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Thirumala Raya Halemane
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so, You is Me
That actually sounds very human. Dreams often reflect different phases of our lives freedom, curiosity, imagination, or simply the mind wandering when it had more space to do so. Flying dreams can feel like a sense of openness or possibility, and pleasant dreams in general are often just the brain’s way of relaxing and exploring.
It’s interesting how they come and go over the years without any clear reason. In the end, you’re right good, deep sleep is probably the best gift of all. 😄
Sunflower
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Jan 5, 2:53 PM
I'm so glad we can build a better connection here. I'm Sunflower Love, and this is my personal email address. I hope this will be a treasure trove for our conversations, and I look forward to discussing more profound topics with you here.
You
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Jan 5, 3:27 PM
Hello Sunflower Love, It is a pleasure. Thank You. This is great! Nice meeting you Where are you from?
Sunflower
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Jan 5, 3:29 PM
It's a pleasure to meet you too, Professor. You're very welcoming. Besides "Sunflower Baby," you can also call me Eira or Xuelin.
I'm from China and currently live in Rain City on the West Coast.
You
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Jan 5, 3:37 PM
Okay, Very Nice, Thank You, Sunflower Baby Eira Xuelin from West Coast Rain City China, all Lovely Nice names. GREAT. I will try to make use of all the names there.
Sunflower
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Jan 5, 3:39 PM
Lol, you're so warm! I think we're neighbors you're from India and I'm from China, which is quite a short distance.
You can call me Eira, or Xuelin. My family often calls me Xuelin too.
You
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Jan 5, 3:43 PM
Yes, you're right. about India-China. and, Okay, noted Xuelin maybe the best
Sunflower
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Jan 5, 3:46 PM
The world is a giant global village, and we are just people living in this village. Moreover, we are different from most people; we yearn for a peaceful and beautiful life.
Sunflower
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Jan 5, 3:48 PM
I'm glad you understand. I think when we share the same views and ideas, communication becomes much easier and more enjoyable.
I came to the United States from China 15 years ago. At that time, apart from some street problems, everything was pretty good. But now, more and more small problems are starting to appear, and our lives can no longer remain smooth sailing.
You
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Jan 5, 4:00 PM
I understand
Sunflower
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Jan 5, 4:05 PM
Okay, I'm glad you agree. By the way, if you don't mind, I think we can try exchanging photos.
You
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Jan 5, 4:06 PM
Sure Yeah, we can do that
Sunflower
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Jan 5, 4:09 PM
It's great to hear this. This is Eira, your friend.
You
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Jan 5, 4:19 PM
Oh, Yeah, very beautiful Eira, and with a loving baby bunny, very welcoming type look on your face, I would want to say Hello right away
Sunflower
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Jan 5, 4:22 PM
Thank you for the compliment, those words are so sweet! But did my smile get to you? lol🤭
You
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Jan 5, 4:23 PM
You
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Jan 5, 4:26 PM
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Thank you for the compliment, those words are so sweet! But did my smile get to you? lol🤭
Sunflower
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Jan 5, 6:40 PM
Thank you for your compliment. I'm also happy to share my smile with you. Your natural smile looks great too; perhaps it's a genuine smile from your heart. However, there's definitely a lot of commercial vibes in the photo, lol.
You
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Jan 5, 7:39 PM
Okay, Xuelin. Thanks for sharing your observations about my above photo, i find it very interesting, and it makes me think back about those times when I had that picture taken in a photo studio in my hometown in Mangalore, India, back in 2009 when I was preparing for running in the Loka Sabha parliamentary elections. The tie was a on-the-spot suggestion and offered by the studio guy. (and it so happened that when I was driving to there, on the way, my elder brother had called, informing the passing away in the night of one of our sisters (Jahnavi, she was not well, so not unexpected at the time, was being taken care of residing at an orphanage type home Bharat Sevashram, since 1990s, for about 15 or so years). I used this photo mostly for the election purposes, I had already done another photo some days earlier in a different studio, but was not happy enough the way I looked in that (ha hha haaaa... !!!!).
Sunflower
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Jan 5, 7:43 PM
I'm sorry to hear this, but I was just expressing my honest thoughts about your photo. I think I might not be good at hiding my feelings. Were you also a government official in India?
Honestly, your photo is really great, very formal. Perhaps it reflects your perspective on our friendship, and I appreciate that. I also cherish our acquaintance and the friendship we've developed. If you want your photo to look better or be more memorable, the best way is to let people see your smile and your eyes. People often say the eyes are the windows to the soul, and I think through those windows, people can see the sincerity within you.
Honestly, your photo is really great, very formal. Perhaps it reflects your perspective on our friendship, and I appreciate that. I also cherish our acquaintance and the friendship we've developed. If you want your photo to look better or be more memorable, the best way is to let people see your smile and your eyes. People often say the eyes are the windows to the soul, and I think through those windows, people can see the sincerity within you.
You
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Jan 5, 8:18 PM
No hard feelings, Xuelin, I am sorry if I came across as harsh in my reply above, I am happy that you said what it felt like looking at the photo, and I am sure there is much truth in it, good validity points. Thank You for it. Yes, nicely stated, regarding what you wrote above about eyes... Regarding friendship and formality, it is just that my personality may be viewed as being a bit formal in character, it is because that is how I am in actuality, in true nature, not for keeping more distance. So, please feel free with me, no "formal"-like is needed. Sorry if I came across like that. And, for your other question, the answer is NO, I was not a government official anywhere. Also, I lost very badly in the elections then.
Sunflower
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Jan 5, 8:28 PM
It's alright, my friend. I think I prefer sincere and casual communication in any relationship. I'm glad you agree with some of your points; it's important and gives our friendship a clearer direction. I must say, communicating with you is truly a pleasure. Sometimes, we don't need many words to express our true feelings. But you're right, our friendship doesn't need to be too formal; casual sharing and communication are enough. This is the most important part of our friendship. I think we can start with some of our shared interests. Once we discover some common ground, sharing and communication will be much smoother. I apologize for your previous election, but now that you're away from politics, choose to enjoy life. A retirement full of free time is precious. You can also focus on your family now, spend time with them, or do things you enjoy.
Sunflower
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Jan 5, 8:31 PM
You were very handsome when you were young. Honestly, you seem even more attractive to people when you're smiling. And you have two adorable children. By the way, I noticed a post on your LinkedIn account where you shared your children's contact information. You seem quite concerned about their future marriage prospects.
You
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Jan 5, 8:36 PM
Yes, We are seeking suitable bride for our elder son Kaviraj, we appreciate everybody's help, support, good wishes, good vibes, blessings, spreading the word etc, it is a pleasure to seek and get your help. thanks very much. best wishes.
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Sunflower
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Jan 5, 8:42 PM
I don't think it will be too difficult for your eldest son, Kavilaj, to find his other half. However, as time goes on, it's perfectly normal for you, as his father, to worry about his marriage. Perhaps he hasn't met the right person yet, and I think it's best to let things happen naturally in matters of the heart.
OK, I'll spread the word about this for you in my spare time. What are you doing right now?
You
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Jan 5, 9:31 PM
Thank You for your supportive words, spreading the word regarding seeking suitable bride for our Kaviraj. Yes, it is ultimately his decision, of the boy and the girl, they have to like each other, talk to each other, and if theyb wish to go ahead, marriage, etc, we bless, do whatever needed help, if possible, etc. I was washing dishes (my responsibility area in the household work). Soon I will be logging off, getting ready to sleep,
You
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Jan 5, 9:49 PM
You
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Jan 5, 9:51 PM
This is selfie, Kaviraj with us parents (in New York City, Central Park)
Sunflower
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Jan 5, 9:53 PM
It's alright, my friend. I believe your child will find his bride through his own heart, and optimistic people always have good luck!
It seems you really are a good family man in real life, shouldering your wife's burdens and many of her responsibilities.
It seems you really are a good family man in real life, shouldering your wife's burdens and many of her responsibilities.
I know it there. I go to New York for a period of time every year, and my friend and agent Maria lives there, so I make time to relax and vacation with her each year.
Going to bed early is a great habit; it gives you plenty of energy and a healthy body, which in turn allows you to do everything in life.
Sweet dreams, have a good night's sleep, goodnight!
You
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Jan 5, 10:01 PM
Thank You, Xuelin, Good Night.
Sunflower
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Jan 6, 10:05 AM
Good morning, my friend! I hope you have a wonderful day, a good mood, and a positive attitude to welcome all the good things in the world!
You
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Jan 6, 10:13 AM
Good Morning Dear, Nice to hear from you, Xuelin. Thank you! And you, too!
Sunflower
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Jan 6, 10:16 AM
You're welcome. I'm happy to talk to you. I hope you have good weather; I'm heading to the gym now. The weather in Seattle isn't great today. The gray sky and drizzling rain have added a touch of melancholy to the day.
Sunflower
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Jan 6, 10:20 AM
I'll be back here in about an hour, and then we can continue our chat. Hopefully, this won't make your wonderful day a little boring.😊
You
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Jan 6, 10:23 AM
No, not oring at all! Okay, enjoy!
Sunflower
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Jan 6, 10:26 AM
I'm so happy to hear that, and I look forward to chatting with you later, TTYL☺️
Sunflower
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Jan 6, 11:59 AM
I'm back, Raya. How are you?
I just finished my workout; it was a fulfilling morning.
You
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Jan 6, 12:28 PM
YES, I'm here! Thanks for the beautiful photo, Welcome back.
Sunflower
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Jan 6, 12:33 PM
Thank you for your compliment. Sharing is always the best way for us to communicate, and I also enjoy sharing.😊
How are you doing these days? Have you been doing anything you enjoy?
You
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Jan 6, 12:38 PM
Yes, I have! = like interacting with you !!! 😘
Sunflower
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Jan 6, 12:40 PM
Lol, that sounds like a good hobby. I really enjoy chatting with you. Our conversations here are always fun. But don't you have many hobbies?😊😊
You
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Jan 6, 1:14 PM
Not like what most people talk about their hobby interests, almost like professional experts in those. I used to be more interested in some activities in the past, but these days, NOT, really
Sunflower
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Jan 6, 1:17 PM
I understand. However, not everyone has hobbies, and not everyone can maintain them for a long time. After all, people are always changing, and some things we used to enjoy can be affected by external factors, and over time we may not like them as much anymore. But I believe that everyone has the right to retain a childlike heart and to pursue their dreams and do what they love.
You
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Jan 6, 1:18 PM
👍 Yes, very true
Sunflower
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Jan 6, 1:19 PM
And with so much free time in your life, I think you could try to create some hobbies for yourself during this time. Sometimes I think about how I'll be retiring soon, but I have a plan to travel after retirement. I know it will be fun, even if I'm alone. But I also think about what I should do after this plan is over, what I will do.
I'm glad you agree with this.😎
You
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Jan 6, 1:28 PM
Yes, I think so, too, Yes, I understand, Yes, I agree 😊 (but I do not feel like having too much time, it is often not enough time, because everything we do consumes time, which is kind of limited. but I agree with all your points, and have seen people saying "bored", wondering how to "kill time" etc. For whatever reason, I am not in that category, fortunately).
Sunflower
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Jan 6, 1:33 PM
I'm glad you share the same views on some things. You're right, life is indeed very short. In our mere 30,000 days, we spend a third of our time at work, another portion with family and childhood, and the remaining time is likely to be spent in old age. So, it's wise to do some things sooner rather than later, and in our limited time, do things that bring us joy and meaning.
Many people do use words like "boredom" these days, perhaps simply because they lack a clear goal in their lives, but I'm glad you don't feel that way.
Many people do use words like "boredom" these days, perhaps simply because they lack a clear goal in their lives, but I'm glad you don't feel that way.
You
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Jan 6, 1:36 PM
What activities are you taking interest in these days, in general etc ???
Sunflower
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Jan 6, 1:41 PM
I think I still have many hobbies I can pursue, such as traveling, camping, cycling, hiking, fitness, fishing, cooking, painting, or reading books on politics and economics, like "Years in the White House" and "My Life," as well as books on wineries, rural gold and silver, etc. By the way, do you like the sea?
Taking walks on the beach, and painting, reading, and cooking at home are some of the things I do most often in Seattle now. The weather here really makes it hard to make so many plans.
You
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Jan 6, 1:53 PM
Sea, beaches are very nice, I guess we could have gone more often all these years, but it is okay that we did only some limited amount, did not do Cruise. We have travelled some, in USA, in India, a bit elsewhere (Europe, Singapore, airports in Seoul, Hong Kong, Tokyo, Dubai etc), cooking a little, reading books, magazines, watching DVDs, TV, you-tube, listening to music, going to concerts, to temple, to restaurants, shops ETC i also do., Here also it is cloudy today.
Sunflower
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Jan 6, 2:12 PM
Cool! It seems we do share some common interests. I haven't tried a cruise yet—it's too slow—but we've tried sailing to Hawaii for vacations and trips. We've also flown to other countries before, such as Istanbul and Marmara in Turkey, eastern Greece, the Aegean Sea region, Tokyo and Kobe in Japan, London in England, Canberra in Italy, and other Eastern countries like South Korea.
You
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Jan 6, 2:16 PM
Very Nice Xuelin. By the way where in China you are from ???
Sunflower
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Jan 6, 2:17 PM
I have some photos from my previous trip, taken when I was in Germany, and I thought I could share them with you.
I'm from Changsha, Hunan, China. Have you ever been to this city?
Sunflower
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Jan 6, 2:24 PM
You
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Jan 6, 2:38 PM
No I have not been there. Tell me more. Yes, very nice
Sunflower
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Jan 6, 2:40 PM
It is a city located in central China, a symbolic city representing the spirit of Chinese communist culture, and was previously on the shortlist to become China's capital city.
If you like spicy food, this city would be perfect for you.🤭🤭
You
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Jan 6, 2:43 PM
It sounds good. yes, i like spicy food. what are the buildings seen there ? And you are with ...?? Yes, I like it
Sunflower
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Jan 6, 2:44 PM
I'm so glad you like them. These photos were taken earlier last year when I was traveling in the Czech Republic with my friends. The scenery there was beautiful!
I think Hunan cuisine from my hometown would be perfect for you. Many of my friends from other parts of China say that the food from my hometown is "too spicy," so some girls living there who try it are called "spicy girls."
You
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Jan 6, 3:03 PM
Yes, I like it
Sunflower
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Jan 6, 3:09 PM
I'm so glad you like this. I'm getting ready for lunch now. Mom made some wontons for us today. It's not very spicy, but it's delicious, lol.
You
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Jan 6, 3:11 PM
Enjoy!, I finish lunch. Tea time now, sipping it here
Sunflower
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Jan 6, 3:12 PM
I would, but your afternoon tea time is lovely. If the weather in Seattle is sunny today, I'd love to do the same, lol.
You
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Jan 6, 3:13 PM
👍😘
Sunflower
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Jan 6, 3:14 PM
By the way, what kind of food do you usually prepare for afternoon tea? I heard that the dish "Bo Bing" (a type of flatbread) is delicious in your country.
I don't know what this food is called in India, I think it's called spiced flatbread, right?
You
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Jan 6, 3:20 PM
Hmmm.. not sure about what it is. I am from south western coastal region in India. Snacks etc are common there with afternoon tea. Here we usually have in the house store bought snacks, Indian or American. We did not eat any today, we do so sometimes only.
Sunflower
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Jan 6, 3:21 PM
I understand. It seems your hometown is also very close to the ocean. I imagine it must be very beautiful there. However, our afternoon tea is similar to yours; we usually buy some snacks or fruits to accompany it.
Sunflower
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Jan 6, 3:36 PM
But have you ever thought about going back to India, or continuing to live in the United States?
You
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Jan 6, 4:24 PM
Yes, no plans to relocate anywhere this time. It was a big issue to be decided in 1980s and 1990s, not possible or necessary anymore, from any of our family member's perspective, to do so will not make much sense, under prevailing circumstances
Sunflower
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Jan 6, 6:51 PM
I understand. You've been in the US for quite a while now, and I think you've adapted to the local environment. Now that you've settled here to enjoy life, have you thought about what you can do in this city in your spare time?
You
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Jan 6, 7:12 PM
No, not really
Sunflower
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Jan 6, 7:17 PM
Okay, I understand. After all, everyone's lifestyle and habits are fixed. Sometimes, after adapting to a certain rule or lifestyle, switching to another can indeed be difficult. I experienced this myself when I moved from China to the United States.
You
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Jan 6, 7:24 PM
Yes, true
Sunflower
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Jan 6, 7:25 PM
However, there's a saying: "Since you're here, make the best of it." Regarding environmental factors, all we can do is gradually adapt to them. After all, it's always people adapting to the environment, not the other way around.
You
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Jan 6, 7:26 PM
Yes, of course
Sunflower
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Jan 6, 7:26 PM
I think that since we've made this decision, we might as well live here properly and not think about the things that make us unhappy. Instead, we should think about what we can do, which is also a problem that has been bothering me right now.
You
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Jan 6, 7:34 PM
Yes, I agree, Yes, I understand, Yes, I think so, too, (after a while, some years, adaptation to prevailing situation is more, less about "what we can do" type worry, in other words, doing things without worry, as if it is normal or expected way of life, no need to WORRY or get mentally bothered. Initially that adaptation process feels harder i think.
Sunflower
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Jan 6, 7:38 PM
Yes, life in the United States is indeed somewhat difficult, and we are largely unaware of what the future holds. Therefore, when faced with many life events or policy changes, all we can do is what we can to maintain a normal life, like a straight road. We hope the road will gradually ascend, but certainly no one wants it to descend.
You
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Jan 6, 7:42 PM
Exactly!, Yes, true, Yes, exactly. You nailed it, Beautifully said by my BEAUTIFUL FRIEND. 👍😘👍
Sunflower
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Jan 6, 7:44 PM
I'm glad you agree with this view, but for these kinds of things, the principle of being prepared is always applicable.😊
My mother taught me this principle, but I didn't truly understand and apply it until I came to live in the United States.
Sunflower
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Jan 6, 8:04 PM
How are you tonight, my friend?
You
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Jan 6, 8:27 PM
Just finished my work with the dishes, I am doing okay, and you ? Yes, your mother taught you well about being prepared.
Sunflower
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Jan 6, 8:30 PM
Thank you for your compliment. You really are a great family man in real life, lol
You
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Jan 6, 8:32 PM
Thank you, too 😃
Sunflower
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Jan 6, 8:33 PM
However, being prepared is indeed a worthwhile principle, but many people still don't know whether it's truly a good thing. The simplest example is the news reports of many people squandering their retirement savings.
Sunflower
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Jan 6, 8:49 PM
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You
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Jan 6, 8:49 PM
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Yes, true, Everyone has his or her unique characteristicsQuotedSent by SunflowerEnd Quote press L to link back to original quote
However, being prepared is indeed a worthwhile principle, but many people still don't know whether it's truly a good thing. The simplest example is the news reports of many people squandering their retirement savings.
Hmmm.. Okay, I am sure it will, Thanks. Good Night now.
Sunflower
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Jan 6, 8:51 PM
Yes, but it's best not to have this kind of "mortgaging the future" mentality, since the future is truly full of unknowns.
Okay, I hope you have sweet dreams. Goodnight.
You
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Jan 6, 8:53 PM
You, too 👍😘
Sunflower
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Jan 6, 8:53 PM
Good night! I look forward to our conversation tomorrow, and I hope we can share more.
You
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Jan 7, 8:09 AM
Sunflower
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Jan 7, 12:00 PM
Good morning, Raya. You were very handsome when you were young.
You
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Jan 7, 1:16 PM
Haha, thanks 😃 Good Morning Xuelin
Sunflower
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Jan 7, 1:33 PM
You're welcome, my friend. Do you have any good plans for today?
You
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Jan 7, 1:47 PM
No, not really. Staying home, some regular household duties, besides being on the computer, watching TV news etc How about you ?
Sunflower
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Jan 7, 1:51 PM
I don't have many exciting plans for today, just want to relax at home. It's been raining in Seattle for a week straight, and I haven't known what to do at home. I feel like I've tried everything that could bring me joy, and now it's like I've lost all interest.
You
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Jan 7, 2:00 PM
I see, What is your job like ? and career field, education ?
Sunflower
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Jan 7, 2:11 PM
I feel like I'm a laid back person. Aside from running a jewelry design company and managing my investments, I don’t really have much else going on. I studied economics at Guanghua University in China, earned an MBA, and minored in graphic design, which helped me become a designer.
You
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Jan 7, 2:25 PM
I see, Wow, that's nice, Wow, that's great!, You have lots of good things there, Cheers, 👍😘😄(i am sipping a little gin-drink here, Okay, sorry about that, it is in lighter vein), But, I mean, CHEER UP, and PLEASE DO NOT WORRY. As a starter, in the house, you can help your great loving mother in the kitchen, a bit, and it will help you relax, learn some cooking from her (She will be VERY pleased if you do so, I am sure). Perhaps, you are already doing that, and I apologize for my intrusion unwanted friendly suggestion here if that is the case. There are also other career related things possible depending on your interest.
Sunflower
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Jan 7, 2:32 PM
Thank you for your suggestion. I think I will take it into consideration. I've never been a stubborn person, and a good friendship is built on sharing and exchanging advice. So don't worry about whether this will offend me. In fact, I'm happy about it. At least it proves that our friendship is moving in a positive direction!
You're absolutely right. I am indeed exploring other areas now, using my identity as a jewelry designer as a stepping stone to enrich and diversify my network of relationships. This will also provide me with more opportunities to achieve my goals and aspirations in my life.
I enjoy cooking and often help my mother and aunt with cleaning and housework. However, most of the time we use a robot vacuum cleaner. Besides, they are getting older. As we talked before, this should be a time for them to enjoy life and not worry about so many troubles.
You're absolutely right. I am indeed exploring other areas now, using my identity as a jewelry designer as a stepping stone to enrich and diversify my network of relationships. This will also provide me with more opportunities to achieve my goals and aspirations in my life.
I enjoy cooking and often help my mother and aunt with cleaning and housework. However, most of the time we use a robot vacuum cleaner. Besides, they are getting older. As we talked before, this should be a time for them to enjoy life and not worry about so many troubles.
Sunflower
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Jan 7, 2:36 PM
I love red wine. To date, I own shares in three wineries in California. Whenever I go to California for shareholder meetings or vacation, I always pick up a few bottles of good wine, or I buy some delicious wines at auctions in the San Francisco Convention Center.
You
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Jan 7, 3:06 PM
Perfect! 👍😘👍
Sunflower
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Jan 7, 3:10 PM
Thank you for your compliment! Just like I said, having certain relationships and a network of connections can indeed bring a lot of help in life. At the same time, it also requires sincerity in treating friends.😉
You
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Jan 7, 3:15 PM
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Sunflower
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Jan 7, 3:20 PM
I've been involved in some stock investments related to artificial intelligence, but the one you shared with me seems to be an AI research lab in a business school, right?
This looks like an investment recruitment notice posted by this academy? Is this an investment you're involved in?
You
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Jan 7, 3:27 PM
I am not sure about exact nature of it, I just gave it as an example of what seems to be available, and I do not know that much about it, so it is only a small example. I am not into any investments there or anywhere, and I have no connection with that university.
Sunflower
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Jan 7, 3:29 PM
I saw some of the information in that email; it has a certain degree of authenticity and carries some risk. This type of project might be more suitable for seed projects funded by angel investors.
Have you seen any progress in their research?
Sunflower
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Jan 7, 3:34 PM
I understand what you mean. Developing a side hustle and passive income in this field is perfectly reasonable. However, all investments carry risk, especially considering our focus is on the future. Therefore, the most important thing to consider is the inherent risk and stability of the product itself. Maintaining stable returns without significant losses is paramount in this area.
You
,
Jan 7, 3:39 PM
Okay
Sunflower
,
Jan 7, 3:58 PM
Thank you for your understanding. I'm simply investing in relatively stable portfolios that align with current societal trends, such as real estate, gold, wineries, farms, and medical laboratories.
Sunflower
,
Jan 7, 7:40 PM
How was your day?
You
,
Jan 7, 7:44 PM
Good
Sunflower
,
Jan 7, 7:50 PM
It's great to hear this. I just came back from a walk outside, and now it's raining here.
You
,
Jan 7, 7:55 PM
Here it was cloudy in the morning, later sunny and warmer 50 deg F. Now of course dark. We finished dinner, was veg soup, bread toasted slice with butter, and (left over from yesterday) pasta with tomato sauce
Sunflower
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Jan 7, 8:07 PM
It was a nice, mostly cloudy day. At least in eastern cities, sunshine and warmth are common, but here it's been raining for a week straight, and it just stopped for a bit before starting again.
Your dinner was delicious, especially the toast it looked so tempting!
Your dinner was delicious, especially the toast it looked so tempting!
You
,
Jan 7, 8:11 PM
Yes, it was nice. Yeah .. weather .. good that you were able to have the nice walk.
Sunflower
,
Jan 7, 8:24 PM
Thank you, I'm home now.
You
,
Jan 7, 9:39 PM
Oh, good. and Good Night for today.
Sunflower
,
Jan 7, 9:41 PM
I hope you have sweet dreams and a good night's sleep. Good night!
You
,
Jan 8, 10:04 AM
Yes, thanks!, Good Morning. I slept well, 8 hrs, or perhaps a bit more, woke up a bit later than usual after 7 am only, going to bed past 10 pm, perhaps around 10:30 pm or so. Good Sleep, No dreams, as is usually the case. Just a couple of years ago, like in 2023 or so I think, for a few months, I used to dream that I was going for walking naked in the city streets, randomly chosen, not same streets, different ones in different dreams, not clear about imagery, but thinking back at it, it was American streets very likely. And, NO ONE, absolutely no one at all, seemed to have noticed it or was looking at me or was bothered by it, and no one like in my family or friend knew about it also that I was going out naked. This type of dream was happening on often nights for a few weeks or so, and I did not really feel good about it, and was hoping quietly myself that this unusual strange aberration for me would not continue. Later on it just stopped, just like that, by itself, i am back to usual. Very very rarely I may get some bad dreams, usually forgotten soon after wake-up. I may have had a couple of them in recent months.
Sunflower
,
Jan 8, 12:11 PM
Good morning, Raya! Hope you have a wonderful day. I slept very well last night too. I had some red wine before bed, which helped me drift off to sleep in a slightly tipsy state, resulting in a good night's rest.
I once read an interpretation of a dream similar to yours in a psychology book. Dreams are indeed related to people's psychology. The book's interpretation of this dream was that people who have this kind of dream generally experience insecurity in life and care too much about external opinions and evaluations. However, it also represents your desire to be your true self, to shed those labeled and pressured roles, and to be an ordinary person. So, it's not something to be anxious about; it's just your inner motivation to be your most authentic self. As for having this dream repeatedly, I think it just means you're not ready yet, but you've already had the idea of taking the first step. When you had this dream, you were probably troubled by something for a long time, right?
I once read an interpretation of a dream similar to yours in a psychology book. Dreams are indeed related to people's psychology. The book's interpretation of this dream was that people who have this kind of dream generally experience insecurity in life and care too much about external opinions and evaluations. However, it also represents your desire to be your true self, to shed those labeled and pressured roles, and to be an ordinary person. So, it's not something to be anxious about; it's just your inner motivation to be your most authentic self. As for having this dream repeatedly, I think it just means you're not ready yet, but you've already had the idea of taking the first step. When you had this dream, you were probably troubled by something for a long time, right?
You
,
Jan 8, 12:46 PM
Yes, you have given a Very interesting interpretation of it, my unusual strange dream, I think you have said it well. Very Pleased to read your response. Thank You. 👍😘👍
Sunflower
,
Jan 8, 1:22 PM
Lol, you're welcome, my friend. I think this is just a friendly exchange of help, but I'm glad my advice helped you. It's something I came across in a psychology book recommended by a doctor friend. She said it can reduce a lot of internal conflict in life.
Sunflower
,
Jan 8, 2:23 PM
How's your day? Any interesting plans?
You
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Jan 8, 2:37 PM
Okay, we (son kaviraj & me only, wife is out attending a funeral service for the mother of a colleague friend) just finished lunch, i made something like a chapati Cassadia (?), my own style, with cheese and onions in between two chapatis, heated and grilled on the stove the hot pan, ate with ketchup, some left-over food (cooked banana, cooked sweet potato, upma uppittu) and the healthy-ragi-malt millets thick soup i has made for breakfast were also there. No interesting plans in the works.
Sunflower
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Jan 8, 2:44 PM
I understand now. Everyday events are indeed quite ordinary, but life always has extra things and plans that bring us a lot of joy, like making a chapatis, an enlarged version of a hamburger. Ordinary life always requires us to create our own happiness, like a blank book. Each day is a brand new sheet of paper, and the content is determined by ourselves. Therefore, innovation and exploration are good ways to make life happier. I believe we all hope that when people read this book, they will praise it with the word "wonderful."😉
You
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Jan 8, 3:34 PM
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Vaaah .. that is GREAT. You have put it all in an amazingly simple, and yet a very UNIQUE, EXCEPTIONAL, EXTRAORDINARY, OUTSTANDING BEAUTIFU way !!! 👍🥰😘😭♥️👍🌹🙏🙏🙏QuotedSent by SunflowerEnd Quote press L to link back to original quote
I understand now. Everyday events are indeed quite ordinary, but life always has extra things and plans that bring us a lot of joy, like making a chapatis, an enlarged version of a hamburger. Ordinary life always requires us to create our own happiness, like a blank book. Each day is a brand new sheet of paper, and the content is determined by ourselves. Therefore, innovation and exploration are good ways to make life happier. I believe we all hope that when people read this book, they will praise it with the word "wonderful."😉
Sunflower
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Jan 8, 3:36 PM
Thank you for your compliment; those words are sweet. I think our lives can be described by everything in life, but every life is different. We can use templates, but we would never copy answers verbatim.
You
,
Jan 8, 9:09 PM
Good Night now. Today, Xuelin, thinking of everything i did, Interacting with you was the BEST. Thank You. 👍🥰😘♥️🌹🙏
Sunflower
,
Jan 8, 9:13 PM
Thank you for your kind words. Our conversation was my favorite part of today's plans, and it put me in a good mood. If possible, I'd like to try a video call tomorrow. What do you think?
You
,
Jan 9, 7:10 AM
Yes, of course, and Good Morning
Sunflower
,
Jan 9, 12:16 PM
Good morning, Raya! I was so happy to see you agreed to the video call I arranged. I'm sure it'll be a wonderful thing for our friendship. By the way, when are you free today?
You
,
Jan 9, 12:55 PM
Xuelin, after 3 pm here, Eastern Time, would he hatter, or like 8 pm
Sunflower
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Jan 9, 1:00 PM
I understand, but it might take about half an hour. It takes me a while to get home from the office, around 3:20 PM where you are.
My work had just finished, and it was lunchtime. We could have a video call then.
You
,
Jan 9, 1:01 PM
Okay, that sounds good
Sunflower
,
Jan 9, 1:03 PM
I'm glad you agreed. Looking forward to our video call later!
Sunflower
,
Jan 9, 3:35 PM
Good afternoon, Raya
How are you?
You
,
Jan 9, 3:35 PM
Good, and you?
Sunflower
,
Jan 9, 3:36 PM
I'm having lunch right now. By the way, regarding our video call plan, are you planning to do it here, or on some other app?
You (via Meet)
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Jan 9, 3:36 PM
, Sunflower
,
Jan 9, 3:37 PM
Please wait a moment, I'll finish my lunch right away.
You
,
Jan 9, 3:37 PM
Okay, no problem
Sunflower
,
Jan 9, 3:37 PM
Thank you for your understanding, I'll be right back.
Sunflower
,
Jan 9, 7:04 PM
Good afternoon, or maybe good evening, Raya. I'm back now. I hope you had a happy and wonderful Friday.
I'm glad we had a video call today, but I also apologize for assuming that making calls here is the same as on other software.
You
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Jan 9, 7:29 PM
Okay, no problem. It was good, Thank You for the call. Happy to hear your voice. And, I guess, it will work better next time.
Sunflower
,
Jan 9, 7:30 PM
I believe we can do this. By the way, is this your only way to contact you?
You
,
Jan 9, 7:51 PM
i am also on instagram, video call possible there
Sunflower
,
Jan 9, 7:53 PM
Okay, using Instagram for calls is great!
How were you today?
You
,
Jan 9, 7:54 PM
i'm good, thank you
Sunflower
,
Jan 9, 7:57 PM
You're welcome. I'm just resting and relaxing in my room right now, enjoying the evening.
You
,
Jan 9, 7:59 PM
Okay, nice. Okay, enjoy. it was bright and warm here today daytime like 50 deg F
Sunflower
,
Jan 9, 7:59 PM
Seattle has the same temperature as your city, and it's quite warm here today.
Sunflower
,
Jan 9, 8:03 PM
What fun things do you usually do on such nice weather?
You
,
Jan 9, 8:17 PM
Previously, many years ago, maybe it was in mid 1990s and / or later, but not in last 15 to 20 years, although i would not get dreams usually, sometimes I would get dreams, typically one of two kinds, one was in which I was soaring up in the sky with earth below, and the other type was making love to beautiful women. Both were pleasant ones, and I think perhaps the two types were not in the same dream. I kind of enjoyed those dreams, I think, especially the ones with making love to beautiful women. It was not like I was dreaming every night or night after night, but it happened over the span of some years, I think. Not sure why or when it stopped, but I have not had it or similar types for many years. No problem, The usual good sleep is always the best for me. (ha hha haaa ,,🙂)
Sunflower
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Jan 9, 8:20 PM
That actually sounds very human. Dreams often reflect different phases of our lives freedom, curiosity, imagination, or simply the mind wandering when it had more space to do so. Flying dreams can feel like a sense of openness or possibility, and pleasant dreams in general are often just the brain’s way of relaxing and exploring.
It’s interesting how they come and go over the years without any clear reason. In the end, you’re right good, deep sleep is probably the best gift of all. 😄
You
,
Jan 9, 9:14 PM
Thank You Xuelin. Good night. Rain predicted for tomorrow here
Sunflower
,
Jan 9, 9:19 PM
Goodnight Raya, I hope you have a good night's sleep. Sweet dreams!
Sunflower
,
Jan 10, 12:10 PM
Good morning, Raya! Hope you have a wonderful weekend.
The weather here is great today. The previous rainy day has turned into a warm and sunny day. I plan to go for a bike ride later and enjoy some more sunny weather.
The weather here is great today. The previous rainy day has turned into a warm and sunny day. I plan to go for a bike ride later and enjoy some more sunny weather.
You
,
Jan 10, 12:39 PM
Very Nice, and happy to hear from you Xuelin. Enjoy the day. Good Morning.
Sunflower
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Jan 10, 12:52 PM
Thank you. I'm also very happy to receive your message. Communicating with you is always a lot of fun for me, and I'm glad we can enjoy this kind of exchange and sharing together.
Sunflower
,
Jan 10, 12:57 PM
Do you have any good plans for today?
Sunflower
,
Jan 10, 10:56 PM
Hey Raya, I bet you're asleep by now. I hope you had a wonderful Saturday. Get some rest, recharge, and have a good night's sleep. Sweet dreams, goodnight!
You
,
Jan 11, 9:26 AM
Good Morning Xuelin. Yes, I slept well, maybe like 9 hours or more, got up late 7:55 AM only, having gone to bed about 10:30 pm, did not have to go to bathroom in the middle, as is the case mostly (say 75%), only have to shift or turn sides a few times in the night, i maybe like partially-awake then perhaps being somewhat aware of it.
Sunflower
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Jan 11, 10:28 AM
Good morning, Raya! Hope you have a wonderful day too. I'm so glad to hear the good news that you had a good night's sleep. I slept great last night too, so I woke up feeling refreshed. The weather here isn't great though, it's still raining outside. Maybe it'll change for the better later. Looking forward to the sunshine! See you later, I'm going for a walk now.
Good luck, my friend.
Sunflower
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Jan 11, 12:07 PM
Do you have any good plans for today?
It seems you have a lot of plans for this weekend. Sometimes I see you just leave an emoji after seeing a message. If you have time, maybe you could share some interesting plans from your wonderful weekend here.
You
,
Jan 11, 12:41 PM
Nothing special, just my usual this and that, on the laptop, at home etc. Currently looking at possibly placing an order for a mug with photos printed on it as a gift to my brother's son in India, may or may not actually do it .. just looking into it costs etc at Shutterfly.com (they are based in Seattle, I have ordered a lot from them like in 2010s, and previously they were known by a different name, and I used to send them all my film rolls for development and printing, I think they were Seattle Film Works, initially, and recommended to me by our friend relative India-classmate Bheem Bhat in 1980s living in Philadelphia PA)
Sunflower
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Jan 11, 12:56 PM
I see. This company isn't far from me. It used to be an old-fashioned photo developing company, but it hasn't gone out of business or anything; it's simply adapted to changing times and transformed into a more socially responsible company. Their current name is PhotoWorks.
It seems you've really met a lot of people from your hometown here. That's a good thing. At least even far from home, you've felt a sense of familiarity and warmth around you. But do you still keep in touch?
It seems you've really met a lot of people from your hometown here. That's a good thing. At least even far from home, you've felt a sense of familiarity and warmth around you. But do you still keep in touch?
You
,
Jan 11, 2:11 PM
I see. Yes, that is the company. Seattle Film Works became Photo Works first, and online business or related business is Shutterfly.com, I guess. And, looking back, I think it may have significance that all my films were going there for development, instead of what I was doing randomly until then, using the free mailer envelops typically kept on near notice boards etc in college campuses and elsewhere (it was different situation then), after 1986 or so, it was all going to this one place because of the suggestion of our good friend Bheem Bhat -aNNa, it was much better, convenient, good quality, price was good / okay etc, and, it gave easier access to the photos for monitoring and / or influencing my relationships, contacts, doings, we can say. Considering what happened later etc, and so looking back, I see possible scenarios regarding why what how etc for various happenings in my life, why various other entities, interests, agenda forces, Deep State entities and actors etc might be interested in such things etc.. Not that it would have changed anything. I do not think so. I have uploaded later digital photos also to their site, so they have all or most of my photos. With BheemaNNa, we are in touch once in a while, not regularly, (we used to be in touch more in the past), he is a retired scientist now doing real estate, he is also my wife's cousin, and married her college friend and neighbor, interestingly we were asked to introduce them to each other to enable the traditional wedding (her family, Pailoor, her father, was well-known and in a leadership type of way in our community / region in India, also in Sai Baba group / organization / followers .... so I have my suspicions regarding that etc = they, BheemaNNa & family) were always very nice, helpful to us .. NO complaints. My observations, guesses or suspicions are about behind-the-scenes hidden invisible agenda forces, and that is LOOKING BACK about why-what-how-etc regarding past happenings, and it does not change anything also) .
Sunflower
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Jan 11, 2:19 PM
Yes, this company seems to have completely changed its name and operational direction the year I came to the US. I must say, their decision at the time was truly significant, but their current development strategy and the company's profits prove that their decision and choice were absolutely correct.
Reasonable pricing and customer service are definitely good ways to retain customers, especially since they already have a large and supportive fanbase promoting them.
It seems you and your cousin have a very good relationship, and one of you works in the business world while the other works in politics. I've also worked in a similar field as him in real estate. If you don't mind, I'd love to meet him and learn some unique market insights from him.
Many of your stories are fascinating, and your entire nation is very united in your country. There's also a local American community where you can connect. Do you often have parties or similar events there?
Reasonable pricing and customer service are definitely good ways to retain customers, especially since they already have a large and supportive fanbase promoting them.
It seems you and your cousin have a very good relationship, and one of you works in the business world while the other works in politics. I've also worked in a similar field as him in real estate. If you don't mind, I'd love to meet him and learn some unique market insights from him.
Many of your stories are fascinating, and your entire nation is very united in your country. There's also a local American community where you can connect. Do you often have parties or similar events there?
Sunflower
,
Jan 11, 7:24 PM
How are you, my friend?
You
,
Jan 11, 10:03 PM
Hello my Dear friend Xuelin, Sorry I was busy with the photo mugs project, just finished and placed the order. Yes, hopefully I can introduce Bheem at some point. Presently I am not in touch with him, I do not have his current cell number, have his email, can give you. and Good Night, logging off soon. 👍😘
Sunflower
,
Jan 11, 10:54 PM
Good evening, my friend. A beautiful evening has arrived. It seems you've been busy with this exquisite gift lately. Regarding your friend Bim, I think it's alright... I don't know if you've ever considered the concept of fate, but every encounter between people is meaningful, just like ours. A chance meeting brought us together, and perhaps in the future, your friend Bim and I will also have the opportunity to become friends. But ultimately, the answer depends on this principle of fate.
My main reason for wanting to get to know him is for business exchange. I have many friends in this market, and I believe this senior colleague of yours, like you, possesses a lot of wisdom and unique ideas. However, you can give me his email address, and I'll try to contact him. Perhaps we'll have a chance to meet and sit down face-to-face for a cup of coffee.
My main reason for wanting to get to know him is for business exchange. I have many friends in this market, and I believe this senior colleague of yours, like you, possesses a lot of wisdom and unique ideas. However, you can give me his email address, and I'll try to contact him. Perhaps we'll have a chance to meet and sit down face-to-face for a cup of coffee.
But now, all we should do is say goodnight, my friend. Sweet dreams! Looking forward to our conversation tomorrow.
You
,
Jan 12, 9:14 AM
Good Morning friend Dear Xuelin. Yes, I agree with your views. I guess, we first connected on LinkedIn (???), before continuing here, I almost forgot (!!!). And, this is email of Bheem Bhat <bhee...@gmail.com> Thank You.
Sunflower
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Jan 12, 10:24 AM
Good morning, dear friends! I'm so glad that more people have joined our ship of friendship. I believe that the final destination of this cruise ship will be a beautiful island!
Yes, our encounter with LinkedIn was truly a wonderful experience, but upon reflection, it aligns with many people's assessment of life.
Sunflower
,
Jan 12, 12:11 PM
A brand new week, a brand new start. I hope you can also welcome all these wonderful things today!
I'm heading to the office now; I have some meetings to attend today.
You
,
Jan 12, 1:15 PM
Okay. Great. All the Best. Thank you!
Sunflower
,
Jan 12, 1:17 PM
You're welcome. I hope you have a smooth day doing all the things you enjoy! Best wishes!
You
,
Jan 12, 1:18 PM
Thank you! 😘👍♥️🌹🙏😘
Sunflower
,
Jan 12, 1:34 PM
You're welcome. I'm off to my next meeting now. Let's chat again later when we have time.
You
,
Jan 12, 1:35 PM
Okay! Sure, take care Sounds good!
Sunflower
,
Jan 12, 1:38 PM
😊😊
You
,
Jan 12, 10:26 PM
Hope you had a good productive day with work meetings and all Xuelin Good Night .
Sunflower
,
Jan 12, 10:56 PM
Thank you for your blessings. I hope today was a productive day for you. Have a good night's sleep and sweet dreams. I look forward to our conversation tomorrow. Good night!
You
,
Jan 13, 8:28 AM
Thank you! You, too!
Sunflower
,
Jan 13, 12:28 PM
Good morning, Raya! Hope you have a wonderful day. The weather here is lovely today. Would you like to come and soak up some sun with me?
You
,
Jan 13, 1:12 PM
Yes I would! Yes, please! Yes, of course! 😘👍🌹♥️🙏😘🥰😘😘
Sunflower
,
Jan 13, 1:23 PM
Lol, you seem quite enthusiastic! I welcome you here, though it's best to come during the summer.
You
,
Jan 13, 2:38 PM
Yes, I am! and, Thank You.
Sunflower
,
Jan 13, 2:52 PM
You're welcome. I hope everything goes well for you today, and that you can relax and enjoy yourself.
You
,
Jan 13, 9:50 PM
Yes, dear Xuelin, everything went well today. Had dOsa for lunch, and for dinner we had rice daal, curds, also payasa which is a special sweet dish (today is my wife's mother's birthday, also happens to be second anniversary of passing away of her father). So, as you said, I was more relaxed, enjoyed, we can say. 😄 Here also it was relatively warm sunny day 45 to 50 deg F, (i did not go out). now it is logging off tome. Good Night. 😘
Sunflower
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Jan 13, 11:12 PM
It sounds like you had a wonderful day, especially the food you mentioned. I'm sure the dosa you described must have been delicious, and the desserts too! Just thinking about them gives me a feeling of relaxation and comfort. I hope you celebrated your birthday and cherished this special day. It's a very special occasion for you. I'm so glad you shared some wonderful moments from your life with me. I'm going to bed now too. Have a nice night and sweet dreams. Goodnight! Looking forward to our conversation tomorrow.
You
,
Jan 14, 8:20 AM
😁 Thank you! Good Morning 👍😘
Sunflower
,
Jan 14, 12:07 PM
You're welcome, Raya. Hope you have a wonderful Wednesday!
You
,
Jan 14, 2:35 PM
Thank you! Thanks! You, too 😊 Enjoy your day!
With regards to the wedding of Bheem Bhat Madeyala & Sharada Pailoor, which took place in Mangalore, in early 1980s, around 1982-83 perhaps, there is something interesting, which again, takes more significance for me, LOOKING BACK. We living in Fredonia NY at the time, were also informed and invited (but not able to attend), and so were our families in Mangalore, India. my wife's side is connected more closely with both the bride & groom's families, also neighbors of the bride's family, so they all went (as expected). My father did attend the wedding, although initially my family there had written to me that they are thinking of skipping it, to which I had replied that it would be best if someone from our family attended the wedding, that my wife & I had a strong role in enabling it by way of introducing, talking to both sides with the proposal, So, my father did attend to it, looks like because of my encouragement only. However, next time I met him personally there in India, he mentioned that nobody talked to him there, "aaroo maathaaDisiddaville", so he was not happy about it, being ignored and not respected. Until recently I had assumed it was because he and our family are like strangers amidst a gathering of people from their sides expected there for that occasion. But, looking back, and because of the bride's father's leadership role and standing in the community or region there with his strong connection and role in the Sai Baba devotees organization (we are not part of that) etc, the "discounting" and ignoring of my father, of our efforts, even if it was done unwillingly or non-deliberately, has a natural-like feel, with an intrinsic feeling of not to give us too much importance, almost like it is okay to look down upon us, excluded as "other" in some groups or gatherings. Anyways, .. whatever .., i just let it go, ignored it, it did not affect me / us in any way. Also, I was not looking for any credits from them there. And, it was also unusual for my father to complain like that, he never did. I remember from my young years that he often initiated himself or was in conversations with strangers, like on the bus etc which was not easy for me.
Sunflower
,
Jan 14, 3:34 PM
I understand, and thank you for reminding me, my friend. However, this memory feels completely different to you now than it did back then. What struck me most wasn't just the event itself, but also the rarity of how your father expressed these feelings, especially when you mentioned he was someone who enjoyed making friends and interacting with strangers, not easily troubled by social situations. This made the matter much heavier and more poignant.
But in today's society, many relationships are tied to self interest. Even those playing important roles can be unintentionally marginalized, which seems like a normal emotion. I think your reflection on this isn't about seeking validation, but rather a rejection of these things and the marks they leave.
I admire how you've let go of such things, but I also believe everyone is different. You must have considered this for a while before sharing it with me. This isn't about reopening old wounds, but rather deepening your understanding of certain things, or perhaps looking at the same issue from a different perspective.
But in today's society, many relationships are tied to self interest. Even those playing important roles can be unintentionally marginalized, which seems like a normal emotion. I think your reflection on this isn't about seeking validation, but rather a rejection of these things and the marks they leave.
I admire how you've let go of such things, but I also believe everyone is different. You must have considered this for a while before sharing it with me. This isn't about reopening old wounds, but rather deepening your understanding of certain things, or perhaps looking at the same issue from a different perspective.
You
,
Jan 14, 3:45 PM
Hmmm.. Yes, you have put it very well, very nicely. Thank You, Xuelin. 👍🙏😘🌹♥️🥰
Sunflower
,
Jan 14, 3:54 PM
Thank you, but I'm also glad to know this. How long have you known your friend Bheem?
You
,
Jan 14, 4:14 PM
He was my college classmate for a short time in 1968-69, I shifted to a different batch after about a month or two or so (wanting to study Math, he was in Biology) and i ate lunch in the same college hostel where he was staying, for the whole academic year. We did not interact much, I had stood First in the SSLC High School exam, in the whole Mysore state (now Karnataka state), so that was a fame or distinction, so people knew me more than I knew them. Afterwards, we met only in USA, he being a close cousin of my wife, we had travelled to St Louis Missouri in 1982, to see him, he was doing PhD there in Microbiology at Washington State University (?)/ Later on, when we moved to New Jersey, he to Philadelphia in mid 1980s, we used to visit each other, many times, so that our two sons and his daughter got opportunity to play together. The kids were happy with it. And we met several times in a year at our community events also. That's how or why the relationship or friendship grew.
Sunflower
,
Jan 14, 4:20 PM
It seems you two share a deep connection in life. However, some things that have happened have created a bittersweet feeling in your relationship. But I believe that the fact that you've persevered through so many hardships is enough.
You were truly outstanding in your youth, and the differences in your professional backgrounds shouldn't have created too much of a barrier. Hearing this, I'm curious what led you to decide to enter politics later on.
Perhaps the friendship you forged during this time together will be carried on by your children, continuing this bond.
You were truly outstanding in your youth, and the differences in your professional backgrounds shouldn't have created too much of a barrier. Hearing this, I'm curious what led you to decide to enter politics later on.
Perhaps the friendship you forged during this time together will be carried on by your children, continuing this bond.
You
,
Jan 14, 4:28 PM
It was during that trip to St Louis, in 1982 (?), as per the request / suggestion / instruction we received from my wife's parents (must have been by letter), do not know who influenced them or requested them for it, we talked to Bheem about the marriage proposal, and on the way back to Fredonia, we stopped by in Dayton. Ohio to see Sharada (she was studying there for Master's degree (?), living with family of her relatives) and talk / recommend to her about the proposal, then they two must have talked and decide to continue etc
Sunflower
,
Jan 14, 4:34 PM
The role you played was actually very meaningful, even if it seemed low-key and inconspicuous at the time. What impressed me most was the dedication and thoughtfulness throughout the process. You took the time to communicate with them individually and gave them space to think and make their own decisions. It didn't feel like interference, but rather like meticulous guidance. Looking back, such moments become more meaningful with time, even if they seemed like ordinary things at the time.
You
,
Jan 14, 4:38 PM
Thank you!
Sunflower
,
Jan 14, 6:17 PM
You're welcome, my friend.
Sunflower
,
Jan 14, 7:54 PM
Good evening, Raya, how was your day?
You
,
Jan 14, 7:55 PM
Good! It was good Great! And you?
Sunflower
,
Jan 14, 7:58 PM
I had a pretty good day, except for the less pleasant experience dealing with some emails.
You
,
Jan 14, 7:59 PM
Oh!
Sunflower
,
Jan 14, 8:01 PM
Do you handle emails regularly?
Sometimes those spam text messages are really annoying.
You
,
Jan 14, 8:03 PM
Yes!
Sunflower
,
Jan 14, 8:03 PM
To be honest, I still really hate seeing those emails.
You
,
Jan 14, 8:09 PM
I see, Okay, must have been real bad then
Sunflower
,
Jan 14, 8:16 PM
Yes, it's especially difficult when you're trying to find your correct email among a bunch of incorrect emails.
You
,
Jan 14, 9:53 PM
Hmm.. Sorry to hear that you had some annoying experience emails to deal with. Yes, they happen to me also, perhaps it happens to us all, I think. Please Ignore, Do Not Worry, Cheers. 👍😘 Good night. 😘
Sunflower
,
Jan 14, 10:01 PM
Yes, thank you for your blessings and comfort, my friend. You always know how to comfort and bring warmth to those around you; you're so thoughtful! But you're right, all we can do is ignore them!
I hope you have sweet dreams tonight. Goodnight.☺️☺️😇
I hope you have sweet dreams tonight. Goodnight.☺️☺️😇
You
,
Jan 15, 11:12 AM
Thank You Xuelin, I appreciate your message. Good Morning. and, I had good sleep, over 8 hrs, waking up at 8:18 AM or so only. And, yesterday was a good day, as I finished things I was waiting to do, one more Shutterfly order (for my wife's sister's daughter Jaya in USA), (I had done the India one previous day, three photo mugs), and typing up that message to you regarding my father at Bheem & Sharada wedding. So, I was pleased with it, and well relaxed, we can say, perhaps. (!!!) 😄😘 Good Morning
Sunflower
,
Jan 15, 12:22 PM
Good morning, Raya! I'm so glad to receive your message today. I think our exchanges are always fun, and I always feel happy whenever I see your messages. I'm so glad you've finally accomplished those relaxing things recently. Are those mugs your current business? That sounds amazing!
With Friday and the holiday just around the corner, what are your plans for getting ready?
Sunflower
,
Jan 15, 11:01 PM
I think you're asleep now. I hope you have a good night's sleep and sweet dreams. Goodnight! Looking forward to our conversation tomorrow.
You
,
Jan 16, 7:59 AM
😘👍🙏Good Morning
Sunflower
,
Jan 16, 12:24 PM
Good morning, Raya! Hope you have a wonderful day. I'm on my way to the office now.
Sunflower
,
Jan 16, 9:00 PM
How are you, my friend? You seem very busy today.
You
,
Jan 16, 9:13 PM
A little bit busy, since I accompanied my wife at 2 pm to the eye doctor, and then we went and ate brooklyn pizza at a restaurant nearby there (in Hamilton NJ area), were back home after 6.30 pm, we were out for half the day. The pizza was excellent, enjoyed it, also coffee Americano, we also bought there zappolin, it was okay. Do you get good pizza in Seattle ???
Sunflower
,
Jan 16, 9:20 PM
It sounds like you had a busy but fulfilling day, accompanying family to the doctor and grabbing a pizza on the way a nice touch, even if it was mundane. The pizza in New Jersey is definitely top notch the Brooklyn style is classic, and Zappolin was a pleasant surprise.
I've lived in Seattle for 15 years, and to be honest, while the pizza here isn't the absolute best in the US, there are a few places I regularly go to when I crave pizza. Serious Pie: leans towards Italian style, with a carefully chosen crust and toppings.
Via Tribunali: authentic Neapolitan style, simple yet flavorful.
Pagliacci: unpretentious, but the kind you'll stick with after living here for a while.
Seattle's strengths lie more in its coffee, seafood, and the overall cleanliness of its ingredients it's not the kind of pizza city that's all about heavy oil and sauce. However, if you prefer "comfortable, high quality, and reliable" pizzas, you can still find places here that you'll want to return to.
If you ever come to Seattle, I can pick out a place for you based on your taste.
I've lived in Seattle for 15 years, and to be honest, while the pizza here isn't the absolute best in the US, there are a few places I regularly go to when I crave pizza. Serious Pie: leans towards Italian style, with a carefully chosen crust and toppings.
Via Tribunali: authentic Neapolitan style, simple yet flavorful.
Pagliacci: unpretentious, but the kind you'll stick with after living here for a while.
Seattle's strengths lie more in its coffee, seafood, and the overall cleanliness of its ingredients it's not the kind of pizza city that's all about heavy oil and sauce. However, if you prefer "comfortable, high quality, and reliable" pizzas, you can still find places here that you'll want to return to.
If you ever come to Seattle, I can pick out a place for you based on your taste.
You
,
Jan 16, 9:38 PM
👍Okay. Very Nice. Thank You Xuelin, and it will be lots of fun for me to do that with you. 😘👍🙏🌹♥️🥰😘
Sunflower
,
Jan 16, 9:43 PM
I'm so glad to hear that, and I hope we can enjoy it together!
You
,
Jan 16, 9:49 PM
Almost time for me to go upstairs to get ready for bed. Good night Xuelin.
Sunflower
,
Jan 16, 10:00 PM
Okay, hope you get a good night's sleep, goodnight! Hope you have a wonderful weekend tomorrow!
You
,
Jan 17, 8:30 AM
Thank you! You, too! Good morning. (the weather here is now cloudy / rainy / cold type)
You
,
Jan 18, 8:09 AM
Good Morning Xuelin. How are you doing ? What's new ? Here, it was snowing here lightly but nicely yesterday daytime, like about 2" total perhaps, lot of it melting away, but more snow fell at night, and now there is like about 2 to 3 inches accumulated perhaps, so nice looking white cover everywhere.
You
,
Jan 18, 1:48 PM
Hmmm.. it looks like you are very busy today, Xuelin. Enjoy, of course. It was snowing nicely here earlier, some particles still coming down, looking almost all very nicely covered white outside
Sunflower
,
Jan 20, 1:34 PM
Good morning, Raya. I'm sorry I haven't replied to your messages lately. Last weekend, I received an invitation from a brand to a business dinner, but I was on vacation with my friends at the time. Because of the rushed schedule, I had my assistant bring my dress, and then we drove from Seattle to San Francisco, where we're still here.
It sounds like it's already snowing heavily in the eastern cities. Be careful to keep warm and avoid catching a cold, my friend. I think bad weather is probably the best excuse to stay home, but if possible, going out for a snowball fight and building a snowman is also a great idea.
It sounds like it's already snowing heavily in the eastern cities. Be careful to keep warm and avoid catching a cold, my friend. I think bad weather is probably the best excuse to stay home, but if possible, going out for a snowball fight and building a snowman is also a great idea.
I hope everything goes well for you lately! Enjoy it!
You
,
Jan 20, 1:38 PM
Okay! Thank you! Glad to hear from you, Xuelin 😘. All the Best. 👍
Sunflower
,
Jan 20, 1:53 PM
You're welcome. I'm also very happy to receive your reply. How have you been lately?
You
,
Jan 20, 2:11 PM
Good thanks! Yes, staying warm indoors, last two days & nights, mostly teen degrees outside but getting warmer by the bright sun now. Altogether over last few days we had more than a foot of snow at our place, I think. roads now seem to be drivable, we paid someone to clear snow from driveway, cars, sidewalk. and, I have an interesting story from University of Rochester that I wanted to mention, son of China's former leader Deng Xiaping, it seems he studied there in Physics Department, and was in the same office and chair that I had there previously, and it was his afterwards. This was mentioned to me back then, in 1980, by my friends (junior to me) still there. (Oh, Well, Very Interesting !!!, I remember it, and wanted to tell you !)
Sunflower
,
Jan 20, 2:53 PM
Hearing you say that, I can really feel how cold the weather has been these past few days. Thankfully, the sun is out now, and the situation is slowly improving. Having someone clear the snow was a wise decision; it's safe and saves trouble.
Your experience at the University of Rochester was also very interesting. The coincidences in the details of history are truly remarkable. To have any connection with such a background is special in itself. Did this fascinating experience help you in your later work in politics?
I understand your amazement at these historical coincidences, and I appreciate your sharing.
Your experience at the University of Rochester was also very interesting. The coincidences in the details of history are truly remarkable. To have any connection with such a background is special in itself. Did this fascinating experience help you in your later work in politics?
I understand your amazement at these historical coincidences, and I appreciate your sharing.
You
,
Jan 20, 3:14 PM
No, it has actually NO relevance for any of my interests, work or activities. Also, I never met the person, or paid much attention to it, since of course, someone, another student perhaps, was going to be in that office and chair, after I left. I just mentioned it here as an anecdote, and, although it was not something that would be in my mind or thinking, I did remember it, and, LOOKING BACK, after all the happenings over the years, I was actually wondering about the possibility that it may have some significance, in the context of the various happenings, our personal as well as worldwide, China-USA-India included. Of course, it does not change or affect anything for me or for anybody, at this time.
Sunflower
,
Jan 20, 3:21 PM
I understand what you mean. Some things are just casual anecdotes at the time, but later, when we look back on personal experiences and broader world events, because time has been stretched and we've accumulated more experience, we put them into a larger context for reflection. Even if this doesn't have any impact on our present lives, the act of looking back and reflecting itself has its own significance.
You
,
Jan 20, 9:48 PM
Yes, true, you said it very well, Xuelin, as always, let me add, . 😀 and Good Night, 😘
Sunflower
,
Jan 20, 9:51 PM
, EditedGood night, my friend, have a wonderful evening.
You
,
Jan 21, 8:24 AM
Thank you, too 😃 You, too! Good morning. It is 5 deg F outside here now. 8:22 AM, but sunny, warming up
Sunflower
,
Jan 21, 12:05 PM
Good morning! A beautiful day begins with yoga. Wishing you a wonderful and fulfilling day.
Sunflower
,
Jan 21, 12:38 PM
Do you have any interesting plans for today to share with me?
You
,
Jan 21, 12:45 PM
Thanks for asking, but, No such plans Xuelin, more like another regular day here, No complaints. 😘👍😘
Sunflower
,
Jan 21, 1:39 PM
Find more interesting things to relax your mind and body, and keep your days fulfilling.🥰🥰
Sunflower
,
Jan 22, 12:21 PM
Good morning, my friend, have a wonderful day!
You
,
Jan 22, 12:42 PM
Thanks! You, too 😊 Good Morning Xuelin. We are going out for lunch, our son Kaviraj Birthday today
Sunflower
,
Jan 22, 12:49 PM
Happy birthday to your son! He's grown another year older!
You
,
Jan 22, 4:55 PM
Yes, thanks 😊 Yes, indeed 😃 We ate at a nearby Thai restaurant (Aroma) that we like,
Sunflower
,
Jan 22, 8:25 PM
Enjoy a wonderful day
You
,
Jan 23, 10:09 AM
Yes, thanks 😊 We did lots of grocery shopping also, more snow expected tomorrow. How are you ? What's new ?
Sunflower
,
Jan 23, 12:32 PM
It's always satisfying to fill up your fridge at home! I hope you're keeping warm in this cold weather. If I were there, I might choose to build a snowman with you, lol. I used to be a pro at making snowmen when I was a kid!
Nothing special, just last night I dreamed that you and I fell into a food world!
You
,
Jan 23, 1:29 PM
Oh, that's so sweet of you, and, Hmmm.. that will be fun, of course, building snowman etc., and food world with you. Yes, I am keeping warm, nothing to worry. Temp in the house is much warmer these days, than in previous years, years ago, when only I was at home during the day, wife & sons were out at work or in school etc, so I used to keep the temp much lower, programmed to go up before they returned, saving money that way, which was very important to do for us then, especially in 1990s. but i did that even later, until Covid lockdown time, then my wife started working from home, and we kept the temp higher.
Sunflower
,
Jan 23, 1:47 PM
Enjoying this beautiful moment with you is undoubtedly the happiest time. Many years ago, everyone's family was more frugal. If you weren't wealthy, you would live like you were in an economic depression every day. But I'm glad that times have changed. However, I recently saw in the news that many people are still facing this situation. Some people are taking out their 401k to pay their bills in advance, and some are even taking out loans. You can clearly feel that $100 can buy much less than before.
Sunflower
,
Jan 23, 2:03 PM
You are a man who knows how to take care of a family, your wife must be very happy! I'm glad you two met.
I'd really like to meet your wife when I get the chance, who knows, maybe we could become friends, lol
You
,
Jan 23, 2:25 PM
Okay, Yes, Thank You.
Sunflower
,
Jan 23, 2:46 PM
If you're busy right now, we can chat later.
I'm going to prepare lunch for myself now
Sunflower
,
Jan 24, 7:19 PM
Good afternoon, Raya. Hope you had a wonderful Saturday.
You
,
Jan 24, 7:46 PM
Hmmm.. Yes, Okay, Thank You, just finished dinner. How was your day?
Sunflower
,
Jan 24, 8:04 PM
I'm so glad you enjoyed your dinner 😊 I had a great day, finished a few things, and am relaxing now. How was your evening?
You
,
Jan 24, 10:01 PM
Okay, Good. My laptop & online work went well. had some wine in the afternoon, besides tea and a little amount of (indian store bought, spicy mixture, jalapeno chakkuli crisp round-circular or oval shaped textured fried in oil dough from dal & grain, i think (!!!)) snacks. About to log off and go upstairs. Good night. 😘
Sunflower
,
Jan 24, 10:05 PM
It sounds like a peaceful, fulfilling day.
Work went smoothly, tea, a little wine, and some spicy snacks—the pace was just right, neither rushed nor agitated. Your descriptions of food are always so vivid, making it easy to imagine the taste and texture 😌. Now that you're ready to rest, relax and let your body and mind slow down.
Goodnight. May you sleep soundly and wake up refreshed and energized.
Work went smoothly, tea, a little wine, and some spicy snacks—the pace was just right, neither rushed nor agitated. Your descriptions of food are always so vivid, making it easy to imagine the taste and texture 😌. Now that you're ready to rest, relax and let your body and mind slow down.
Goodnight. May you sleep soundly and wake up refreshed and energized.
You
,
Jan 24, 10:07 PM
You, too! 😁 Thank you!
Sunflower
,
Jan 24, 10:07 PM
You're welcome. I hope you can have a good mood to welcome a bright tomorrow.
You
,
Jan 24, 10:09 PM
😀👍🥰😘
Sunflower
,
Jan 24, 10:19 PM
😉😊
You
,
Jan 25, 8:29 AM
😘 Good Morning, Today is snow emergency here, it is coming down now, some 4 to 6 inches already there from overnight early hours, i think, single digit F temps earlier, going into teens now
You
,
Jan 25, 9:56 AM
Xuelin, Do you have a photo of you making snowman or of the snowman you made sometime ???
Sunflower
,
Jan 25, 10:32 AM
Good morning, Raya! Hope you have a wonderful day. Even though it's cold, remember to keep warm. A good friend of mine from New York told me about the situation in the East Coast cities yesterday. I hope you all feel warm and happy today, though the cold weather can make things worse.
Sunflower
,
Feb 1, 2:48 PM
, EditedHer？
You
,
Feb 1, 3:02 PM
Yes, thanks, 😘Xuelin♥️, I am here
Sunflower
,
Feb 1, 3:11 PM
I noticed you haven't appeared for a long time. I hope my message hasn't bothered you if you've been busy.
You
,
Feb 1, 3:32 PM
No, it's fine, No bother, not at all, Happy to hear from you Xuelin. 🥰♥️😘
Sunflower
,
Feb 1, 3:34 PM
Okay, but you don't seem to like being here or doing anything here.
You
,
Feb 1, 3:34 PM
Why do you say that?
Sunflower
,
Feb 1, 3:35 PM
Because you almost never send messages here, and sometimes you don't even reply.
You
,
Feb 1, 3:36 PM
Oh, sorry, I will do better henceforth, Okay ???
Sunflower
,
Feb 1, 3:38 PM
I hope our friendship will continue like this, but more than that, I want to understand the reason. If it's because of the busyness that comes with life, I would understand.
You
,
Feb 1, 3:41 PM
Yeah, you're right, perhaps, Yes, maybe, Okay, I understand, I may be doing things and feeling busy with those things, not taking a break to chat with you. Yeah, that can happen, I realize. SORRY.
Sunflower
,
Feb 1, 3:44 PM
Okay, I just hope our friendship can continue to grow, but I also don't want your life to be so busy that I'd be bothering you.
You
,
Feb 1, 3:45 PM
No bother at all. Please do not worry. Thanks.
Sunflower
,
Feb 1, 3:49 PM
I'm very happy to hear this, and I hope our friendship will continue to develop and move forward in the future.
You
,
Feb 1, 3:51 PM
Yes, me too, I hope so, too, Yes, we will!
Sunflower
,
Feb 1, 4:01 PM
That's great to hear, but how have you been lately?
You
,
Feb 1, 5:03 PM
Good, I guess. I am doing OKAY, for now it is as good as it gets or can be, i suppose, perhaps. !!!! i happened to see this came in the newspaper = https://www.nytimes.com/1980/01/18/archives/dengs-son-is-coming-to-rochester-for-graduate-training-in-physics.html
Sunflower
,
Feb 1, 7:22 PM
This is the news we discussed before about Deng Xiaoping's son, who shared an office with you, going to study in the United States. At the time, this news had a significant impact on China.
You
,
Feb 1, 9:02 PM
Oh! Very interesting! In what way significant impact on China ??
Sunflower
,
Feb 1, 9:11 PM
I remember that some Chinese people protested at the time. In fact, at that time, Chinese people had a great fondness for going abroad, but for those who were more involved in national politics, it was a kind of betrayal, so it caused a lot of dissatisfaction.
You
,
Feb 1, 9:16 PM
Oh, I see, Very interesting!, (it was similar in India also, especially then, but now changed a bit, I think)
Sunflower
,
Feb 1, 9:24 PM
Yes, this has happened in many developing countries in the past, but now that people know their ideals and what they want, they themselves have changed and are gradually turning to live and work in countries with more opportunities.
You
,
Feb 1, 9:35 PM
Yes, I agree!
Sunflower
,
Feb 1, 9:36 PM
I'm glad you agree with this viewpoint. At that time, many countries primarily relied on agriculture and handicrafts for development. Consequently, many people chose to be complacent rather than strive for improvement, which is one reason why labor costs became low in many countries.
You
,
Feb 1, 9:44 PM
Yes, it makes sense, Yes, I agree!, Yes, indeed!
Sunflower
,
Feb 1, 9:44 PM
I'm glad you share the same view.
You
,
Feb 1, 9:58 PM
Yes, of course! Xuelin, almost 10 pm here, going upstairs. Good Night.
Sunflower
,
Feb 1, 10:01 PM
I hope you get a good night's sleep and have sweet dreams. Goodnight, and I look forward to our conversation tomorrow.
You
,
Feb 1, 10:03 PM
Thank You, and, You, too!
Sunflower
,
Feb 1, 10:05 PM
Sure, so I hope you get a good night's sleep and sweet dreams. Goodnight.
You
,
Feb 2, 1:46 PM
Yes, I slept well. what about you ? Good morning (afternoon here). today a bit warmer sunny like 30 degrees daytime weather, night will be about 5 deg at coldest time
Sunflower
,
Feb 2, 2:21 PM
I'm so glad you had such great weather and a good start to the day. I slept really well too, but I haven't had much time to enjoy the good things that are happening today yet, as I've been in some meetings. I'll be finishing them soon, though. Do you have any good plans for today?
You (via Meet)
,
Feb 4, 10:09 AM
, You (via Meet)
,
Feb 4, 10:10 AM
, You (via Meet)
,
Feb 4, 10:11 AM
, You (via Meet)
,
Feb 4, 10:17 AM
, Sunflower
,
Feb 4, 10:28 AM
Hey, what's going on here?
You
,
Feb 4, 11:11 AM
Hey, Xuelin, Good Morning. I tried to call you, looked like it was not a good time. Sorry.
Sunflower
,
Feb 4, 11:58 AM
Good morning. I was jogging in the park when you sent me the video call invitation.
You
,
Feb 4, 11:59 AM
Oh, okay, Oh, sorry Xuelin
Sunflower
,
Feb 4, 12:00 PM
It's okay, it's nothing. However, I haven't used video calls here yet; the cameras can't be turned on.
Sunflower
,
Feb 4, 12:05 PM
How were you today?
You
,
Feb 4, 12:13 PM
Oh, okay, No problem. Outside still cold here, but sunny today 30 degish. Nights are much colder going down to low teens and single digits. Here, now lunch time soon,
Sunflower
,
Feb 4, 12:21 PM
It sounds quite cold, but sunshine always lifts the spirits. Remember to dress warmly and don't catch a cold. Lunchtime is almost here, what are you planning to eat?
You
,
Feb 4, 12:24 PM
Okay, not sure yet, very likely some leftover food that needs to be eaten or finished
Sunflower
,
Feb 4, 12:40 PM
Leftovers are actually quite good; they're convenient and avoid waste. But it's even more comforting to eat something warm when it's cold.
You
,
Feb 4, 1:16 PM
Yes, true. I had Oatmeal soup, nice and warm, with some nuts, raisins, salt, black pepper, blueberries, indian spicy- hot pickles, added, My wife had made one for herself, and since everything was out on the counter, she invited me to use them, to do the same thing for me, and I did that. Very nice.
Sunflower
,
Feb 4, 1:31 PM
Wow, what a cozy and fun breakfast! Warm oatmeal with nuts, raisins, blueberries, and a sprinkle of salt and black pepper… and you even boldly added some spicy kimchi! 😄 This shared moment with your wife makes the morning especially wonderful. Honestly, I can almost picture the flavors of all the ingredients mixed together; it sounds like the kind of breakfast that makes my mouth water.😍
You
,
Feb 11, 11:14 AM
Yes, indeed! and, Good Morning. the weather here is turning warmer (relatively) for a few days it seems
Sunflower
,
Feb 12, 12:21 PM
Hey, good morning Raya. Sorry I didn't see the messages here. I've been quite busy these past few days, dealing with family matters with my family. Chinese New Year is coming up soon, and we'll be doing a lot of things during that time.
You
,
Feb 12, 12:56 PM
Oh, no problem!, Sure, I understand. and, Oh, great! (Chinese New Year), and you will be having a lot of fun, good times, and that is very nice, wonderful. Good Morning.
Sunflower
,
Feb 12, 2:08 PM
Thank you for your understanding. Actually, very few people know about the Chinese New Year. However, the Chinese New Year is similar to Thanksgiving here; we also gather with our families on this day to eat New Year's Eve dinner and make dumplings.
You
,
Feb 12, 2:14 PM
Ohh, okay!, Oh, that's great!, 😀
Sunflower
,
Feb 12, 2:18 PM
Enjoy yourself! I hope you receive many blessings during this Chinese festival. Happy New Year!
You
,
Feb 12, 2:22 PM
And you, too! Yes, thank you!, Thank you so much! 🥰😘👍🌹🙏😀
Sunflower
,
Feb 12, 2:55 PM
You're welcome, keep up the good work! By the way, how have you been lately?
You
,
Feb 12, 2:56 PM
Thanks! You, too!, I'm good! And you?
Sunflower
,
Feb 12, 4:26 PM
Just like you, I've just had some busy times in my life.
You
,
Feb 12, 5:21 PM
I see, hope it was not too bad.
Sunflower
,
Feb 12, 11:13 PM
Don't worry, everything is going smoothly. How are you?
You
,
Feb 13, 8:06 AM
Good thanks!, I'm good, thanks for asking
Sunflower
,
Feb 13, 12:30 PM
Good morning, Raya! Hope you have a wonderful day and enjoy this lovely Friday!
You
,
Feb 13, 1:35 PM
Thank you, you too!
Sunflower
,
Feb 13, 1:41 PM
😊😊😊
You
,
Feb 13, 1:56 PM
😊😊😊
Sunflower
,
Feb 13, 3:24 PM
I just finished my meeting and am getting ready to go home.
You
,
Feb 13, 3:53 PM
Oh, lucky you!
You
,
Yesterday 2:42 PM
My mother-in-law said something, a very intriguing matter, (and she has mentioned this to me several times), during her visits here in the last few years (that is after her husband passed away in 2022, she is more inclined to talk about her earlier years, herself, family etc.). I think it was about her paternal grandmother ajji, maybe the first one (not sure) of her two ajjis, it was about one such elder, anyways.
It seems that sometime after that elder's marriage, the case was made by the husband's family and relatives or friends or not-very-far away neighbors that the elder's parents were not good people for them, and so she had to stop going there, they cut off all connections with her parents' house, and as a replacement the other family became like an adopted parental house, and she became very close to them, and going there often and also enjoying time with the daughters there in that family, also involving "thale baachuvadu", hair grooming for the girls etc., (helping to take care of them) etc., and which she very much enjoyed, especially since she herself did not have children or daughters
This is very unusual, and I am intrigued if there was some deliberate manipulation and activity from behind-the-scenes (like Deep State) forces to manufacture or more likely to maintain the already existing local brahmin community DIVIDE, for enabling some kind of divide-and-rule that the rulers in the past needed to facilitate their governance. I strongly suspect that the divide-and-rule practiced in various kingdoms of the past, may have had much stronger social presence or holding on the state of affairs ground situation, than we had imagined or thought likely (???). Divide-and-Rule is made easier when there is no confusion about which side or family or group, among the two or more groups, the said individual or family belonged or is aligned with.
It seems that sometime after that elder's marriage, the case was made by the husband's family and relatives or friends or not-very-far away neighbors that the elder's parents were not good people for them, and so she had to stop going there, they cut off all connections with her parents' house, and as a replacement the other family became like an adopted parental house, and she became very close to them, and going there often and also enjoying time with the daughters there in that family, also involving "thale baachuvadu", hair grooming for the girls etc., (helping to take care of them) etc., and which she very much enjoyed, especially since she herself did not have children or daughters
This is very unusual, and I am intrigued if there was some deliberate manipulation and activity from behind-the-scenes (like Deep State) forces to manufacture or more likely to maintain the already existing local brahmin community DIVIDE, for enabling some kind of divide-and-rule that the rulers in the past needed to facilitate their governance. I strongly suspect that the divide-and-rule practiced in various kingdoms of the past, may have had much stronger social presence or holding on the state of affairs ground situation, than we had imagined or thought likely (???). Divide-and-Rule is made easier when there is no confusion about which side or family or group, among the two or more groups, the said individual or family belonged or is aligned with.
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Anyways, much insights, food for thought, thinking points are there in that info from my mother-in-law, I think, also in various other tit-bits, info, stories coming from various interactions with her over the years, Our Many Thanks, Regards, Namaskaars-PraNaams and Best Wishes to her, my mother-in-law, also my father-in-law, and including all their family, friends, relatives, others helping, supporting, well-wishing etc, for all the help, support, blessings, well-wishes, kindness, good vibes, advice, suggestions, info, insights etc. , and to ALL. Best Wishes. Aummm.. and, similarly, to you also good friends Xuelin. Thank You for listening, for your help, kindness, support, friendship, kindness, info, interactions, insights, well-wishes, understanding, suggestions, blessings, etc. All the Best, Good Luck. Love & Regards. Do Well. Be Brave, Be Wise. Take Care. Best Wishes. Aummm..
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in the old photo here, from one of my visits, in 2000s, (?), perhaps, we see my immediate younger brother Udaya Bhanu H (also "kunhaNNa" in the family) on the right, and me, photo taken at his place in Bengaluru, Karnataka State, India.
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