Blameless
1Tim 5:7 And these things command, that they may be blameless.
Part of attaining a blameless life is a function of someone else being willing to command and instruct us, and of our willingness to receive such commands and instruction.
And thus it is written, "Obey your leaders and submit to their authority. They keep watch over you as men who must give an account. Obey them so that their work will be a joy, not a burden, for that would be of no advantage to you." Heb 13:17
Do you have someone watching over you as men who much give an account for you? If not, ask God to provide you with such a person or persons, which would be beneficial to your spiritual maturing unto a life above reproach.