Re: hurlyburly walls
marika
Ran across a guy on a bike down on King.
When I was up on Ford he came back and then nailed me
marika wrote in message ...
>when i was mugged,
>the cops were there all day interviewing me and getting more info about one
>of the things i lost was my phone card, and of coruse I could use at&t card
>if encessary, but it's not that necessary
>
>i swear I have never been so upset as after what a friend said
>I said I do not want to talk about it several times.
>she insisted on coming in and closiing the door
>and i still didn't want to talk about it
>she says are you ok
>and i say no I am hurt and in pain
>so then she goes on talking about how o you should ask us for a ride
instead
>of walking home
>I am like, thinkin ask who -- the two ladies were working to midnite and
all
>i wanted was to get some food and left at a reasonable 9 pm and the person
>accosting me with this alleged advice wasn't even there
>
>one time when i asked her to pick me up at the building to go to work at
>another location for a meeting we were both due to go to, she refused -
made
>me walk to the office
>not a big deal to me, but shows you where her heart really was
>i'm going to ask someone like that, you think
>
>so i say, it doesn't matter, I am going home in two weeks, which was true,
i
>wasn't coming back
>
>The whole time I am trying to dial my credit union because i got to get
info
>to them to stop my checks
>
>the doors closed she won't get out.
>
>so after i say thanks but I am going home, it doesn't matter anymore
>
>she goes: it's your choice to stay so late, no one makes you do that
>and I am thinking of the 3000 things that the bosses send me with deadlines
>in addition to having to deal with nonstop traffic phone calls and emails,
>and how I have to stay late to read her stuff and document her poor
>performance
>and how she sent me something late on Thursday demanding that I read it for
>posting on Friday
>
>yeah i do, supervising her is only one of the things that i don't have time
>for, but she keeps getting her little bonuses and raises
>
>and I say, yes I do, I am drowning in assignments that I have to correct
and
>work down.
>
>so she goes: you are such a sorry person.
>
>MY jaw just drops.
>
> I can't even believe she had the nerve to go there.
>
>I called the guy who had the job before me to commiserate
>
>We both agreed that what she said was just bizarre and that the only choice
>that people in our job has is to change jobs if we don't want to stay late.
>
>he reminded me of all the times he had no choice but to stay after 10 pm
>and as I have already made arrangements to go home and or interview and or
>get an outside job, I am pretty sure I have exercised all the options that
>exist
>
>I am still reeling at the rudeness of that alleged attempt to demonstrate
>her friendship and support
>
>So help me I feel like taking a stay away order against her, that is how
>much I am taken aback
>
>mk5000
>
>
>
>"I am an American aquarium drinker
>I assassin down the avenue
>I'm hiding out in the big city blinking
>What was I thinking when I let go of you"--I am Trying to Break Your Heart
>
>
>
marika
dude got everything
spent all night doing the cancel dance
marika
the job. The advice was Just keep putting your resume and don’t get
discouraged…
and that's what i did and now I am super happy
marika
WOT
I got mugged last year
OW!!!!