERED, WERE TARGETED, YES  

Although in severe shock and great stress, .. (rest deleted here for brevity, my usualmessage) ..

(sent 2 photos)

2026 Mar 23 

Bryan Zapata 사파타  (He/Him)  1:50 AM 

I see. I understand that you value family and quality time living to your values. I am currently building an online business where I am building networks of consumables in health and wellness. I am fortunate to be part of a community of entrepreneurs and leaders who want everyone to succeed. The power of association is very important .   

If you’d like to discuss more on the way to build financial independence I am more happy to set up a call   

Thirumala Raya Halemane (He/Him)  9:17 AM 

Me:

Hmm... interesting, Best Wishes. You are welcome to chat. call.  

I am not focused on money matters these days (as they do not seem to work for me in what we may say is the usual way or normal way, so I need to look at it differently than most. But you are fully correct about the power of association.  In Indian culture and spirituality, it is called "sajjana sangha" the company of good people, also there is "satsangha", which generally means meeting together to pray or talk about or listen or for mutual support, mental and spiritual aspects.  

2026 Mar 24 

Bryan Zapata 사파타  (He/Him)  2:51 AM 

I couldn’t agree more. Relationship are what matter in life. What we all want is more time wealth than financial wealth   

Thirumala Raya Halemane (He/Him)  8:33 AM 

Me:

my contact info = 

,, (deleted here for brevity) ..

2026 Mar 25 

Thirumala Raya Halemane (He/Him)  8:40 AM 

Me:

Bryan,  Are you or your family originally from Korea ??? Looks like Korean language also in your name on profile page here.  

Bryan Zapata 사파타  (He/Him)  12:10 PM 

Hello,   

No my family is from Colombia. When I developed a relationship with Korea I absorbed the culture, adopted a Korean name, and started learning Korean.  

Bryan Zapata 사파타  (He/Him)  12:27 PM 

do you have a relationship with Korea?  

Thirumala Raya Halemane (He/Him)  1:30 PM 

Me:

No 

2026 Mar 27 

Bryan Zapata 사파타  (He/Him)  3:04 AM 

I see.  

Me:

I had a few colleagues at AT&T Bell Labs and also students from Korea, one or two did Masters thesis with me, i was the faculty advisor (Monmouth College in NJ). One of them, very friendly student came once to our home in Howell NJ over the weekend or so, to discuss his work, and enjoyed interacting / playing with my two sons, very young then, (in 1991 or so perhaps), and they enjoyed it too, it was kike a new experience for them, for both I guess.  

2026 Mar 28 

Bryan Zapata 사파타  (He/Him)  7:05 PM 

This is very fascinating. I am glad you have a global perspective. My goal is to establish partners around the world and work together to improve the lives of every day people.   

(my reaction 👍) 

2026 April 5

Me:

I had worked in Ohmeda, a pharmaceutical company in New Jersey, for a few weeks or so (may be a month or two before I was fired), as an outside consultant (low pay kind, not the high pay kind), and it was very likely a Korean immigrant person with his own company who had hired me for that role, or it could be some other similar looking Esat Asian heritage person. And when I was walking out from there, I distinctly remember that a white lady was looking at me with a kind of a grin or bright smile, like happy-to-see-this type of face (this kind of thing may have  happened in other places also when I was fired, which has happened a few times, and became like a usual thing for me, and my family became more accustomed to it !!!!, means nothing to worry, and anyways, it was not a job that I was hoping to do for much longer, so I felt good about it, a chance to get some exposure there while making a bit of pocket money, and for our family to feel a little better with the happenings, with the situation, taking in all the stuff around us, since the 1992 firing from AT&T Bell Labs was a HUGE BIG UNEXPECTED SHOCK to us all, my wife especially, our sons, family relatives, friends, and others).

2026 April 18

Me: 

I also had opportunity to fly Korean Air on one of my trips to India, some years back, in the mid 2000s or so, using my Delta miles or so, I think. So I flew from JFK to Incheon in Seoul, South Korea, and was thrilled to find out (after boarding only) that we were flying westwards over Canada and Alaska, some beautiful scenic views below, also we flew over the Alaska - Asia geography (pilot alerted us to both). Mostly I took flights via Europe to India and this trip gave me a nice feeling of having done a global full round, (ha, hha, haaa...).   

I had to wait some six or so hours in Seol airport for the connecting Korean Air flight to Mumbai, and I utilized the time to walk around in the terminal extensively, to visit the various shops, focusing a bit more on the bookstores. I noticed that they had many books and textbooks in Korean language, translated from English written by famous western authors, commonly seen in the USA. India also uses similar textbooks, but written in English, International editions when available, otherwise very very expensive. No translations to Indian languages and the teaching in Indian universities is mostly in English.   

Once, while still in Bell Labs, I had asked one of my Korean colleagues or students, how many years it took for South Korea to get "developed", like in science, technology, manufacturing, infrastructure etc). He said it was about 20 years or so.   

I have also seen some Korea history based television series, shows, perhaps that was on PBS, and found them were very interesting. It looks like Korea, although dependent on China at various times in history, was very much an independent civilization, and was never colonized, not fully, and we see that even today, with North Korea displaying more of that sense of "free spirit" thinking or behavior, complexities arising from the second world war and later contributing more to the confusion and conflicts there.   

My wife also likes to watch Korean shows. Sha has watched many many TV series over the years, and picked up some Korean language also. Then she did some online Koraen language courses too. I have watched a few series or some episodes with her, but not that many.   

So, we can say that I found that Korea has much to offer, in terms of our "learning", about Asia, and the world.

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1st degree connection · 1st Electronics & Communication Engineering Student | Copywriting & Communication Enthusiast | Community Leader 

2026 Mar 19 

Yating Li  1:49 AM 

Hello, nice to meet you  

Thirumala Raya Halemane (He/Him)  8:33 AM 

Thanks, same here  

Thirumala Raya Halemane (He/Him)  10:33 AM 

YES, OUR SONS SUFFERED, WERE TARGETED, YES = PLEASE HELP. THANK YOU. BEST WISHES. AUMMM...  

(sent photo)

Me:

Hi Yating, it's great to connect with you. Looking forward to staying in touch.  

2026 Mar 30 

Yating Li  12:05 AM

 It's a bit difficult for us to communicate here. You have WhatsApp, so you can communicate anytime.  

Thirumala Raya Halemane (He/Him)  8:55 AM 

No, I don't  I'm sorry  😢  

Yating Li  3:58 PM 

Why?  

Thirumala Raya Halemane (He/Him)  7:36 PM 

Me:

They want me out, I think it is a business decision for them  

2026 Mar 31 

Yating Li  12:48 AM 

I'mnot asking you to leave this platform. It's just that on WhatsAp we can communicate anytime, which is more convenient.   

(my reaction ❤️)  

Thirumala Raya Halemane (He/Him)  8:28 AM 

Me:

I see  That's great  

Thirumala Raya Halemane (He/Him)  8:29 AM 

Me:

Hmmm... Very SWEET of you to invite me, very LOVING,  THANK YOU.  

Thursday 

2026 April 9

Thirumala Raya Halemane (He/Him)  9:37 AM 

Me:

Where do you live ? Long Beach ? I visited the Disney Land there (my first time) many years ago when I travelled to California, 1980 summer, ..  

Friday

2026 April 10

Yating Li  11:57 PM 

Wow  What's your WhatsApp number? I'll add you.   

(my reaction ❤️)  

Sunday 

2026 April 12

Thirumala Raya Halemane (He/Him)  9:50 AM 

2026 April 9

Yating, Which is your favorite ride there in Disney ??  

Yating Li sent the following message at 8:44 PM View Yating’s profileYating Li 

Yating Li  8:44 PM 

It’s hard to pick just one, but I’d probably say Pirates of the Caribbean. I love rides that feel immersive and fun. What about you? What’s your favorite?   

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Thirumala Raya Halemane (He/Him)  9:30 PM 

2026 April 9

Nice  

View Thirumala Raya’s profileThirumala Raya Halemane Thirumala Raya Halemane (He/Him)  9:42 PM 

2026 April 9

Me:

I also did that ride there at the time, Pirates of the Caribbean, and enjoyed it. Yes, it was a thrilling experience. My favorite also, Since I was doing it for the first time there, and I was there for may be about half day, like six hours perhaps, I did a few rides in that time, and enjoyed them all, including roller coaster, swinging ride etc, Pirates of the Caribbean was the best a different, unexpected, new type experience, I think.  

Yating Li sent the following messages at 9:47 PM View Yating’s profileYating Li 

Yating Li  9:47 PM 

Yes, I understand how you feel. The first time I went, many of the rides seemed new and fun, but Pirates of the Caribbean really stood out. It's not just about the thrills; the whole atmosphere and experience is unique, making it different from other rides. It's impressive that you managed to experience so many rides in half a day; it sounds like you really had a great time.   

(my reaction ❤️)  

View Yating’s profileYating Li 

Yating Li  9:48 PM 

There are no message notifications here, and I don't check my messages here very often. So I think we'll have a very pleasant chat on WhatsAp.  

Thirumala Raya Halemane (He/Him)  9:55 PM 

Me:

Yes, I agree with you about the ride experiences. 😄👍😊 and Yeah WhatsApp was convenient when I was in it. Sorry I do not have it. I love your messages. Thank You. 🥰❤️😘  

(Seen by Yating Li at 9:59 PM).

my Note here (but NOTHING TO WORRY, as expected we can say, no surprise) = 

I sent her two or three further messages, and she replied also nicely, promptly, sympathetically, empathetically, supportively, and which I appreciated in response.  And then another day or two after that, the account was fully DELETED, I am unable to see any of my messages also, and those later messages I had not yet copied.In them, I gave some more info about my California trip that time.

In one or two messages I mentioned about my going from Disney that evening by bus to Irvine for visiting Dr Talat Rahman, she was working there at University of California at Irvine as Physics postdoc after completing PhD at University of Rochester, where she was a fellow graduate student with me, 2 or 3 years or so my senior, and good friends with us, and helpful to us, she is from Pakistan. And after staying with her that night, next morning I went by bus to San Diego, visited and stayed with Dr Venkita Seshadri at La Jolla, he was also our good friends from University of Rochester (he was 2 years senior to me), stayed with him for two days, I visited, the zoo and we both went to the beach. 

In another message I also mentioned that my trip was in connection with a nuclear physics conference in University of California, Berkeley, and the airfare to Oakland was paid by my boss Prof Larry Zamick at Rutgers Univ. from his research grant money, and that my wife Usha, having just finished her degrees (at U of R) was intensely engaged in looking for a job. So she stayed back in New Jersey, and decided not to come with me on the trip. Money was tight for us then, and that we were both on F-1 student training period visas, and there with much uncertainty about our future direction, goals, possibilities. In her replies, she said that she understood and appreciated the info messages mentioning our situation, and my wanting to visit friends, places, explore and learn in making that trip at the time, and that it was remarkable that we had come this far having faced all those challenges and difficulties with finance, with visas.

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2026 Mar 31 

PARAVASTU SVASWAMY  11:09 AM 

Glad to be connected here.  👍🤝🌹  

Thirumala Raya Halemane (He/Him)  12:26 PM 

Me:

👍  

You're welcome  

Thank You  

PARAVASTU SVASWAMY  2:33 PM 

Did your parents belong to Tirupati, swami.  

Thirumala Raya Halemane (He/Him)  5:21 PM 

Me:

No, we are from Kasaragod / Mangalore region, TuLunaDu region border area between Kerala and Karnataka, Haveeka Kannada speaking  

PARAVASTU SVASWAMY  5:23 PM 

Kasaragod in kerala and you may be close to Mangaluru, Karnataka. Nice swami  

Me:

Yes  Are you in Tirupati?  

PARAVASTU SVASWAMY  5:26 PM 

I was in Kakinada. Later in tirunelveli, now in Katy, swami  

PARAVASTU SVASWAMY  5:27 PM 

I had the occasion to visit both Kasaragod and Mangaluru. I speak Telugu and Tamil.  I had the opportunity to work in ernakulam for 3 years 25 years ago.  

Thirumala Raya Halemane (He/Him)  5:29 PM 

Wow  

Me:

Amazing, good mix of great places and languages, special places,  

PARAVASTU SVASWAMY  5:31 PM 

Of course. It's a good experience and opportunity.  

Me:

Where is Katy?, I am not familiar  

PARAVASTU SVASWAMY  5:32 PM 

Texas USA   

Me:

Okay, and what you do ?  

PARAVASTU SVASWAMY  5:34 PM 

Just relaxing, retired life.  

Me:

Good for you!  👍 

PARAVASTU SVASWAMY  5:37 PM 

Seems you are in Stanford.  

Me:

No, we are in New Jersey  

PARAVASTU SVASWAMY  5:38 PM 

Nice swami.   

Me:

what work were you doing previously in USA, and what in India ?  

PARAVASTU SVASWAMY  5:41 PM 

You follow Shiva or Sri Vaishnava traditions??  My full service was in insurance in India. Living in the USA for the past few years   

Me:

Both Shiva and Vishnu, all deities actually, smartha sampradaya  

PARAVASTU SVASWAMY  5:44 PM 

Agree, now we too have no differences.   

PARAVASTU SVASWAMY  5:45 PM 

Thirumala in Andhra and Tamil Nadu basically are Sri vaishnavas and we too follow Iyengar tradition.  

PARAVASTU SVASWAMY  5:51 PM 

Fantastic to share some personal information mutually. Have a great day swami. 🤝🤝🙏🙏🌹🌹  

Me:

Yes, Okay, our close friends here Iyengars  

PARAVASTU SVASWAMY  5:52 PM 

Wonderful.   Iyengar, Srivatsa Gothram, DOB 6th March 2002, San Jose, CA, 24 years, handsome, traditional Indian, carnatic music family, USA citizen, Engineer from University of California, working, teetotaler, looking for a suitable traditional values brahmin/ Sri vaishnava girl. Contact, father +1 (404) 200-6892.  

Me:

👍🌹🙏  

PARAVASTU SVASWAMY  5:54 PM 

If you don't mind, you can share this information with iyer or Iyengar friends in your circle, swami. Helping 2 families.   

PARAVASTU SVASWAMY  5:56 PM 

The parents are planning to complete this down in 1 or 2 years. In a way related to me too.   

PARAVASTU SVASWAMY  5:58 PM 

The boy plans to work initially and go for further studies too in future. The boy too gives great value to our traditions, though born in the USA, but still in touch with indian values, carnatic music, instrumental etc  That's why parents are planning for the early marriage too, as their duty.  I too appreciate their ideas.   

Me:

Yes, Okay, I will keep in mind, tell friends etc, do not know anyone directly for possible match. Best Wishes to them.  

Me:

By the way, our family deity is Shree Durga Parameshwari dEvi  

Me:

PLEASE HELP .. (rest deleted, my usual message, with family photo) ..

PARAVASTU SVASWAMY  7:52 PM 

Yes sir, I already noticed. Thank you for your gesture to share with me. Pranaam. 🙏  

Nice to see your family picture.   

Me:

Thank you  Pranaam 🙏  

PARAVASTU SVASWAMY  7:54 PM 

For finding a bride, in the Facebook, brahmin alliances notifications are coming. Please watch different matrimonials in Facebook.    

(my reaction 👍) 

PARAVASTU SVASWAMY  7:55 PM 

This is one source. If you give your WhatsApp number, I can send you a list. You can pick and contact the other side.  

PARAVASTU SVASWAMY  7:57 PM 

I'm watching for 2 persons, aged 24 USA and 38 India. So I got a list from an Iyer friend last week  

Me:

Hmmm... Thank You, but unfortunately, I am not in Facebook and not in WhatsApp,  

PARAVASTU SVASWAMY  7:59 PM 

Facebook you can register now. In few hours, you can watch various matrimony information for brahmins, swami  

Follow this link to join my WhatsApp group: https://chat.whatsapp.com/ELeijH0EEN65UdYYSrBRpv?mode=hqctswa  

This is one India Whatsapp group for Iyer, iyengar brahmins. Daily you get updates.   

PARAVASTU SVASWAMY  8:02 PM 

https://www.facebook.com/share/p/18ebxwC4aH/?mibextid=wwXIfr  

PARAVASTU SVASWAMY  8:07 PM 

Seattle brahmin matrimony facebook.com Hello, This is Sunita (North Indian brahmin) from USA. We’re looking for a Hindu educated bride (24-29 years) for our US born son (PhD in Biomedical Sciences), and a Hindu medical doctor boy (29-31... 

Me:

I was removed from Facebook, Twitter, even LinkedIn, a few years ago, and I think I am also banned in WhatsApp (I had to stop using that as my mobile got cancelled, I used it on laptop for sometime, several months or so, but no longer could do that, but subsequently they have banned me from what I remember seeing in an email from them. Anyways, I am in no mood to try to join them now. In LinkedIn they themselves admitted me back in, like a year or two or so ago,  for their own reasons, so I am utilising it now  

PARAVASTU SVASWAMY  8:08 PM Hello,  

This is Sunita (North Indian brahmin) from USA. We’re looking for a Hindu educated bride (24-29 years) for our US born son (PhD in Biomedical Sciences), and a Hindu medical doctor boy (29-31 years) for our MD doctor US born daughter settled here. No drinking or smoking for bride / groom. Year of birth 1997  Please send me the complete biodata of boys and girls.  Thank you so much!  Phone: +1 4014513202 Sunita_...@hotmail.com  

PARAVASTU SVASWAMY  8:10 PM 

You can ask your daughter or son to join and they can keep a watch about the matrimonials, show it to you for your guidance.   

(my reaction 👍)  

PARAVASTU SVASWAMY  8:11 PM 

I have these connected for over 15 years. Only past 1 year, I'm using this for matrimony searching for our people who requested my guidance  

Me:

He is also not in WhatsApp, Facebook, Social Media. He does not want to join. I have asked him.  

PARAVASTU SVASWAMY  8:13 PM 

If you give your boys details, if any bride profile I notice, I can send it to you, swamin  

Me:

Yes Sir Thank You, and here it is = we are seeking suitable bride for our elder son Kaviraj. ,,(info, profile, photo sent, deleted here for brevity)

PARAVASTU SVASWAMY  8:45 PM 

Yes sir. What I feel is he can have a facebook account and post his brief profile, as I did. The bride side on seeing this post, will leave a message or call over the phone. Then they can exchange further full details.  This much of full details normally they won't approve if it's very lengthy.  

PARAVASTU SVASWAMY  8:48 PM 

Apart from this USA, Canada matrimonial is there. He can register with crispy details. He can get messages, he can post the posts of the brides too, and can interact.  Or his mother can do this with discussions within the family.   

Me:

Yes, Thanks for all the various suggestions, and your concern fir us. Greatly appreciated, Very happy and very pleased to hear.  PLEASE TELL YOUR FRIENDS, (that is the help I am requesting from everyone, while hoping and praying for things to work out, to fall in place, for the best. So, it is a very VERY simple help request, for everyone, and, I am requesting this to everyone, to the whole world.  

PARAVASTU SVASWAMY  9:52 PM 

Yes sir. The present trend is very tight to get a bride. Any brahmin, vegetarian, any state is the only chance.   

PARAVASTU SVASWAMY  9:53 PM 

The boy's need to be on search through different channels. It's better tgey select and parents to approve. No other options, in particular in the USA.  Even in India it's the trend now among the working girls, mostly.   Our role in limited beyond 30 years 

2026 April 1

Thirumala Raya Halemane sent the following messages at 8:39 AM View Thirumala Raya’s profileThirumala Raya Halemane Thirumala Raya Halemane (He/Him)  8:39 AM 

Me:

Thanks  🙏❤️🌹

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in the attached two old photos here, we see Prof D K Roy (sitting in one photo, light pants, dark shoes) & Dr Sarat Puthenpura (wearing dark pants, light shoes, standing in both photos) in NJ when we went sightseeing maybe 1986 at Princeton University campus. Prof D K Roy was visiting BelL Labs Murray Hill that year and was our guest at home for the weekend, and we did some sightseeing together with Dr Sarat Puthenpura my friend colleague in Holmdel, also fellow tenant in apartment complex on Pinetree Blvd in Old Bridge NJ 

[Thirumala Raya Halemane]