Hi Denis
I'd think you'd see the light & feel the gravitational pull at the
same time - gravitational effects propagate at the speed of light
through spacetime, hence you'd experience them both simultaneously.
As an aside (which might not be related to your question), notice that
there are things out there that are moving away faster than the speed
of light (eg, all galaxies beyond redshift 1.6) and yet we can (and we
do) observe them. The trick is that they are not moving away in
spacetime, but rather they are being carried away from us by the
expansion of spacetime, hence this does not violate relativity.
Hope this helps!
Roberto