Would you be interested in working with other people in Ruby, outside of work on a project or something like that? Are you wanting to get to know experts or other learners?
I attended the group for the first time this month, but intend to go to them from now on. Hopefully will see you there and get a chat, as it seems you are in a similar situation to me in that you don't know any other Ruby programmers ;) Sometimes it's good to have a person to bounce your programming ideas off!
All the best,
Kevin McCaughey