I do use Intellij for java dev and scala for now, but as you said, I'm teased by the last releases of ScalaIDE. So, I'll soon install it and try it.
However, intellij has its own strengh which for me is its performance. And the scala plugin (because it's just a plugin) is not so bad, but lacks some features. A dummy one, copy pasting files looses the internal structure or the template support.
From my pov, what is really missing is a good support of sbt in idea.
Moreover, ScalaIDE is part of the TypeSafe stack, which contains also Play 2.0, so I guess that the scala template support will be better time to time.
my 2c