Michael – I am with you. I roughly see equal numbers of women and men with and without children. The pre-requisite for my service is the presence of a chronic medial condition. This condition transforms the place the person occupies within the world and family bringing an enormous amount of existential angst. I reckon that engaging in war-fare does not help and profound respect for the persons and empathy for their circumstance enables change. This sometimes means speaking powerfully about what one might do to make things different as per the request of the persons. The place of hope – capacity to see that which is beyond the muddy waters of what is displayed I think is enormously useful. These are difficult things – and most of us do it better and worse at various times.
Jan