Option 1: Using your research resources, locate another article that
discusses shyness from a scholarly resource. The article must be at
least two pages long and contribute to your understanding of shyness.
Summarize the article in a short paragraph, then include a subsequent
paragraph that evaluates the two positions of the opposing articles.
The article Is Being Shy an Illness? by Anna Buckley discusses the
extent to which shyness deserves to be treated as a sickness. The
article makes a distinction between experiencing some shyness and
being chronically shy. The article contends that shyness becomes a
mental illness when it is a fear, and anxiety, called “social phobia.”
According to Harvard professor Ronald Kessler, “social phobia is
tragic and the tragedy is that it’s relatively easily treated but most
people don’t get treatment.” People who suffer from social phobia are
often “freaked out,” and are more likely to drop out of school. The
condition often results in drug and alcohol abuse. Research on
treatment for overcoming this chronic social fear and anxiety shows
that while medications such as anti-depressants do help, therapy is
often more successful in the long term.
The first article, Are You Shy?, discusses the origins of shyness. It
asserts shyness is both inherited and acquired. Studies done with
babies and children determined that about 15-20% of shy people
inherited the trait. However, approximately 40% of people report being
shy. Research also found that shyness depends on a child’s
relationship with his or her parents, as well as experiences during
teenage and adult years. Additionally, culture influences shyness. For
example, people in Japan and Taiwan tend to be more shy than people in
Israel. However, assuming all Israeli people are not shy, or are less
shy than all Japanese people, is an overgeneralization. Lastly, the
article speculates on the role of the Internet and technology in
increasing the amount of shy people. On one hand, modern technology
facilitates communications, making life easier for shy people who do
not do well in social situations. On the other hand, more and more
people are relying on technology and lack the social skills that are
built in spontaneous children’s games. The second article evaluates
shyness as a method. It attempts to understand why people are shy at
sometimes but not others, and how shy people tend to act. The research
found that “shyness could be understood as a manipulation of
procedures” in order to reveal information about oneself. Shy people
practice completely different habits than self-confident people in
formal speaking situations. Shy people spoke in certain sequences,
focusing more on the setting and avoiding engagement in topical talk.
Self-confident people did the opposite. The article also examines
shyness as a “social phobia,” ultimately finding that shy people lack
a certain trust whereas self-confident people are willing to share
more, and almost any, information.
Option 1:
The article published in Psychology Today, “Are You Shy” provided some clarification on the technical definition of shyness. Dispelling common misconceptions on the topic, it revealed that shyness can manifest itself in both socially uneasy behavior and seemingly socially comfortable behavior. The common ground among the two types of behaviors stems from a sense of low self esteem and self confidence. 15-20% of shy people behave according to the typical shy stereotype (uneasiness in social situations), while the remaining percentage can mask their shyness, but still does not solve the root problem of overcoming their low self confidence. The second article, “Shyness, Self-Confidence, and Social Interaction”, explains more about the conversational behavioral patterns of shy people. It also makes a distinction that shyness is itself not exactly a quality, but a method of behaviors that stem from low self confidence, leading to the notion of “doing” shyness. The two articles seems to distinguish between the levels of emphasis placed on the individual in determining their own shy or not shy behavior.
The article I chose to read was, “Shyness and Children's Emotionality, Regulation, and Coping: Contemporaneous, Longitudinal, and Across-Context Relations,” which dealt with the behavior of shy children with regards to emotional coping and help-seeking. As expected, the shy children were less likely to seek help in their younger years, while their non-shy counterparts actively sought help when confused (agreeing with the “Are You Shy” study in Psychology Today). One interesting piece of information was the way that shy people dealt with negative emotion; shy ones would often push these emotions inward and deal with them alone and personally, which explains a high occurrence of depressive thoughts in shy people.
“Are You Shy?” named several factors affecting shyness: biological tendencies, parenting, and culture. Researchers found that certain infants had higher responses to stimuli, suggesting that their sympathetic nervous system arousal was very sensitive, thus making them more likely to react to unfamiliar situations with anxiety. Researchers have also linked shyness to month of conception, finding that children conceived in August or September are more likely to be shy because women are producing more melatonin (which is associated with neural activity) in the early fall. In addition to these biological factors, children raised with an “insecure attachment” to their parents are more likely to be shy, because when the affection of their parents is inconsistent, the children begin to fear that all relationships will be similarly difficult. Finally, the article commented on the differing standards for shyness across cultures; what is considered shy in one culture may be considered outgoing in another, and vice versa. In “Shyness, Self-Confidence, and Social Interaction,” researchers compared interactions between shy strangers and self-confident strangers. The conversations between shy strangers tended to focus on the immediate physical surroundings and have many awkward breaks where the participants were unsure of who should speak. The participants introduced many topics but failed to pursue conversations about them until they found a “favored topic,” a topic that one participant felt comfortable talking about; this resulted in an overly-enthusiastic pursuit of that topic. The self-confident people tended to be more forward in their introductions and move through topics with more natural interest and completion. The researchers suggested that this difference could be caused by shy people’s desire to avoid “face-threatening acts” (essentially, their fear of embarrassment). The researchers in "Shyness, Self-Confidence, and Social Interaction" focused more on the manifestations of shyness than the underlying causes of it, which the authors of "Are You Shy?" explained.
The article “Are We Born Shy?” further examined the biological bases of shyness. The author clarified that shyness cannot be entirely innate because it is centered around a person’s sense of self, which does not develop until about 18 months of age. People cannot feel self-conscious and judge themselves negatively if they are unaware of themselves. However, some infants are born with an “inhibited temperament,” meaning that they tend to have more intense reactions to stimuli. In young children, this is often demonstrated through children hiding behind their parents or playing alone, which can be interpreted as shyness. However, this initial disposition does not necessarily indicate that the individual will be shy when he is older, emphasizing that people can take actions to diminish their shyness.