Thank you for your response OpenNota.
In my particular case I am including a few more
<li>s in an
<ul>, so in the end I get something like this:
<ul>
<li>my existing li</li>
<ng-include ...>
<li>the li included on some condition</li>
<li>the li included on some condition</li>
<li>the li included on some condition</li>
<ng-include ...>
<li>the li included on some other condition</li>
<li>the li included on some other condition</li>
</ng-include>
</ng-include>
<ng-include ...>
<li>the li included on yet another condition</li>
<li>the li included on yet another condition</li>
<li>the li included on yet another condition</li>
</ng-include>
</ul>
So putting the ng-include on the element itself seems not to be an option.