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[Thallapalli, Prabhakar]

 

 

 

One of the best mail I ever read.. Guys its worth reading..spend 5 minutes

 

The woman in your life … very well expressed …

Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry with these facts as well.

Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;

Who is earning almost as much as you do;

One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as human as you are;

One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements;

One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as much as you do for 20-25 years of her life; ( Love has no scale to be measured .It can exist in many forms but the results are the same).

One ,who feels she has to be the kind of person you want and keeps personal track of herself. Remember it is not easy for you to change a single habit of yours. But she is all ready to adjust to a new and demanding atmosphere.(When we go through a process ,we get the best results. No one can change overnight. Give time, space and consideration);

One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt to your home, your family, your ways and even your family name;

One ,who is bound to make mistakes in the process of adjusting to new environment but still does not want to stop from trying .Forgive her when she is wrong and appreciate her when she is right.( The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong).

One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen;

One, who feels all days are the same for her and never grumbles for it. While we sleep to our content on the Sundays ,she wakes up at early hours just to put in the extra effort to make a more complicated yet delicious dish of your choice.(A dish   cooked with LOVE is more delicious than a 100 dishes food cooked with a frown).

One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more, and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother, a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you are as to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you;

One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;

Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise ;

One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;

One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some and trust her;(So trust first, to be trusted);

One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it; 

One, who does not expect a hug from you, but only expects a smile which will enliven her, (Remember she too has come home after a hard days work).

In this world where very one earns equally and she has friends who can shop with her, she expects you to join her for shopping only to buy the dress which you like.(Equality in our lives is not an equation but a feeling to compliment)

In this world where most relations are maintained only in the name of Social gatherings, she expects you to introduce her saying " She is my WIFE/Mother/Sister", but we carry the ego of lives and fail to even stand by her side and wander only to gossip with a relative (you might have met after 5 years) so that he does not feel we have a complexity;(Remember what we give ,we get twice as much).( Ego has a voracious appetite. The more you feed it, the hungrier it gets).(It is harder to crack a prejudice than an atom).

One whose roles change every five years (Here the roles don't change but only keep adding-up). She is keen to take extra responsibility and work on it so that you get a couple of hours of sleep which we so dearly want.(And she very rightly deserves but has been out rightly deprived).

The time to be happy is now. The place to be happy is here.
The way to be happy is to make others so.

And in the end, it's not the years in your life that count.
It's the life in your years.

When you don't justify your love then you can't justify your existence.

  Each new season grows from the leftovers from the past.
That is the essence of change, and change is the basic law. 

                  

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