Everything will be alright Lisa. This is what we are here for. Personally, as you have just said with your last email, I feel and agree with the same thing. We need to make one decision only. I wish that I could've answered or been there to get this earlier.
I just think that compromise will be too hard to practice and everything. Plus, it will be confusing. I do like the idea but personally, I wouldn't want that.
Good night everyone and have a blessed night,
A.J.