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855 Register. Anyone seen Faiza? No, I mean today in class. No, not on the way to school. James please stop talking and.. yes you can go to toilet. Hello Faiza, glad you could join us and.. yes please go to the toilet. Why are you wearing trainers? Oh well, I hope you recover it from your dog.

In this story, we follow young goatherd Kayode as he attempts to save his little sister after she is taken by the Orishas when their village is pillaged. In order to pull off defeating literal deities, he eats their forbidden fruit and takes on temporary powers.




By way of answer, Clara opened the locket around her neck. The locket contained a photograph. The girl was young. Blonde hair. Smiling. A naughty face. With a bright yellow scarf around her neck.

It was Elsa Spiegel.




Rachel sipped the last of her soup. She looked at the innocent face in the photograph. She could feel herself making a decision. The only decision she could make. The voice of the boy on the bench seemed to float between them.

The key will tell you. Swear that when it does, you will not refuse it.


My daughter, who is 6.5 years old, is a very advanced reader and recently picked out a chapter book at our local library. She was so excited to read it, saying she felt like a big kid. She quickly read it and was eager for more. So I began the search, found lots of great ones, and wanted to share.


Most of these are geared for girls, but some are great for everyone. To see books more specifically for boys, check out my other blog post HERE. I also love to look at the inside of a book to get a feel of the difficulty level and if it will overwhelm her or not. That is hard to do online, or even unavailable sometimes, so I also have an inside look at every book below so you can see too.


We had a great discussion about WW2 the other day spurred by one of these books. We talked about Israel, the atomic bomb debate, etc. It was a great introduction to the evils of the world dealt with in the confines of their safe home.


Jean Fritz has several. And the On My Own History series has some good titles. Buttons for General Washingtonl and An American Army of Two come to mind. These may be under her reading level, but they are good books.


I found a wonderful series, writen by a Christian author that are true stories of girls from her American Heritage and have Christian principles througout. We live in a big city and our Library did not have them, and when I asked them to buy the books they did and I was thrilled! You can get lapbooks for them on Currclick. The books are the Eleanor series and you can find them here -series/books/


Please note that in Felicity, she outright disobeys her father, He told her to not go see the horse again, but she does. She sneaks off at night. I talked to my dd how that was wrong, but there are other good things in the movie. My favorite movie is Kit. dd likes the Samantha movie best, which does have child labor for immigrants, which was legal back then.


When my daughter, now a young adult, was around ten years old, she wrote a letter to the makers of American Girl Dolls asking about the possibility of a Jewish doll. Like the exclusive country clubs of the nineteenth and twentieth centuries, the sought-after group of dolls was all-Christian (and, until 1993, all-white). She received a prompt and courteous response thanking her for entrusting American Girl to represent her traditions, but informing her that no such doll was on the horizon.


Enough Jewish American girls other than my own must have asked for the same, because in 2009, American Girl introduced Rebecca Rubin, their first Jewish historical doll, to the world. Her debut was announced everywhere from The New York Times to The Jerusalem Post. For standing only eighteen inches tall, she carried a lot of weight on her shoulders. While there have been a number of criticisms leveled at the perceived commercialism of the American Girl enterprise, most Jewish readers had overwhelmingly positive reactions to Rebecca. By adding her to a roster of dolls and stories that trace the history of girlhood in our country, American Girl made a meaningful statement about the significance of Jews in American life.


And because one of the best parts of literature is that it helps us understand other life experiences, boys lose out on seeing the world through the lens of a female protagonist. This leaves them less able to understand the world around them and the people who live in it.


And when we read books aloud, buy them as gifts, or help children and students pick out library books, we should rotate between novels with female and male main characters. Let children see the stories of both girls and boys as interesting, engaging, and worth exploring.


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I completed Tara's Playing Big Facilitator training, which has positively impacted my life and my clients too! She knows all the things about inner critics, fear and taking small steps into doing the work you want to do. Love her.2. Be More Pirate by Sam Conniff. Embrace the rebellious spirit of the pirate, challenge the status quo, and rewrite the rules to create positive change and unleash your inner disruptor.


I came across this book in the summer of 2018 and coupled with Tara Mohr above. These two books changed my life. Sam, now a dear friend, showed me that I don't have to do what everyone does and don't need anyone's permission to do anything. The second book, How to be more Pirate, with Alex Barker (another awesome human) is flipping brilliant too!


3. Big Magic. Creative Living Beyond Fear by Elizabeth Gilbert. Discover the magic of creativity and how to overcome fear, self-doubt, and perfectionism to unleash your creative potential and live a fulfilling, inspired life.


This is the book that helped me realise that Good Girl Deprogramming was a thing. A thing that could be my thing and encouraged me to pursue the magical idea that had been given to me by the universe.


5. Unbound: A Woman's Guide to Power by Kasia Urbaniak. Discover the keys to reclaiming your power, navigating power dynamics, and developing an authentic presence in a world that often limits women's expression.


I adore this book. For so many reasons. Glennon has the best podcast too - so make sure you check it out. Being invited onto her podcast to chat all things Good Girl Deprogramming is on my bucket list, so if you know her, please give her a nudge ;-).


7. Gravitas: Communicate with Confidence, Influence, and Authority by Caroline Goyder. Learn the art of impactful communication, develop a commanding presence, and communicate with confidence, authority, and authenticity.


I get asked for a lot of book recommendations, I think it comes with the territory when you share the love of books. And while I love pairing books with potential readers, I have also noticed a pattern that causes me to pause, that should cause all of us to pause.


When written like this it is easy to see the problem; when we assume that there is such a thing as books for girls and books for boys, we are continuing a tired and sexist narrative that has only furthered the power inequity that already exists within our society. We are creating a new generation of mansplaining, of groupthink, of toxic masculinity. Of girls only liking one thing, and boys liking another. Of men and women being from different planets. Of readers being shaped more by their assigned gender than their actual interests.


And I think of my own children, my three girls and one boy, whose reading interests are as varied as their personalities. Sure there are Minecraft books being read by Oskar, but not until Thea reads them first. Sure there are unicorn books with pink sparkly covers being read by Augustine but not until Oskar sees if the unicorn gets rescued first. I would hate for anyone to assume that they knew who they were as readers based only on their gender.


How often does this thinking then translate into the very books we recommend to the boys we teach? To the girls? How often do our assumptions about their needs as a reader surpass what they actually need? How often does this translate into the read alouds we choose? The texts we bless by spending our time on them as a community?


So I am wondering if we for once and for all, can we all agree that there is no such thing as a girl or a boy book? That kids need to be exposed to characters that inspire them, no matter their gender. That kids need to be exposed to characters that will expand their worldviews and invite them into new worlds that they knew little of before, no matter their gender. That kids need to be exposed to great books, without us adults thinking that they will only read a certain type of book based on what we see in front of us.


Very well thought out piece. It makes me question a lot. I do understand that marketing has a lot to answer for as it continues to perpetuate this archaic narrative. Pink coloured books for girls, darker colours for boys. People need to be how they are, not what society thinks they should be.


Yes that is so true. Children should be guided and taught to do things that is required of them, especially the boys. Having the mindset that some books or even chores are made specifically for a particular gender is a wrong assertion. The best thing to do is to educate them on doing things they love that will help them survive, reading books that will add to their knowledge whether fiction, nonfiction, emotional, pink or green cover.


My memories of the texts themselves are slightly hazy and are only of things like Samantha and the accidentally salted birthday ice cream, Molly sitting in front of a plate of turnips forever, and Felicity describing what a tannery smelled like.


Valerie Tripp wrote many of the early American Girl books including books for Samantha, Molly, Felicity, and Josefina. The most recent book is Izzy Newton and the S.M.A.R.T. Squad (with illustrator Geneva Bowers) for National Geographic. She has also written about greek mythology and worked on middle grade adaptations of classics including Sherlock Holmes and Tom Sawyer.

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