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From: ANZ...@googlegroups.com [mailto:ANZ...@googlegroups.com] On Behalf Of Craig Horn
Sent: Wednesday, 11 April 2007 6:25 PM
To: ANZ...@googlegroups.com
Subject: [ANZJFT: 191] Re: Nope, no SPAM for meYes indeed, bring it on! I am also a new practitioner with a background in agency work, and this is a great discussion to follow. Just to be clear my comment about “thin” discussion was in relation to the number of responses as against the number of “spam” related messages I was receiving (which I have sorted out now – thank you). Certainly not a comment on the quality and content, which is indeed meaty as has been noted.
As a new practitioner some of the points raised resonate, some are new and interesting. I am a firm believer that both men and women have their unique issues that need to be acknowledged – yet there are so many to keep track of, and that’s before the personal and individual issues emerge! I have struggled to make the transition from community agency social worker with a diversity of roles, to session based therapy in private practice. But I still see the same gender and social issues. As Robin and others have noted here, the issue of social construction of maleness, from the time we are little boys and enforced by males and females as we grow only for us to find that much of this is actually not helpful in managing feelings and relationship issues, is huge. I often perceive that men I’m seeing are disempowered and genuinely unsure of what to do – and interestingly rather than try to play overt power games with me, such as Yael described, seem more likely not to come back because in spite of what I thought were my best efforts to be attentive and responsive, they feel they have not been listened too. At this point their confusion often becomes mine... and so I look forward to the rest of the discussion!
Craig Horn, Sale
From: ANZ...@googlegroups.com [mailto:ANZ...@googlegroups.com] On Behalf Of Yael Clark
Sent: Wednesday, 11 April 2007 12:07 PM
To: ANZ...@googlegroups.com
Subject: [ANZJFT: 177] Re: Nope, no SPAM for me
Just to answer your question, Craig from Sale. I have not had any "pending message" emails. These should only go to a group moderator. Are you a moderator? I did get one SPAM email from a bogus subscriber inviting me to fund his worthy cause- no thanks! As I said, if you go to the website and read and post from there then you need not have any of these emails in your inbox. As to the discussion being "thin"- it seems some people want fewer emails (less discussion) and some want more ("thicker" discussion). As a private practitioner after years of agency work I am feeling rather isolated from colleagues right now and I really appreciate online discussion and support so bring it on, I say!
Yael (Melbourne)
-----Original Message-----
From: ANZ...@googlegroups.com [mailto:ANZ...@googlegroups.com]On Behalf Of Craig Horn
Sent: Monday, 9 April 2007 7:46 PM
To: ANZ...@googlegroups.com
Subject: [ANZJFT: 172] Re: UnsubscribingJust curious, is anyone else getting a lot of emails from google groups, saying message pending, because I am, and they are spam. I get more of those than I do discussion emails, which have actually been a bit thin I thought.
Craig Horn
From: ANZ...@googlegroups.com [mailto:ANZ...@googlegroups.com] On Behalf Of DEB GIBBONS
Sent: Tuesday, 10 April 2007 12:42 PM
To: ANZ...@googlegroups.com
Subject: [ANZJFT: 171] Re: Unsubscribing
I would like to unsubscribe too
deb Gibbons
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From: ANZ...@googlegroups.com [mailto:ANZ...@googlegroups.com]On Behalf Of ti...@nzbase.com
Sent: Tuesday, 10 April 2007 12:34 PM
To: ANZ...@googlegroups.com
Subject: [ANZJFT: 170] UnsubscribingCan I unsubscribe to this email group please?
I did not realise how many emails I would be receiving.
Thanks
Tina McTear
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