I'm an EE that has spent several decades working on various wireless systems, including several projects using the same platform that the Stratux uses, specifically RTL-SDR receiver dongles and a Raspberry pi (or other comptaible Linux-ARM platform). The receiver dongles and the software are not the performance limiters for the Stratux, they're actually quite good. Usually ADS-B-in performance degradation comes from antennas or placement or unavoidable shadowing at either the receiver or the transmitter. No wireless link is 100% reliable, and without multiple external antennas per band the likelihood of shadowing from wings or other aircraft structure is always an issue. On the transmitting aircraft the same shadowing issues happen even between the external transponder antenna and the direct path to your receiver. Terrain or other obstructions can get in the way as well. UAT retransmits may help you still see an otherwise shadowed airplane on your display, but you get the idea.
I have a dual-band Stratux that spends most of its time hanging in one of the rear windows in my airplane (a Mooney). It feeds the two tablets I fly with that run Avare. I also have an in-panel UAT ADS-B-in receiver that feeds my in-panel IFD540 navigation display. The in-panel ADS-B-in UAT receiver is fed by an external antenna on the belly of the airplane. I've flown with this configuration for several years, probably five or six hundred hours. It is not unsual for traffic to appear on my EFBs from the Stratux that does not appear on my IFD, and vice versa. The in-panel receiver and display are all certified devices. It's not a receiver or software quality issue on either device, it's just the nature of wireless signals.
Basically I agree with your conclusions that it is still a Good Idea to look outside for traffic. I'm glad your situation came out well. I'm really just addressing your comments that the quality of the Stratux was a factor, which I can say it is not any worse than anything else, and better than some others. The same issues that affect traffic reception in a Stratux will affect any other ADS-B-in receiver. The best way to improve that performance would be to mount multiple external antennas, per band, carefully mounted to provide more consistent directional coverage, and make a diversity reception system. That would improve reliability, but it's a lot of effort and the difference may not be huge, and it still won't overcome shadowing from the transmitting aircraft, tower, or terrain.