The basic ground or the foundation is the home. It all starts from the home and extends to the school and the surroundings.Mother plays a very important role in molding the children through her care love and affection. Father plays the important role as the role model , being the head of the family , teaching discipline and decision making. If the parents are abusing each other at home, drinking and smoking and vulgar words and activities are going on at home, then this will be a terrible example for them to duplicate and practice in their life at the later stage when they grow. Parents cannot pass on the religious/spiritual knowledge to their children as they themselves don't know about it. The Gurukulam structure which is was suppose to help mold them in that area was broken when it reached Malaysia. This gurukulam plays a very important role in the life of our children and youth. They build and mold the individuals with basic laws or fundamentals of Hinduism/Spirituality like the law of karma, law of dharma, pancha nitya karmas etc. They will learn about themselves, who am I , where did I come from where am I going and what is my path. Those information and teachings will be available through the guidance of the spiritual master or guru. There are quite number of gurukulams in Malaysia and also many religious bodies who conduct devaram classes , religion classes , religious camps during school holidays etc. So find time and send your children to those ashram, gurukulams or camps. Set a serious priority for this. Just like how we are committed for the education of our children by sending them to many motivation seminars, tuition classes , mind mapping programs, memory improvements programs which help the to become better student and do well in their exam and develop success in their career. What about their self transformation personality through their religious practices and sadhana. Not important ? Think about it.
Parents also need to take serious effort to know about their children, how they doing in school, who are their friends, look into their rooms and check out from time to time, check their hand phone, Facebook, Instagram , . be their best friends etc. Spend time in their interest and get closer to them. Make time, time doesn't wait for you. Not just working and working , and busy with your work or job.
We as an individual too can play an important role in our community. It is our dharma and responsibility to give back to community. You can be part of an activities that are conducted by the religious bodies, organizations , ashrams or gurukulams by providing financial assistance. Or you could take up the role as the religious/spiritual teacher conducting classes in temples , schools especially Tamil schools or your surroundings. You can be a qualified teacher by going through trainings conducted by various religious organization. Now is the time. You could see the results in 5 to 10 years.
The bottom line is love, love and love. Accept your children who they are, show your love and compassion to them, encourage them, motivate them, build strong relationships with them, be their best friend and biggest cheerleader, teach them gratitude and appreciation and tell them I LOVE YOU.
In conclusion, take serious action, take on the responsibility and it our dharma and duty towards the betterment of our children and community and it starts at home and extends to school or gurukulam through the teacher or spiritual guru/master and that would lead to God through temple worship.
Thank you, thank you and thank you
Om Namasivaya,