KNOWING WHAT IS FITTING TO SAY
Pr 10:32 The lips of the righteous know what is fitting, but the mouth of the wicked only what is perverse.
But how do you learn what is fitting?
Is 50:4,5 "The Lord GOD has given Me The tongue of the learned, That I should know how to speak A word in season to him who is weary. He awakens Me morning by morning, He awakens My ear To hear as the learned. The Lord GOD has opened My ear; And I was not rebellious, Nor did I turn away."
Eph 5:3,4 But fornication and all uncleanness or covetousness, let it not even be named among you, as is fitting for saints; neither filthiness, nor foolish talking, nor coarse jesting, which are not fitting, but rather giving of thanks.