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While many couples see remarriage as a second chance at happiness, the statistics tell a different story. According to available Census data, the divorce rate for second marriages in the United States is over 60% compared to around 50% for first marriages.
When people get remarried, they often bring unhealthy relationship patterns and trust issues from their first marriage that can sabotage the new relationship. Sometimes this baggage can cause couples to rush into tying the knot without truly getting to know each other.
It makes sense that a fear of vulnerability can be a real dilemma in a second marriage, yet not expressing our innermost feelings, thoughts, and wishes can actually put a relationship more at risk because we lose out on the trust and intimacy that vulnerability offers.
Are you getting married for the second time and considering whether to have a traditional wedding or something more intimate and unique? Eloping may be the perfect option for you. In this guide, we'll explore why eloping can be a great choice for second marriages. AND I'll be giving ideas to make your elopement special and meaningful. Say goodbye to the stress and expense of a traditional wedding and hello to a personalized and breathtaking elopement experience!
Many couples who are getting married for the second time are not as interested in having a big, traditional wedding. They may want a more intimate experience that focuses on the love and connection they share with their partner. An elopement can provide just that, AND MORE!! It allows couples to exchange their vows in a beautiful location, with or without their closest loved ones present.
I've had the honor of photographing many second-marriage elopements. Let me tell you, it doesn't make it any less special. And I can say from personal experience; getting married isn't just for the youngins! My own grandmother got married quite a few times throughout her life, even in her 70's! She outlived many husbands and kept going because she believed in love. MANY people choose to get married later along in their journey here on Earth. If you're considering an elopement for your second marriage, or your first marriage as someone NOT in their 20's; there are plenty of ideas to make your day special. I know it can get overwhelming since you can do anythinggg you want, but let me break it down for ya!
If you're getting married for the second time and want to include family in your elopement day, there are plenty of ways to do so! If you or your partner have children, you can find ways to incorporate them into your celebration. Whether on the day of or later on if you choose to have a private ceremony.
The Issue: There may be children from that prior marriage. Whereas the thought of your cheating ex-spouse may make you think you will be having a reunion with your lunch, your children are (often) worth suffering the nausea of caring about. Most parents do want to leave some money to their children, but not entirely at the expense of their disenfranchising their second spouse. This issue is compounded when the second spouse also has children from a prior marriage, or where there are additional children between you and Spouse #2. And even more complicating is when the new couple has decided not to get married or have more children together but do want to take care of each other if one of them dies. Needless to say, these circumstances have led to many colorful discussions during many consultations, including yelling, accusations, and way-too-mean looks.
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I'm on marriage number three. Changed my name the first time because I liked his much better than mine. Kept it when we divorced because I still liked it better, plus we had a son by then and I wanted to have the same name as his.
Changed it the second time because it was important to him and I wanted to please him. I regretted it for a number of reasons and couldn't wait to change it back to the previous name (of Hubby No 1 and my son) when we divorced. Swore I was never changing it again.
I have been married twice, and I have never changed my name. My first husband died about twenty-one years ago. He did not care if I changed my name or not. My second husband occasionally brings up the name change, and I tell him if he wants to change his name, that is fine with me. His ex-wife changed her name when they got married, and she refers to herself as Mrs. SF. She kept his name.
I did not change my name for many reasons. First, my name is part of my identity. So for me, it would feel strange to have a different name. Second, I am also a professional, and I had an established career, so my name was part of that identity. But that was not the biggest reason. It was the identity as a whole that was the reason.
Is there a reason you need to decide at the time of the marriage? If not, perhaps you could hold off on deciding? Fwiw, I did assume DHs name, which was mainly because I wanted all of us (once we had kids) to have the same name, but I hyphenate on social media, etc. so I am still known to my peers as my maiden name too.
If there would not be children in a marriage, then I would not even consider changing my name. I never felt any particular need to share a name with my partner, but I definitely wanted the same surname as my children (and then it would have been a battle over which surname to give the children because I do not believe in automatically naming children after the father).
Although I switched back and forth, I never really "lost" my maiden name because it was my middle name during marriage, my last name after divorce, and is now my middle name again, a process which I thought, until reading this post, was standard.
Is the second marriage wedding shower a thing now or just super gift grabby? I want to respond that I won't be able to attend because I will be busy setting up a GoFundMe page for my unemployed cat... but worry that maybe the hormones talking. Are second marriage wedding showers a thing now??
Eh. People have baby showers for second babies. In the event of a divorce, a lot of times people don't have much of anything from the first marriage/don't want to have the things from their first wedding shower anymore. I wouldn't bat an eye at it really.
It's not a "thing" - but obviously someone wanted to throw a shower for the bride (I assume it's not the bride throwing the shower). That's sweet and/or possibly embarrassing for the second time bride. Just decline politely since you're not up to it. Someone who's been a bride once already would hardly expect you to attend anyway.
I went to one recently - it was a first marriage for the groom, and the groom's mother really wanted to host a bridal shower, so she did. Most of the bride's long term friends (who attended round one) didn't go, but the groom's mom's friends and family and a group of us (newer friends) attended.
This is my second marriage, FH's first, but I never had any of the extracurricular activities that go with wedding with my first marriage. I didn't care to have a shower, but my FSIL is adamant and throwing me one. But also, I don't even know if his family knows that I was married before. Not sure if it ever came up in casual conversation.
Our marriage will be his second and my first. My family and friends didn't think twice about throwing me a shower, and would have heard none-of-it if I tried to object. I think of a shower more as a time to celebrate something exciting happening for someone you love! My family and friends threw me a "shower" when I became a foster parent (people brought hand-me-down toys/items/clothes) and it made me feel very loved and supported. If you don't want to celebrate for your friend, don't go, but don't ruin a day when others choose to celebrate with her!
@Robin I agree. My husband's family throw us a surprise shower because I flat out refused. It's both of our first marriages, but I was 29 and he was 36, and we're lived together for 4 years. Made no sense to ask for presents.
My MOH is throwing me a shower because she wants to, and it's my second wedding, my FH's first. I didn't have a shower for my first wedding (which was 20 years ago) and so nobody is being asked to come to a second shower for me. If any of my family/friends don't think I should have a shower since it's my second wedding, it's their prerogative not to come. However, if my MOH received a reply such as what you suggested in your OP, I would be very upset.
The dishes thing bothers me. If I didn't want to use my dishes from my first marriage, I would buy my own dishes... Or not register and use the money from the wedding to buy dishes. Most people give something at the shower AND cash at the wedding. For your second go-around this seems gift-grabby as all hell.
It's like a second baby shower to me, which is typically frown upon. Maybe it's more that I know her and I do know the situation that is making me feel this way. I wouldn't be shocked if she was throwing her own shower at all. I already declined the actual wedding, so the shower thing seems very off to me.
Additionally, each party should have their attorney obtain and review any and all marital agreements and other relevant documents from prior marriages. Such documents might place obligations on an individual to make testamentary dispositions to a former spouse or to children of a prior marriage. These obligations may limit the amount of DSUE an individual could potentially pass to a surviving spouse. Other issues regarding portability specific to second marriages merit consideration as well.
Other alternatives, such as purchasing life insurance on the life of the second spouse should be considered as well. The solution to this issue is clearly situation dependent and parties should consult carefully with informed counsel before making a decision.
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