Our SCADA software is sending this "Reset of Remote Link" command to each outstation upon startup. One of our relays only works reliably if it gets this. I'm also wondering if this accounts for the connection going from OPEN to WAITING, OPENING, and repeating on startup.
How would I send this? Here is a fragment of the Wireshark dissection:
Distributed Network Protocol 3.0
  Data Link Layer, Len: 5, From: 100, To: 4, DIR, PRM, Reset of Remote Link
    Start Bytes: 0x0564
    Length: 5
    Control: 0xc0 (DIR, PRM, Reset of Remote Link)
      1... .... = Direction: Set
      .1.. .... = Primary: Set
      ..0. .... = Frame Count Bit: Not set
      ...0 .... = Frame Count Valid: Not set
      .... 0000 = Control Function Code: Reset of Remote Link (0)
    Destination: 4
    Source: 100
    CRC: 0x899a [correct]