i swear I have never been so upset as after what a friend said
I said I do not want to talk about it several times.
she insisted on coming in and closiing the door
and i still didn't want to talk about it
she says are you ok
and i say no I am hurt and in pain
so then she goes on talking about how o you should ask us for a ride instead
of walking home
I am like, thinkin ask who -- the two ladies were working to midnite and all
i wanted was to get some food and left at a reasonable 9 pm and the person
accosting me with this alleged advice wasn't even there
one time when i asked her to pick me up at the building to go to work at
another location for a meeting we were both due to go to, she refused - made
me walk to the office
not a big deal to me, but shows you where her heart really was
i'm going to ask someone like that, you think
so i say, it doesn't matter, I am going home in two weeks, which was true, i
wasn't coming back
The whole time I am trying to dial my credit union because i got to get info
to them to stop my checks
the doors closed she won't get out.
so after i say thanks but I am going home, it doesn't matter anymore
she goes: it's your choice to stay so late, no one makes you do that
and I am thinking of the 3000 things that the bosses send me with deadlines
in addition to having to deal with nonstop traffic phone calls and emails,
and how I have to stay late to read her stuff and document her poor
performance
and how she sent me something late on Thursday demanding that I read it for
posting on Friday
yeah i do, supervising her is only one of the things that i don't have time
for, but she keeps getting her little bonuses and raises
and I say, yes I do, I am drowning in assignments that I have to correct and
work down.
so she goes: you are such a sorry person.
MY jaw just drops.
I can't even believe she had the nerve to go there.
I called the guy who had the job before me to commiserate
We both agreed that what she said was just bizarre and that the only choice
that people in our job has is to change jobs if we don't want to stay late.
he reminded me of all the times he had no choice but to stay after 10 pm
and as I have already made arrangements to go home and or interview and or
get an outside job, I am pretty sure I have exercised all the options that
exist
I am still reeling at the rudeness of that alleged attempt to demonstrate
her friendship and support
So help me I feel like taking a stay away order against her, that is how
much I am taken aback
mk5000
"I am an American aquarium drinker
I assassin down the avenue
I'm hiding out in the big city blinking
What was I thinking when I let go of you"--I am Trying to Break Your Heart
marika wrote in message ...
and that's what i did and now I am super happy
WOT
I got mugged last year
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