Dear folks,
I know this is late- but I guess better late than never.
It's an interesting subject. I think the longer I play the more I
realize that it's not about the absence of mistakes but how you
handle them when they happen. The first layer of that statement has
the more obvious meaning of "let it roll off you", don't flinch or
otherwise allow the audience to know you aren't happy with what just
occurred.
It is true that 90% of your audience didn't hear it or didn't hear
it as a bad mistake. And even if they do hear it, they won't
remember it but they will remember any uncomfortable looks or body
language from you.
Another element of this is why you made the mistake and what kind of
mistake was it? If you make a mistake because your mind is
wandering, well that's just an entirely different (non-musical)
issue. And, you need to let that go. Try to keep your mind clear
and focused.
If you make a mistake because you are trying to play something
exactly as you have practiced it, that's usually just 'time-spent'.
more time in the mines as they say. But, if you make a mistake
because you were inspired to try something new and went for it (but
it didn't work), is that really a bad thing? There are arguments
for both sides. And I see them both- but I always like to hear
someone who is going for something, even if they don't quite make
it, then in some cases, hear something completely perfect and
executed with precision- Both of course can be great, I'm just
saying there's an element of excitement that should be there with
music.
For me, I do strive always for perfection. Still hasn't happened.
But it doesn't taint or otherwise discount my joy after a show. Ok,
that's a lie. Sometimes I've been known to spend days dying the
same death again and again over one missed note. But, when I don't
miss a note or make an obvious mistake, I still never feel like I
did it perfectly because it's such a moving target. The minute you
start getting better you already know where you aren't....again.
It's perpetual. And that's exactly what keeps us going, as artists.
I've always said if you need instant gratification become a house
painter... not a musician. Because even though an audience (if
you're lucky) will applaud for you every 3-4 minutes, YOU will never
be fully happy with where you are musically.
-missy