I see the problem. It comes back to an age-old limitation in AntConc that it only allows the user to ignore tags, but doesn't allow the user to specify content of interest within a tag.
At the moment, the only way around this limitation is with a clever regex expression that looks behind to find the CONTENT=" and looks forward to find the ". To find <stayed> in the above line, you would use something like the following:
(?<CONTENT=\")Stayed(?=\")
where ?< means look behind and ?= means look forward.
Try it and let me know if it works.
Laurence.